Topic: Now DS is missing...
Member # 33581
| Posted: 7:09 PM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014|
Oh Phoenix, I just saw the update on the news. I am SO SORRY!!!!!! Please PM me if there is ANYTHING I can do for you. I have family and friends in the area and I know they would gladly do anything they can to help.
I am just so unutterably sorry.
If Happy Ever After did exist, I would still be holding you like this.
All those fairly tales are full of shit.
One more fucking love song I'll be sick. ~ Maroon 5
Posts: 1017 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: Kailua-Kona, HI
Member # 33226
| Posted: 7:15 PM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014|
I am so very sorry. You and your beautiful boy are all I can think about, Phoenix. The loss is unfathomable. I hope you can feel us surrounding you in love and light.
You can call me NIK
"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
Posts: 25018 | Registered: Aug 2011
Member # 19258
| Posted: 7:19 PM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014|
There are not enough hugs, prayers or words to make this right. I just saw the news report on TV about your beautiful son and I'm crying with you and for you.
As others have said, if you need anything....
But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned
“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler
Posts: 8439 | Registered: Apr 2008
Member # 41837
| Posted: 7:24 PM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014|
I am so sorry Phoenix. My heart goes out to you and you family. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Me- BS 44 Always faithfull
Him- WS 44
2 mo. EA/PA with 25 yr. old slut that stroked his ego, online profiles, CL ads
Married 8 years-No kids together
False R many different times fromJan/13 till Dec/13
Posts: 148 | Registered: Dec 2013 | From: Northern Indiana
Member # 37215
| Posted: 7:32 PM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014|
((((( Phoenix1 )))))
I am so sorry.
Me (BS): 42 Children: DD 18, DS 15
Settled at mediation
Officially divorced ... SOON!
Posts: 2146 | Registered: Oct 2012
Member # 35846
| Posted: 8:01 PM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014|
I am so sorry for your loss
[This message edited by karmahappens at 11:48 PM, April 15th (Tuesday)]
“And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom”
We have R'd
Posts: 3793 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: Massachusetts
Member # 41741
| Posted: 8:09 PM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014|
(((Phoenix))) Words cannot express my sorrow for your loss. I am so, so terribly sorry. Holding you and your family up in prayer.
Me BS mid-late 30s
Him WS knocking on 40 (lovemywife4ever)
blended family with lots of kiddos
together 5 years, married 8/13
D day 12/1/13
WH ONS had been 4/12
Getting ME back and moving to HAPPY - whatever that means
I want out!
Posts: 885 | Registered: Dec 2013
Member # 36134
| Posted: 8:13 PM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014|
I am so sorry. I'm holding you and your family in my prayers.
I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.
Posts: 5014 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Florida
Member # 36697
| Posted: 8:18 PM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014|
Words fail me...
Posts: 1656 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Baja Arizona
Member # 38384
| Posted: 8:21 PM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014|
How incredibly sad. Phoenix, I am so very sorry.
He: 47 WH
Married: 15 years
D Day: December 2012
Affair: Fall 2009 - Dec. 2011
R is not linear
Posts: 2228 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: Canada, eh
Member # 32046
| Posted: 8:24 PM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014|
my mother's heart aches for you Phoenix.
DS11, DD18, DS21(they know nothing about A)
Married 23 years together 25
"You can't control how others behave, you can only control your reaction."
Posts: 980 | Registered: May 2011 | From: Indiana
Member # 26071
| Posted: 8:32 PM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014|
Oh Phoenix, I'm so sorry.
D-Day: 6/5/09, drunken ONS on business trip, confessed immediately, transparent, remorseful but emotionally clueless
M 11 years, 3 kids
4/12 Tried to R for 3 years, have decided to D
12/31/12 D final
Posts: 542 | Registered: Nov 2009 | From: PacNW
Member # 19785
| Posted: 8:40 PM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014|
I know there's nothing any of us can say to ease the shock, pain and hell you are in, so I will say this instead. Dear Lord, please have mercy on Phoenix and her family. Please help her reach peace and find comfort., Amen.
I am so very sorry for the loss of your precious son, and for the losses of your brother and sister in law. I'm continuing to hold you up in prayers.
I originally joined SI as a way to help my best friends find ways of coping with infidelity, but now infidelity has touched my family much closer to home.
Posts: 865 | Registered: Jun 2008 | From: Midwest USA
Member # 40516
| Posted: 9:22 PM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014|
I am so sorry. Praying for you.
BW - me 43
WH - 45
M - 23 yrs
D-Day - 6/13/2013
2 DS and 1 DD
There are some things that "sorry" just doesn't fix... But I never even got a "sorry."
Posts: 101 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: Southeast
Member # 22517
| Posted: 9:25 PM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014|
I am so sorry Phoenix. My heart goes out to you and your family. My prayers are with you.
Me- BS 49
Him- WH 51
D Day 3/08
Posts: 492 | Registered: Jan 2009
Member # 35812
| Posted: 9:31 PM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014|
There are just no words in the human language to convey how horribly unfair, how unspeakable this is. I am so incredibly sorry. My prayers go out to you and your family, and my tears are falling for you. (((hugs)))
Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.
D-Day, June 10, 2012
Posts: 4715 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: So California
Member # 23468
| Posted: 9:34 PM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014|
Phoenix, there are no words for this. May you be held close and comforted in your greif. Don't forget to let yourself be supported as you support your family. ((((((((Phoenix))))))) we are here for you.
Posts: 130 | Registered: Apr 2009
Member # 33698
| Posted: 10:24 PM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014|
I am so sorry.
BS (Me) 39
Two DS and One DD
It matters not how strait the gate,/How charged with punishments the scroll./I am the master of my fate:/I am the captain of my soul.--"Invictus," William Ernest Henley
Posts: 3572 | Registered: Oct 2011
Member # 34373
| Posted: 10:39 PM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014|
(((Phoenix))) I am so very sorry. Capital Forest is just down the road from me. Please PM if you need an ear or a place to stay.
Me: 46 BS Divorced
Him: 45 Married OW
5 kids: IrishLass 27,IrishLad 25, IrishLass 23, IrishLad 21 and IrishLad 12
"You can't run from trouble..there ain't no place that far"
Posts: 1722 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: WA
Member # 37089
| Posted: 10:48 PM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014|
(((Phoenix))) I cannot imagine what you and your family must be dealing with right now. I am so so very sorry. You and your family are in my prayers right now and will continue to be. I pray that we here on SI may be of comfort to you as those around you are and you have been to so many here. I will be praying for you daily.
Me:BW, 34/Him:BH, 34/ 3 boys, 5,8,12
4ddays, now Divorced
We are not in Kansas anymore
Posts: 278 | Registered: Oct 2012 | From: NC
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