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ajsmom
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Default  Posted: 8:36 AM, April 14th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((((Phoenix)))))

Covering you in prayer.


AJ's MOM


Fidelity isn't a feeling...it's a choice.

"Truth has no special time of its own. Its hour is now - always." - Albert Schweitzer
____________________________________________
Me: BW - Him: 200+ # tumor removed 7/09
DS - 31 - Yikes!


Posts: 21072 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: Been Through Hell...On My Way Back
Take2
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Default  Posted: 8:57 AM, April 14th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Phoenix))). Lord of mercy - More prayers going up!!


"We must be willing to get rid of the life we've planned, so as to have the life that is waiting for us." Joseph Campbell...So, If fear was not a factor - what would you do?

Posts: 4135 | Registered: May 2009 | From: New England
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 8:58 AM, April 14th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((((Phoenix))))) Sending everything I've got that he'll quickly be found safe. Hold on, honey. We've got you.


You can call me NIK

"If you carry joy in your heart, you can heal any moment."
- Carlos Santana


Posts: 25776 | Registered: Aug 2011
h0peless
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Default  Posted: 9:03 AM, April 14th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I hope he's found safe soon.

Posts: 1736 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Baja Arizona
lost_in_toronto
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Default  Posted: 9:04 AM, April 14th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh Phoenix. This is to much. I hope he is home and safe soon.

((Phoenix))


Me: BS/39
Him: WS/37
DDay: August 23, 2009
Together 14 years.
Reconciled.

Posts: 1679 | Registered: Sep 2009 | From: not toronto anymore
Phoenix1
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Default  Posted: 9:16 AM, April 14th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Still nothing. Planning to jump on a plane as soon as I can tie up loose ends. His father will be going also. He did not report for duty, and he would NEVER do that!!!


BS - Me
XPOS - too many OW/OCs over 20+yrs
Kids - DDs 23,18 -DS20 Deceased
M Dissolved 2013

This above all: to thine own self be true, and it must follow, as the night the day, thou canst not then be false to any man ~ Shakespeare, Hamlet


Posts: 1203 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Rising out of Hell's ashes!
TrustNoOne
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Default  Posted: 9:27 AM, April 14th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((((Phoenix1))))))

Hold on, hun. Hold on to hope. Hold on to faith.

Sending prayers your way.


Posts: 1326 | Registered: Oct 2007 | From: SoCal
somanyyears
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Default  Posted: 9:30 AM, April 14th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


..

((((((((Phoenix and family)))))))))

..sending prayers of hope to you.

smy


trust no other human- love only your pets
She isn't and never was who I thought..I can't believe who I married and what she did to us.
Me 67
Her 63
Married 42 yrs (together 47)
18 yr LTA with bf


Posts: 4129 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: the sad state of affairs
Tred
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Default  Posted: 9:33 AM, April 14th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So sorry to hear this Phoenix. I'll keep positive thoughts coming your way.


Married: 17 years (14 @JFO)
D-Day: 11/09/11
"Ohhhhh...shut up Tred!" - NOT the official SI motto (DS)

Posts: 4006 | Registered: Dec 2011
gahurts
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Default  Posted: 9:38 AM, April 14th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So sorry to hear this Phoenix. Hope he turns up son and nothing is wrong. Was he hiking with anyone else or did he go out by himself?


"Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indominable will" - Mahatma Gandi

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - Aubrie


Posts: 3432 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: Georgia
gonnabe2016
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Default  Posted: 9:46 AM, April 14th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

This is awful news. I'm so sorry.
{{{phoenix}}}


"Oh, what a tangled web we weave when first we practice to deceive." - Sir Walter Scott

In my effort to be *concise*, I often come off as blunt and harsh. Sorry, don't mean to be offensive.


Posts: 8089 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: Midwest
deeplysad
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Default  Posted: 10:06 AM, April 14th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending hope and positive thoughts.

((((Phoenix))))


Me: BW - I'm much too young to feel this damn old
Him: FWH - Midlife crisis with a pathetic porn wannabe
D-Day: August 2004; Lots of false R until February 2005.

It takes all kinds of kinds....Miranda Lambert


Posts: 3245 | Registered: Oct 2007 | From: So Calif
Gottagetthrough
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Default  Posted: 10:06 AM, April 14th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am sorry, please know you are in my prayers. hoping that you hear from him very soon

Posts: 1401 | Registered: Jan 2010
JanaGreen
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Default  Posted: 10:08 AM, April 14th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Phoenix, I'm so sorry. I hope he is safe and sound, and found very soon. ((HUGS))


We're both in our 30s. One awesome 4-year-old daughter.

Posts: 6810 | Registered: Aug 2010 | From: Somewhere in the South
Pentup
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Default  Posted: 10:14 AM, April 14th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Lord, please cover this family in prayer. Wrap your arms around her son, keep him safe until he is found. Continue to keep Giving Phoenix the strength and courage she has shown and hold her up until her son is in her arms. In your precious name. Amen

[This message edited by Pentup at 10:22 AM, April 14th (Monday)]


Me- BS
Him- FWS (I hope- F)

Posts: 6605 | Registered: Aug 2008 | From: Not Oz
simplydevastated
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Default  Posted: 10:20 AM, April 14th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Amen.

Beautiful prayer, Pentup.


Me - BS, 39 (I'm not old...I'm vintage)
Two Wonderful children - DS10, DD7
Married, for now... (4+ D-Day - listed in profile.)

Posts: 5854 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: In the darkest depths of hell!
hexed
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Default  Posted: 10:25 AM, April 14th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((phoenix))) tons and tons of prayers


But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned

“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler


Posts: 8460 | Registered: Apr 2008
clba317
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Default  Posted: 10:29 AM, April 14th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Prayers for you and your family that he will be found soon! Hugs


BS
DS9,DS5
M 11, D 8/1/05- not soon enough!

Posts: 217 | Registered: Nov 2005 | From: NY
abbycadabby
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Default  Posted: 10:38 AM, April 14th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Gracious alive! I'm so sorry.

(((Phoneix1 and DS)))

Prayers for strength and comfort, and that your DS is found soon!


Posts: 1272 | Registered: Feb 2010
jrc1963
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Default  Posted: 10:41 AM, April 14th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

OMGosh Phoenix...

So much is happening to you and your family now. I pray that your DS is found safe and sound.


Me: BSO - 46
Him: FWSO - 69
DS - 13
D-Day - 12-11-09,
R - he finally came home
Your life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"

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