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User Topic: Now DS is missing...
cmego
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Default  Posted: 5:08 PM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((Phoenix))))


me...BS, 44 years old, 2 small kids
WS, 41, multiple gay affairs
M 15 years, together 17
Divorced


Posts: 4231 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: South
Lola2kids
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Default  Posted: 5:11 PM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I wish I had more than words of condolence to offer you right now.
As a mother too, my heart is broken for you.
I hope you are with someone who will take care of you in this trying time.
A million healing hugs.
I wish I could do more.


BS: (Me) 47
Kids: twins DD(10)
D-Day April 18, 2011
Him:out Sept. 11, 2011
He moved to Europe June 27, 2014.
"They say that absence makes the heart grow fonder but I am growing more and more fond of his absence"

Posts: 1460 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: Ontario, Canada
PurpleRose
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Default  Posted: 5:18 PM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

How unbelievable... I am so sorry. My thoughts are with your family. :(


divorced the Dooosh
*****************************
even if you find your voice,
sometimes it does not matter anymore,
when you speak to a man who is deaf by choice.
~dodinsky

Posts: 3631 | Registered: Aug 2011 | From: Happyville
LoveActually
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Default  Posted: 5:19 PM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Phoenix)))

This is beyond comprehension...I'm so very sorry.


BS (Me)
WS (Him)
D-Day 5/29/09
Married 11 yrs, together 16 yrs

Posts: 785 | Registered: Jan 2011
caregiver9000
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Default  Posted: 5:23 PM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh (((Phoenix)))

I am so very sorry! Tears and heartbreak here as well. I wish all of us sharing your pain would make yours more bearable. Unimaginable really...


Me: 44, independent, happy, despite co-parenting with a lower muppet
FT "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
DS 13 DS 10
S 5/2010
D 12/2012

Posts: 5918 | Registered: May 2010 | From: a better place
tesla
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Default  Posted: 5:32 PM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh god, no. No. No. No.
I just saw this and I'm sending all my thoughts out your way.
(((((((((hugs)))))))))

((((((((((((((((more hugs)))))))))))))))


"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

Posts: 4746 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Indiana
GabyBaby
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Default  Posted: 5:33 PM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

OMG...how much is one family supposed to take?!
My heart broke reading this.

((( Phoenix and family )))


Me - 42
SorryInSac (STBX WH#2) - 47. DDay 7/12/14
Married 4, together 7yrs total
Status - Done

DD(21), DS(18, PDD-NOS)
6 Furkids - 4 dogs, 2 cats

WXH (serial cheater, 12+ OW) - Legally married 18yrs

I edit often for clarity/typos.


Posts: 6695 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: California
Random thoughts
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Default  Posted: 5:35 PM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am so very sorry for your loss Phoenix,, prayers to you your girls and family members.....


Those three words are said too much and not enough.
Chasing Cars-Snow Patrol.
FWW

Posts: 1614 | Registered: Dec 2003 | From: Some where in New Jersey
childofcheater
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Default  Posted: 5:36 PM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My heart breaks for you and your family (((Phoenix)))


Me: 37 yo, him 36
Married 14 years together 18
3 kids: DD10, DD7, DS4
DDay 2/9/12 found suspicious text to coworker
Status: in R, work in progress

Posts: 316 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: East Coast
Hurtm
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Default  Posted: 5:46 PM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I have no words Phoenix. Just lots of hugs and love.


DD day October 17th (my birthday, lucky me)
Married 9 years, two kids (4 1/2 and 21 months)
He moved out and we're heading for divorce. Currently working through all the fun legal stuff

Posts: 60 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: Ontario
SBB
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Default  Posted: 5:48 PM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Dear god. This is too much. Too much.

Phoenix - I have no words. No words. I am sitting here in disbelief and grief. Sending you all of the love and strength I can muster. I want you to wake up and have this all be a terrible nightmare.

I just can't believe it. I am so very sorry.


I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!

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jadedheart
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Default  Posted: 6:04 PM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

still praying! My heart is so heavy for you!


Me 45
FWH 47
DS11, DD18, DS21(they know nothing about A)
Married 23 years together 25
Dday 09/24/2010
"You can't control how others behave, you can only control your reaction."

Posts: 980 | Registered: May 2011 | From: Indiana
Crescita
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Default  Posted: 6:24 PM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So, so sorry Phoenix.


“Happiness cannot be pursued; it must ensue.” ― Viktor E. Frankl, Man's Search for Meaning

Posts: 3533 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: The Valley of the Sun
still2suspicious
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Default  Posted: 6:27 PM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Just saw the news feed. My heart is breaking for you, phoenix.

I cannot express my deep condolences to you, and your family.

No one should have to carry so much burden, but we are all here for you. Wish we could all actually be with you in person.

Sending prayers, and hugs, and more prayers.

Sending strength.


Me: BS
Him: WH
DDay: LTEA

Posts: 1330 | Registered: Apr 2011 | From:
BrokenPieces
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Default  Posted: 6:28 PM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

There are no words.. I am so, so sorry. I'm praying for your family and loved ones. I can't even imagine.


BS-40
Red Headed Imps 10 & 8
DDay 1/05
Divorce final 6/21/06
My new life is GRAND.
Married my new beginning 6/09

Posts: 2290 | Registered: Jul 2005 | From: Greater Seattle Area
cryingdaily
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Default  Posted: 6:34 PM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I have no words. I'm so sorry.


Me: BS 48
Him: Doesn't matter any more.
The Royal Court, formerly known as the Princess Posse:
DD31 - Belle
DD23 - Xena
GD10 - Jasmine
GD8 - Ariel
GD Born 9/4/12 - Tink
GS Born 6/23/2014 - Little Prince

Posts: 14400 | Registered: Jun 2005 | From: Massachusetts
purplejacket4
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Default  Posted: 6:42 PM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So very sorry. Hugs to you and your family.


Me: BS 45
Her: fWS 48 (same sex partner)
Together: 18 years now (both MDs)
OW: meh so what 40s PhD
DD1: 10/30/11EA; DD2: 11/10/11 Had ONS; TT until 12/26/11; broke NC 6/12; NC again 7/12; R-ish

Posts: 2312 | Registered: Dec 2011 | From: Great Southwest
Grace and Flowers
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Default  Posted: 6:57 PM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh, Phoenix,
I saw the news link and you sweet, precious, beautiful boy. My boys are 20 as well. I can only imagine the depths of grief you and all your family must be feeling, with so many losses at once. I'm angry and heartbroken, and can only send you love and many, many prayers. I hope our SI hugs will help hold you up.
((((Phoenix and family)))))

[This message edited by Grace and Flowers at 10:47 PM, April 15th (Tuesday)]


I'm Happy, not Sad!

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Too_Trusting
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Default  Posted: 7:03 PM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((((Phoenix & family)))))

I'm so incredibly sorry for your loss. This is just incomprehensible. My heart is breaking for you and your family. This is more than anyone should have to bear. Please let your SI family give you prayers and strength to get through this. I simply cannot imagine the heartbreak you are experiencing. Sending thoughts and prayers for you and your family.


"Anyone perfect must be lying; anything easy has its cost. Anyone plain can be lovely; anyone loved can be lost." Barenaked Ladies

Posts: 2491 | Registered: Jun 2002 | From: North Carolina
gma56
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Sad  Posted: 7:04 PM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


(((Phoenix and family)))
I'm so sorry to hear the news about your DS, brother, and S-I-L.

Sending prayers for you and your family to have the strength you all need to get through each moment.
Hugs
Gma


BW-Divorced
It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. That is priceless.

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