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hexed
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Default  Posted: 1:10 PM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

OMG OMG OMG i am so unbelievably sorry.

((((Phoenix))))

i am just heartbroken for you. please let us know if there is anything you need.


But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned

“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler


Posts: 8439 | Registered: Apr 2008
lostworld
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Member # 19197
Default  Posted: 1:17 PM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I have no words for such great tragedy. I am so very sorry, and I can't even imagine the unrelenting sorrow in your heart.


Me: BS
Him: FWH
Married 30 yrs. w/ 2 grown kids
Dday 1: Very early 2007
Dday 2: Mid 2008 (same MOW, 14 month false R)
R'd
The affair was the aberration, not the marriage or the man.

Posts: 811 | Registered: Apr 2008
copout
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Member # 22421
Default  Posted: 1:18 PM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thoughts and prayers are with you.


Every new beginning comes from some other beginnings end.

Posts: 290 | Registered: Jan 2009
woundedby2
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Member # 18522
Default  Posted: 1:22 PM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Dear Phoenix. There are no words. Tears fall from my eyes. My mother's heart breaks for you.


Me: BS
2 kids: DD15 and DS18
Him: The Assclown NPD
OW: "friend" of 15 years
Divorced! Feb. 2010

Everybody, soon or late, sits down to a banquet of consequences.
~Robert Louis Stevenson


Posts: 7804 | Registered: Mar 2008 | From: SoCal
DixieD
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Member # 33457
Default  Posted: 1:24 PM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((Phoenix)))) I'm so sorry. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.


Growing forward

Posts: 1767 | Registered: Sep 2011
hill
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Member # 12166
Default  Posted: 1:26 PM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((Phoenix)))

I have been thinking of you and your family daily. I can't believe this, I just can't. DS is in my prayers, as are you.


Posts: 3151 | Registered: Sep 2006
Faithful w/Love
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Member # 33128
Default  Posted: 1:28 PM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((((Phoenix)))))
I am in tears of your loss. I can not imagine what you are going through. I wish so badly I could take it all from you and your family.
Please know we are here and pray for and your'.

I have no words


BS(ME)40 WH(HIM)38
DD 19 and DS 15
Separated Aug 2012
Moved back home Oct 31 2013
False R. Still Lying.
Will be divorcing soon!
"You never know how strong you are until being strong is the only choice you have"!

Posts: 2661 | Registered: Aug 2011
norabird
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Default  Posted: 1:31 PM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

There are no words.

Phoenix, I know it is little comfort, but I am thinking of your DS and you and your family. It is a tragedy that defies any attempt to make sense of it. What a huge and undeserved loss. No one should have to suffer this. We are all holding you in our thoughts and sending you strength and whatever peace is possible in this situation.

((((Phoenix)))))


Sit. Feast on your life.

Posts: 4089 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: NYC
Lalagirl
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Default  Posted: 1:32 PM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

No words, my dear Phoenix, just tons of hugs and prayers.

I am so very sorry.


Me - 49; FWH - 51
Married 30 years 9/2/13
2 grown daughters-30 & 27
5yo GS & 20 mo. GD & GB #4 due 8/15(DD30) and 2.5 yo GD(DD27). D-day #1 - 1/06; D-day #2 - 3/07
Reconciled! Construction Complete.

Posts: 5027 | Registered: May 2007
boontje
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Member # 33247
Default  Posted: 1:40 PM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Since I have no words that could possibly comfort you right now Phoenix, know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. ((phoenix and family))


Me: BS
Dday: June 2011
Working on R, one day at a time

The best way to find out if you can trust somebody is to trust them.”
― Ernest Hemingway



Posts: 934 | Registered: Aug 2011
HFSSC
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Member # 33338
Default  Posted: 1:41 PM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh my goodness... I am so very sorry for all of your loss, Phoenix. I cannot imagine what you are going through and I just don't understand any of this.

Hugs and prayers.


Me, 47
Him, 40 (JMSSC)
married 17 years. In R. We are making it. The past does not define who we are today.

Posts: 2710 | Registered: Sep 2011 | From: South Carolina
somanyyears
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Member # 26970
Default  Posted: 1:45 PM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

..

..there is just no way to understand this kind of tragedy ..unspeakable pain and sorrow..

..may God somehow bring peace to you and your family

smy


trust no other human- love only your pets
She isn't and never was who I thought..I can't believe who I married and what she did to us.
Me 67
Her 63
Married 42 yrs (together 47)
18 yr LTA with bf


Posts: 4120 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: the sad state of affairs
Nature_Girl
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Member # 32554
Default  Posted: 1:47 PM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh Phoenix....

There are no words anymore.

((((HUGS)))


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - I DIVORCED HIM, I'M FREE!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RBOJpIwF47Y

Posts: 9538 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
AgainandAgain
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Default  Posted: 1:48 PM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My heart is breaking for you Phoenix. I am sitting here bawling. I wish there were something I could offer you but I know there is not.

Please know we are here for you through all this. I can not imagine your heartache but we all are here for you through all this.

You and your family are in my prayers.

((((((((((((((((((((Phoenix and family))))))))))))))))))


Posts: 231 | Registered: Feb 2012
Afraid2LoveAgain
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Default  Posted: 1:49 PM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You and your family are in my thoughts. I am so very, very sorry.


BW -- 57
Divorced 2001
Re-married 2014--on what would have been our 35th anniversary

Posts: 413 | Registered: Jul 2006 | From: NC
jjct
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Member # 17484
Default  Posted: 2:00 PM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh (((Phoenix))) I am so sorry.

Posts: 6538 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: texas
simplydevastated
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Default  Posted: 2:02 PM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Phoenix, I started this message a few ways, I just don't have the words to express how sad I am for you and your family.

Sending you (((hugs))) and strength to get through this difficult time.


Me - BS, 39 (I'm not old...I'm vintage)
Two Wonderful children - DS10, DD7
Married, for now... (4+ D-Day - listed in profile.)

Posts: 5854 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: In the darkest depths of hell!
sunandmoon
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Default  Posted: 2:04 PM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((phoenix)))

I am so very sorry. There are no words for the losses you are enduring. My thoughts and prayers are and will continue to be with you.

sunandmoon


Posts: 1634 | Registered: Mar 2006
jrc1963
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Member # 26531
Default  Posted: 2:09 PM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am so very sorry.


Me: BSO - 46
Him: FWSO - 69
DS - 13
D-Day - 12-11-09,
R - he finally came home
Your life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"

Posts: 24452 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Florida
Edith
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Member # 38337
Default  Posted: 2:10 PM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh Phoenix, I am so terribly sorry to hear this unbelievable tragedy. Praying for you and your family.

E.


Lies are manipulations. Always.

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