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User Topic: Learnings
fireproof
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Default  Posted: 11:17 PM, April 12th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

NB sometimes imply being in a new relationship but I have found you can establish the foundation in ALL relationships. Create new friendships and enjoy life

Do the things you really enjoy and if you don't know go to events and try. You may come across other people with the same interest.

New relationships are mostly effortless. I have no desire to change someone yet I know what I am not able to live with and the rest up for discussion. Time will tell.

Just because something doesn't work out there is a learning to take from it and it opens doors to find what is better suited for you.

No one is more important than you- don't chase. Just be and see what happens.

Be ok with being single there are no guarantees.

No one has it easy whether they show it or not - we are not in a race.

We experience our lives on our own perspective sometimes facing things and sometimes not but it is our life and we live with our choices internally.

Letting go of the past and the future. Doing our best to plan but enjoying the moment.

Opening the door to new possibilities. You might surprise yourself.

Life is short- we are here for life to be enjoyed and for us to contribute to life as a whole. Have fun on your new adventure!

[This message edited by fireproof at 11:19 PM, April 12th (Saturday)]


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Rainbows
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Default  Posted: 9:55 AM, April 13th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

These are great reminders. Thanks for sharing.


There is always a rainbow after every storm.

Posts: 395 | Registered: May 2013 | From: California
better4me
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Default  Posted: 3:55 PM, April 13th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

love this Fireproof.

May I add a couple?
Be gentle with yourself. Show yourself as much compassion as you show other people.

Try something new, something that stretches you and your mind. Take a class, learn a new skill, explore.


DDay 11/17/2010 BW:52
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norabird
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Default  Posted: 9:21 AM, April 14th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

This is great!


Sit. Feast on your life.

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