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User Topic: Now DS is missing...
JanaGreen
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Default  Posted: 2:10 PM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am so very very sorry for your loss.


We're both in our 30s. One awesome 4-year-old daughter.

Posts: 6536 | Registered: Aug 2010 | From: Somewhere in the South
metamorphisis
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Default  Posted: 2:11 PM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I can't begin to make sense of this. I want this to not be true for you so very very badly. My mothers heart breaks. I have nothing. No words powerful enough.



“We don't see things as they are; we see them as we are.”... Anais Nin

Posts: 43931 | Registered: Sep 2006
little turtle
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Default  Posted: 2:13 PM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((((((Phoenix))))))))
How did this happen?? I wish I had the words. I'm so sorry.


Failure is success if we learn from it.

Posts: 4131 | Registered: Aug 2007 | From: michigan
ExposedNiblet
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Default  Posted: 2:15 PM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am so very sorry for your loss, Phoenix. There are no words.

My thoughts and prayers are with you.


Divorced
Me ($39.95 plus S & H)
DS1(17), DS2(15)

Enjoying this chapter in my life.
Learning that being alone does not mean being lonely.
Discovering that where I've been is not as important as where I'm going.


Posts: 355 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: Right Here, Canada
Williesmom
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Default  Posted: 2:15 PM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm so, so sorry.


You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

Posts: 7423 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Western PA
Mack9512
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Default  Posted: 2:15 PM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am so, so sorry. My heart is crying for you and your family.


"If you're brave enough to say goodbye, life will reward you with a new hello." - Paulo Coehlo

Posts: 374 | Registered: Mar 2013 | From: East Coast
clba317
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Default  Posted: 2:16 PM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((((Phoenix))))) There are no words. You and your family are in my prayers!


BS
DS9,DS5
M 11, D 8/1/05- not soon enough!

Posts: 216 | Registered: Nov 2005 | From: NY
Pentup
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Default  Posted: 2:23 PM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh Phoenix, I can only pray that you feel the love from so many that have been praying and hoping with you. No words can capture the sorrow. Crying with you and for you.


Me- BS
Him- FWS (I hope- F)

Posts: 6420 | Registered: Aug 2008 | From: Not Oz
Charity411
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Default  Posted: 2:25 PM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((phoenix)))) I can't even wrap my brain around this. Prayer for you and yours is all I can offer.

Posts: 274 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: Illinois
lost_in_toronto
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Default  Posted: 2:31 PM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((phoenix and family))))


Me: BS/39
Him: WS/37
DDay: August 23, 2009
Together 14 years.
Reconciled.

Posts: 1652 | Registered: Sep 2009 | From: not toronto anymore
thebighurt
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Default  Posted: 2:40 PM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am crying and my heart is breaking for you. I, too, have no words for this unrelenting, unimaginable hurt and grief you are feeling. Please let others help you as you learn to cope with this. You said you are not sleeping or eating; PLEASE seek help or at least allow people to help. I'm worried about YOU. ((((((((Phoenix and family))))))))


Finding what life could have been....... Why didn't I see it?

Posts: 2184 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: the Other Side
knutz
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Default  Posted: 2:42 PM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am so sorry for your loss. You and your family have suffered enough. I know they say that God doesn't give us more than we can bear, but how much can one family take? You and your family are in my prayers.


Together 23 years
Married 20 Years
BW (me) 48
FWH: 49 (rSA)
2 children, 9 & 12
DDay: December 27, 2009
"Life is not what it is supposed to be. It is what it is. The way we cope with it is what makes the difference". Virginia Satir

Posts: 201 | Registered: Jun 2010 | From: New England
yewtree
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Default  Posted: 2:48 PM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm so sorry Phoenix.So very sorry.


Me(BS)45(at the time of D-day)

Divorced 2009, Closing on house Nov 2011 -
No longer waiting for the other "she" to drop.


Posts: 4623 | Registered: Oct 2007
trying_2_recover
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Default  Posted: 2:51 PM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My heart breaks for your family. This is so much loss. I am so sorry. You are in my thoughts.

Posts: 205 | Registered: Jun 2010 | From: Washington
cantaccept
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Default  Posted: 2:57 PM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Phoenix, I am so very sorry for your loss. I wish there were words to express it. I wish there were something I could do to help.

If there is, please say the word.

Again, so very sorry.


Life is change. Growth is optional. Choose wisely.

I would now like to be known as Can!

dday October 21,2012
dday December 20, 2013
wh boots5050
attempted R, it was all a lie

divorcing


Posts: 1241 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: Connecticut
yearsofpain25
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Default  Posted: 2:57 PM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

There are no words for this.

I'm so sorry (((((Phoenix1)))))


25 years and counting of pain caused by mother's infidelity. Aftermath: 1 deceased sibling, 1 lost family, 3 lost souls.
"Each new day I am just glad to be alive and have survived all that I did." Ashland13

Posts: 1822 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: Northeast US
Ellejay
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Default  Posted: 3:00 PM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Phoenix. Along with everyone else, my heart is breaking for you. I cannot offer anything other than prayers.


Ellejay


Married 25 years now divorced.
D-Day: 20/11/10
Me: 48.5 plus 10% GST
Him: mental age 6 (apologies to all 6 year olds)
Betrayal: Who cares anymore?

Posts: 1087 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Adelaide, South Australia
Holly-Isis
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Default  Posted: 3:04 PM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((Phoenix and family))))

My heart is broken for you and yours. I wish there was a time machine so we could bring him back. I can't imagine the depth of your grief.

You have been and will continue to be in my prayers.


"Being in love" first moved them to promise fidelity: this quieter love enables them to keep the promise. *CS Lewis*

❣I hope my issues don't discourage ur healing. I've buried a lot & my WH hasn't done his part in R❣


Posts: 10985 | Registered: Jan 2007 | From: Limbo
GreatRoleModel
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Default  Posted: 3:05 PM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I just saw this I am so very sorry for your loss and prayers for you and your family.
(((Phoenix)))


BS (me)
XWS (him) NPD
DIVORCED!!!
It takes a village to deal with the village idiot!

Posts: 290 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: NC
TrustNoOne
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Default  Posted: 3:08 PM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((Phoenix and family))))



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