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User Topic: now the waiting begins.
StillLivin
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Default  Posted: 10:15 PM, April 13th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

He is being served tomorrow morning. He doesn't believe I would change LS to D. He is gonna be pissed cuz it's gonna be a huge blow to his ego. Arrogant as a whole! Sorry, I digress. He will have 20 days to contest. That's 20 days that I will hold my breath. If he doesn't contest, I can file for default and be D'd within 61 days of him being served. Been nervous all day and praying he doesn't contest. Could sure use some calming thoughts and good mojo for 20 days.


I don't need further confirmation of what a fuckwit he is. I already have plenty, thanks very much. -SBB
D: 7/2/2014

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dmari
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Default  Posted: 10:16 PM, April 13th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm sending all my calming energy to you!! I hope he doesn't contest just to piss you off. Continue moving forward StillLivin!!


Me (BS): 43 Children: DD 19, DS 15
Divorced September 30, 2014
"It's always darkest before the dawn ..."

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deena
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Default  Posted: 10:40 PM, April 13th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You are going to be ok.

Things sometimes have a better outcome than we think they will be.
Remember you are stronger now after all of the crap you have gone thru. You are a survivor.


I am on a high right now myself. I just went thru something I thought was going to be horrible and was surprised at how well it went.

((((((((StillLivin))))))))))

And lots of mojo


Relationships are like glass. Sometimes it's
better to leave them broken than to hurt
yourself putting it back together.


Posts: 3056 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: Canada
SBB
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Default  Posted: 6:26 AM, April 14th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Whatever happens you're going to be OK. Don't let this wait set you back - keep moving forward, always forward.

NC is really important right now because he is likely to yank your chain. Give him some of those skinny crickets!!!


I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!

Posts: 5609 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Australia
StillLivin
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Default  Posted: 1:53 PM, April 14th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you for the support everyone.
The process server went to the apartment. His SUV was there. He wouldn't come to the door.
Crap as if paying for an attorney and process server wasn't enough. Now I'm going to have to pay extra for the wait hours for the server to wait around for him to come out of the house.
This sucks.
Why won't he let me D him? HE wanted this shit. I wanted to work on the M up until the day he walked out on me.

The process server will try two more times at no cost to me. He is an a..whole.


I don't need further confirmation of what a fuckwit he is. I already have plenty, thanks very much. -SBB
D: 7/2/2014

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Cookie7088
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Default  Posted: 2:40 PM, April 14th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

The process server went to the apartment. His SUV was there. He wouldn't come to the door.

It's at this time, I wish someone could pull a fire alarm...

Funnier, knock at the door, and tell him someone is towing away his vehicle...

I have felt your pain, sister!


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norabird
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Default  Posted: 3:57 PM, April 14th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((StillLivin))))

I know the next 20 days will seem long--but you are getting so close to the finish line!! Hang in there!!


Sit. Feast on your life.

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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 4:00 PM, April 14th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending you good mojo. Even if he does contest it, you will be ok, honey. Promise. ((((StillLivin))))


You can call me NIK

"If you carry joy in your heart, you can heal any moment."
- Carlos Santana


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StillLivin
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Default  Posted: 6:47 PM, April 14th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

@ Cookie7088, hmmmm wonder if it is some kind of criminal offense to pull a fire alarm???? JK
@norabird, the 20 day countdown doesn't start until AFTER he is served...right now he is avoiding service. Go figure.
@ NIK. I know I will survive. Right now, I've done everything I an to work towards doing the right thing and D'ing his pathetic a..! At this point, as far as I am concerned, I am D'd because I did everything within my power to push the D through.
I'm unemployed, so no extra money to be trying to pay hundreds to thousands of dollars chasing him down to have him served.
I was afraid he would act stupid...it's been his MO so far. Jerkface a..whole!


I don't need further confirmation of what a fuckwit he is. I already have plenty, thanks very much. -SBB
D: 7/2/2014

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Cookie7088
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Default  Posted: 8:01 PM, April 14th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

@ Cookie7088, hmmmm wonder if it is some kind of criminal offense to pull a fire alarm???? JK

Oh, hell....only if you get caught...I mean, after all, even if you do...somewhere there's millions of excuses used everyday...we've heard them all....


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Tripletrouble
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Default  Posted: 8:11 PM, April 14th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Good mojo coming your way!


40 somethings - me BW after 20 years
D Day April 2013
Divorced November 2013

Be happy with what you have while you work for what you want - Hellen Keller


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StillLivin
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Default  Posted: 10:30 PM, April 14th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you triple!
Cookie, Bwahahaha....sounds right, just don't get caught!


I don't need further confirmation of what a fuckwit he is. I already have plenty, thanks very much. -SBB
D: 7/2/2014

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