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dameia
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Default  Posted: 3:09 PM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Phoenix I am so very sorry for your loss. Words are inadequate to express how terrible this is. I will keep you, your family, and your son in my prayers.


Me: BS
D-Day: 7/7/12

One should rather die than be betrayed. There is no deceit in death. It delivers precisely what it has promised. Betrayal, though ... betrayal is the willful slaughter of hope. ~Steven Deitz


Posts: 1110 | Registered: Jul 2012
Unagie
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Default  Posted: 3:15 PM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh phoenix I am so sorry. My prayers are with you and your family.


Heartbroken madhatter trying to rebuild

No longer together

Do not let others be your reference for who you see in the mirror.

Stop allowing people to hurt you, because you don't love you enough to walk away.


Posts: 2697 | Registered: Oct 2012
MadeOfScars
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Member # 42231
Default  Posted: 3:17 PM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((phoenix and family))))

I am so, so very sorry for what you and your family are going through. I cannot imagine. Just know we're sending you all the prayers and strength we possibly can.


"Let me not beg for the stilling of my pain, but for the heart to conquer it. ― Rabindranath Tagore

Posts: 940 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: Texas
jackie89
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Default  Posted: 3:41 PM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am so so sorry.
My heart is broken for you. I wished there was a way for all of us to take your pain away.


Separated/divorcing

"The Secret of Change is to focus all your energy - not on fighting the old, but on building the new" ~~Lori Greiner FB post~~


Posts: 465 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Pennsylvania
stroppy_wanadoo
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Default  Posted: 3:43 PM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Phoenix and family)))

You have my deepest condolences. My heart hurts so much for you. May God send peace to you and your family.


Posts: 1015 | Registered: Jul 2006
tushnurse
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Default  Posted: 3:43 PM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((Phoenix)))))

This is just heartbreaking. May your family, friends and faith wrap you in warm comfort as you deal with this grief.

We are here, and will support you. This kind of tragedy is beyond any level of pain any one person should have to endure.

((((and strength))))


Me: FBS
Him: FWS
Kids: 15 & 17
Married for 22 years now, was 16 at the time. .
D-Day Sept 26 2008
Fully R'd, and Happy Happy Happy

Posts: 8100 | Registered: Oct 2008 | From: St. Louis
5454real
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Default  Posted: 3:52 PM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

condolences are not enough right now. I offer you every bit of strength I can send. I haven't cried in quite a while, but I am now.

(((( Phoenix and family))))


BH 51, WW 42
DS 23(Mine),SD 21,SS 20(Hers),DS 9 Ours, DGS 3, DGD 1 mo
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 10yrs
I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone.
― Sophocles, Antigone

Posts: 2684 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: midwest
SunsetLost
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Default  Posted: 3:53 PM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My heart is breaking for you Phoenix.. prayers for you and your family. ((((Phoenix))))


Me-BS 42, WH 44: married 15 years
Kids 2 (15 yrs and 4 yrs)
D-Day 11/15/2008
Divorced 8/23/2010

Posts: 223 | Registered: Jan 2004 | From: Michigan
sadcat
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Default  Posted: 4:00 PM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh no... Phoenix I am so sorry. I will keep you and your family in my thoughts.


I need not suffer in silence while I can still moan, whimper and complain.

If this isn't what I consider soulmate crap, I don't know what is.


Posts: 13226 | Registered: Oct 2005 | From: GA
BeHappyAgain
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Default  Posted: 4:20 PM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

:( You and your family are in my prayers. So many hugs for you.

Posts: 98 | Registered: Nov 2013
LAFA
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Default  Posted: 4:33 PM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.


When you put someone on a pedestal, they quickly learn two things. The view is mighty good from up there, and it is a fine vantage from which to kick.

Posts: 183 | Registered: Apr 2011 | From: Hawaii
CheaterMagnet
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Default  Posted: 4:33 PM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh Phoenix, I am just so unbearably sorry for your loss. As others have said, there are no words. I hope you can feel some of the love and support that we are all sending to you during this waking nightmare. Please lean on us. I know that every one of us would give everything to bring him back or to ease your pain. Just know that we are here. All of us. And we love you.


If Happy Ever After did exist, I would still be holding you like this.
All those fairly tales are full of shit.
One more fucking love song I'll be sick. ~ Maroon 5

Posts: 1006 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: Kailua-Kona, HI
timehelps_me
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Default  Posted: 4:43 PM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((Phoenix & family))
I am so very sorry.


Me/BS: 46
Him/FWS: 49
married 18 years
Dday: June 27, 2005

Posts: 45 | Registered: Dec 2006 | From: Ohio
feelsgaslighted
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Default  Posted: 4:46 PM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My prayers are with you, I am so sorry.


Not all who wander are aimless. Especially not those who seek truth beyond tradition, beyond definition, beyond the image.
Betty Warren- Mona Lisa Smile

Posts: 265 | Registered: Apr 2008 | From: South
Kodi
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Default  Posted: 4:52 PM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Phoenix and family)))

Posts: 1345 | Registered: Sep 2007
stunnedin12
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Default  Posted: 4:57 PM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh, Phoenix.

I am so sorry. So very sorry.


ME - Betrayed Spouse
Him - Wayward spouse
Not sure, but trying I guess.

Posts: 450 | Registered: Jan 2013
JustOneMoreDay
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Default  Posted: 5:05 PM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Phoenix)))

There are no words.


Me -BS 39
Him-WS 38
Dday #1 February 14, 2003 EA(not a typo. He did it AGAIN eleven years later)
Dday #2 March 17, 2014 LT PA
Dday #3 June 29, 2014(found evidence something had gone on with his sister's best friend)
Dying Inside and in limbo

Posts: 106 | Registered: Mar 2014
Kelany
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Default  Posted: 5:05 PM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am so sorry for the loss of your son. My thoughts are with you and your family.


BS - Me
SA/FWH Him
DDay 1 - Jul 11
DDay 2 - Jul 12
R Dec 12

Former 80s Icon wishful thinking


Posts: 2031 | Registered: Feb 2012
annb
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Default  Posted: 5:07 PM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

No words, tears for you and your family. I cannot fathom the depth of sorrow you are feeling.

Sending prayers.


Posts: 7449 | Registered: Jan 2009 | From: Northeast
TrustedHer
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Default  Posted: 5:08 PM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I can't imagine.

So sorry for your loss. Your losses.


Take care of yourself. There's a great future out there. It won't come to you; you have to go to it.

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