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Bluebird26
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Default  Posted: 10:55 PM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((Phoenix))

I am so sorry.


"Loving someone should not mean losing you. Love empowers you. It shouldn't erase you. - Thelma Davis.

Posts: 1348 | Registered: Aug 2012 | From: Australia
Dreamboat
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Default  Posted: 10:57 PM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((((Phoenix)))))

I cannot imagine your heartbreak, devastation, and pain. I am so sorry.


And it's hard to dance with a devil on your back
So shake him off
-- Shake It Out, Florence And The Machine

Posts: 17638 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: A better place :)
Phoenix1
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Default  Posted: 10:57 PM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My son is dead. My brother is dead. My SIL is dead. My aunt is dead. My great aunt is dead. All within three weeks. I am dead inside.


BS - Me
XPOS - too many OW/OCs over 20+yrs
Kids - DDs 23,17 -DS20 Deceased
M Dissolved 2013

This above all: to thine own self be true, and it must follow, as the night the day, thou canst not then be false to any man ~ Shakespeare, Hamlet


Posts: 1138 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Rising out of Hell's ashes!
weeping willow
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Default  Posted: 11:11 PM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am so very sorry.

((((Phoenix))))


BW - me FWH - him
D Day - July 26, 2007
Married 36 years


Posts: 1793 | Registered: Feb 2009
hexed
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Default  Posted: 11:11 PM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((phoenix)))

I can't imagine....

Is there anyone with you right now?


But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned

“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler


Posts: 8452 | Registered: Apr 2008
ThoughtIKnewYa
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Default  Posted: 11:20 PM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((phoenix)))

I'm sorry, I still can't come up with words for this.


Posts: 11688 | Registered: Mar 2008
AppleBlossom
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Default  Posted: 11:36 PM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Phoenix, its so hard to find the words to say how desperately sorry I am. I wish there was something I could do...

Posts: 154 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: Australia
allusions
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Default  Posted: 11:36 PM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh, Phoenix, this is just an unbelievable tragedy. I am so, so sorry.

Posts: 299 | Registered: Aug 2009 | From: California Central Coast
HardenMyHeart
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Default  Posted: 11:46 PM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Phoenix)))
I am so sorry.


Me: BH, Her: FWW - Long Term EA/PA
d-day: June 25, 2007
Married 30 years, Reconciled

Inner peace begins the moment you choose not to allow another person or event to control your emotions.


Posts: 5668 | Registered: Aug 2007
IrishLass518
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Default  Posted: 12:14 AM, April 16th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

There are no words that I can offer to ease your pain. I feel so much for you right now and I can't even begin to understand what you are feeling, thinking. You are in my heart and my prayers. Do not be strong for just one moment, let all of us be strong for you and hold you up. You have been an inspiration to so many please allow us to return the grace you have given. Vent, sob, cry, cuss and use us all to express the terrible injustice that has happened to you and your family. We will still be here for you.


Me: 46 BS Divorced
Him: 45 Married OW
DDay: 07/04/2008
Divorced: 06/15/2011
5 kids: IrishLass 27,IrishLad 25, IrishLass 23, IrishLad 21 and IrishLad 12
"You can't run from trouble..there ain't no place that far"

Posts: 1762 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: WA
Violated
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Default  Posted: 12:32 AM, April 16th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((Phoenix))))

I'm deeply sorry. Your in my thoughts and prayers.


Divorced 10/2013

Posts: 545 | Registered: Oct 2008 | From: West Coast
sadtoo
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Default  Posted: 12:34 AM, April 16th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Phoenix,
I have been thinking about you & praying for you all day. I cannot even comprehend this. I am so very, very sorry.


It is what it is, not what we hope it can be.

When another woman takes your husband,
sometimes the best thing you can do for
yourself is to LET HER HAVE the worthless
bum.
OC born 2001
Divorced 2003
Remarried 2008 (New Guy)


Posts: 8026 | Registered: Aug 2003 | From: Iowa
fraeuken
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Default  Posted: 12:38 AM, April 16th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Phoenix}}}, no words. Just prayers that what seems to senseless will one day be answered.


Temporarily independent with the whole world at my feet.

Posts: 1257 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: California
MissMouseMo
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Default  Posted: 12:56 AM, April 16th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh Phoenix - the incomprehensible shock! If we could each take just *any* of your devastating pain away, if we could bear it for you! Please know we are all thinking of you and holding you as tightly as we can.


It is the gut-wrenching, down-to-your-soul honesty that helps so much. ~paraphrased from CancunCrushed
"I edit, therefore I am." -BionicGal

Posts: 312 | Registered: Feb 2013
finallymefirst
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Default  Posted: 1:09 AM, April 16th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm so very sorry. ((((Phoenix))))

Posts: 120 | Registered: Oct 2013
PricklePatch
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Default  Posted: 1:39 AM, April 16th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((((Phoenix)))))


BS
Fwh
sorry post on my tablet

Posts: 297 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: pricklepatch
UKgirl
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Default  Posted: 1:45 AM, April 16th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I have no words. I cannot believe what life is throwing at you. This is so unfair and I cannot comprehend what you must be going through. I am so very sorry. You have made some very good friends here and they will be there for you any time of day or night. Please know we are all holding you in our thoughts and hearts.


D-Day: 30 July 2006 LTA: 5yrs
Me, BS, 57 y/o Him, WS, 58 y/o
MOW, pathetic ex-fiancee.
3 grown boys and one 19 y/o
I don't consider myself married anymore.
There are some words once spoken split the world in two. Before you say them and after.

Posts: 3461 | Registered: Nov 2007 | From: UK
refuz2bavictim
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Default  Posted: 2:22 AM, April 16th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Phoenix and family))))


BS:ME DDay: 7/18/09 Last of TT 7/11/10
MOW's EA/PA all were my "friends" but one


Posts: 2372 | Registered: Jan 2010
Rainbows
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Default  Posted: 2:30 AM, April 16th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You are in my thoughts and prayers.

(((Phoenix)))


There is always a rainbow after every storm.

Posts: 405 | Registered: May 2013 | From: California
ray-ray
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Default  Posted: 3:20 AM, April 16th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Phoenix1)))


So many roads

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