Topic: Now DS is missing...
Member # 19258
| Posted: 1:10 PM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014|
OMG OMG OMG i am so unbelievably sorry.
i am just heartbroken for you. please let us know if there is anything you need.
But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned
“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler
Posts: 8459 | Registered: Apr 2008
Member # 19197
| Posted: 1:17 PM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014|
I have no words for such great tragedy. I am so very sorry, and I can't even imagine the unrelenting sorrow in your heart.
Married 30 yrs. w/ 2 grown kids
Dday 1: Very early 2007
Dday 2: Mid 2008 (same MOW, 14 month false R)
The affair was the aberration, not the marriage or the man.
Posts: 817 | Registered: Apr 2008
Member # 22421
| Posted: 1:18 PM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014|
Thoughts and prayers are with you.
Every new beginning comes from some other beginnings end.
Posts: 293 | Registered: Jan 2009
Member # 18522
| Posted: 1:22 PM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014|
Dear Phoenix. There are no words. Tears fall from my eyes. My mother's heart breaks for you.
2 kids: DD15 and DS18
Him: The Assclown NPD
OW: "friend" of 15 years
Divorced! Feb. 2010
Everybody, soon or late, sits down to a banquet of consequences.
~Robert Louis Stevenson
Posts: 7824 | Registered: Mar 2008 | From: SoCal
Member # 33457
| Posted: 1:24 PM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014|
((((Phoenix)))) I'm so sorry. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Posts: 1767 | Registered: Sep 2011
Member # 12166
| Posted: 1:26 PM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014|
I have been thinking of you and your family daily. I can't believe this, I just can't. DS is in my prayers, as are you.
Posts: 3155 | Registered: Sep 2006
Member # 33128
| Posted: 1:28 PM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014|
I am in tears of your loss. I can not imagine what you are going through. I wish so badly I could take it all from you and your family.
Please know we are here and pray for and your'.
I have no words
DD 20 and DS 15
Separated Aug 2012
Moved back home Oct 31 2013
Separated again June 2014. Heading toward divorce.
False R. Still Lying.
"You never know how strong you are until being strong is all you have left"
Posts: 2782 | Registered: Aug 2011
Member # 42092
| Posted: 1:31 PM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014|
There are no words.
Phoenix, I know it is little comfort, but I am thinking of your DS and you and your family. It is a tragedy that defies any attempt to make sense of it. What a huge and undeserved loss. No one should have to suffer this. We are all holding you in our thoughts and sending you strength and whatever peace is possible in this situation.
Sit. Feast on your life.
Posts: 4196 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: NYC
Member # 14576
| Posted: 1:32 PM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014|
No words, my dear Phoenix, just tons of hugs and prayers.
I am so very sorry.
Me - 49; FWH - 51
Married 30 years 9/2/13
2 grown daughters-30 & 27
5yo GS & 20 mo. and 2 mo. GD (DD30) and 2.5 yo GD(DD27). D-day #1 - 1/06; D-day #2 - 3/07
Reconciled! Construction Complete.
Posts: 5076 | Registered: May 2007
Member # 33247
| Posted: 1:40 PM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014|
Since I have no words that could possibly comfort you right now Phoenix, know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. ((phoenix and family))
Dday: June 2011
Working on R, one day at a time
The best way to find out if you can trust somebody is to trust them.”
― Ernest Hemingway
Posts: 950 | Registered: Aug 2011
Member # 33338
| Posted: 1:41 PM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014|
Oh my goodness... I am so very sorry for all of your loss, Phoenix. I cannot imagine what you are going through and I just don't understand any of this.
Hugs and prayers.
Him, 40 (JMSSC)
married 17 years. In R. We are making it. The past does not define who we are today.
Posts: 2779 | Registered: Sep 2011 | From: South Carolina
Member # 26970
| Posted: 1:45 PM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014|
..there is just no way to understand this kind of tragedy ..unspeakable pain and sorrow..
..may God somehow bring peace to you and your family
trust no other human- love only your pets
She isn't and never was who I thought..I can't believe who I married and what she did to us.
Married 42 yrs (together 47)
18 yr LTA with bf
Posts: 4129 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: the sad state of affairs
Member # 32554
| Posted: 1:47 PM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014|
There are no words anymore.
Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - I DIVORCED HIM, I'M FREE!
Posts: 9821 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
Member # 34835
| Posted: 1:48 PM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014|
My heart is breaking for you Phoenix. I am sitting here bawling. I wish there were something I could offer you but I know there is not.
Please know we are here for you through all this. I can not imagine your heartache but we all are here for you through all this.
You and your family are in my prayers.
((((((((((((((((((((Phoenix and family))))))))))))))))))
Posts: 231 | Registered: Feb 2012
Member # 11185
| Posted: 1:49 PM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014|
You and your family are in my thoughts. I am so very, very sorry.
BW -- 57
Re-married 2014--on what would have been our 35th anniversary
Posts: 426 | Registered: Jul 2006 | From: NC
Member # 17484
| Posted: 2:00 PM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014|
Oh (((Phoenix))) I am so sorry.
Posts: 6644 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: texas
Member # 25001
| Posted: 2:02 PM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014|
Phoenix, I started this message a few ways, I just don't have the words to express how sad I am for you and your family.
Sending you (((hugs))) and strength to get through this difficult time.
Me - BS, 39 (I'm not old...I'm vintage)
Two Wonderful children - DS10, DD7
Married, for now... (4+ D-Day - listed in profile.)
Posts: 5854 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: In the darkest depths of hell!
Member # 10180
| Posted: 2:04 PM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014|
I am so very sorry. There are no words for the losses you are enduring. My thoughts and prayers are and will continue to be with you.
Posts: 1635 | Registered: Mar 2006
Member # 26531
| Posted: 2:09 PM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014|
I am so very sorry.
Me: BSO - 46
Him: FWSO - 69
DS - 13
D-Day - 12-11-09,
R - he finally came home
Your life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"
Posts: 24595 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Florida
Member # 38337
| Posted: 2:10 PM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014|
Oh Phoenix, I am so terribly sorry to hear this unbelievable tragedy. Praying for you and your family.
Lies are manipulations. Always.
Posts: 387 | Registered: Feb 2013
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