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User Topic: Now DS is missing...
hexed
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Default  Posted: 2:25 PM, April 16th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((phoenix)))


But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned

“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler


Posts: 8405 | Registered: Apr 2008
yewtree
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Default  Posted: 2:28 PM, April 16th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Phoenix, I'm thinking of you and praying for your whole family. I hope someday you can find solace and peace with all of this loss.


Me(BS)45(at the time of D-day)

Divorced 2009, Closing on house Nov 2011 -
No longer waiting for the other "she" to drop.


Posts: 4623 | Registered: Oct 2007
confused615
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Member # 30826
Default  Posted: 2:37 PM, April 16th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You've been in my thoughts, as well as my prayers, non-stop.

((((((((Phoenix1))))))))))))


BS(me)41
FWH 45
4 kids..21,20,11,9
M: June 2001
D-Day: 8/10/10
Status: Happily Reconciled.

..that feeling you get in your stomach, when you heart's broken. It's like all the butterflies just died.


Posts: 7120 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: Indiana
still2suspicious
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Member # 31722
Default  Posted: 2:47 PM, April 16th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

If you need some one IN PERSON please let me know. I can be down there in no time!

Great pics of your son on the news. Absolutely love that smile!

Prayers for you, and your family for today.


Me: BS
Him: WH
DDay: LTEA

Posts: 1262 | Registered: Apr 2011 | From:
Stay_Or_Go
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Member # 29532
Default  Posted: 3:02 PM, April 16th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What a tragic and heartbreaking loss. Praying for you and your family.


Posts: 139 | Registered: Sep 2010 | From: Pennsylvania
Swims
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Member # 30992
Default  Posted: 3:22 PM, April 16th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((((Phoenix)))), the depth of the pain that you are experiencing from your losses is unfathomable. I am so sorry, just shaking my head and so sorry for what you are going through

Posts: 122 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: East Coast
She11ybeanz
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Member # 27457
Default  Posted: 3:32 PM, April 16th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Phoenix....when I read the article about them finding him.....my eyes welled up....I just couldn't believe it. I'm so very sorry. I don't know how I would handle this situation. But, I know it would be very difficult....

Sending you lots of strength, love, and support!

((BIGHUGZ))


"Sometimes your knight in shining armor ...is just a douchebag in tin foil!!"

ME - BW - 35
HIM - XWH - 39
D day: November 15th, 2009
Married: 5 Years, together 8
Divorced: December 13th, 2010
New Beginning: Piper/8-3-12


Posts: 2710 | Registered: Feb 2010 | From: Virginia
lordhasaplan?
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Default  Posted: 4:45 PM, April 16th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Phoenix, words cant articulate the deep and enduring sadness and grief you have. I cant imagine. I just hope you can find the strength to keep focused on yourself if even for a moment. Your loved, your awesome, you have been handed such a heavy burden. My heart bleeds for you and your family...


D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10)

Posts: 1860 | Registered: Nov 2010
Kuwaited
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Default  Posted: 6:41 PM, April 16th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

No words. Just (((Phoenix)))


"For every trip to the vet, there's a car ride.", Satchel Pooch.

"At some point in life, everyone has gambled on a fart and lost." -- Tad...from Craig's List


Posts: 8481 | Registered: Oct 2004 | From: North Atlanta Burbs
SweetheartVixen
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Default  Posted: 6:42 PM, April 16th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My heart hurts so badly for you. Ironically I just read a book about coping and dealing with a Dr, his wife and sons losing their 20YO son/brother the day your son went missing. Little did I know that your beloved son was missing til I got back home from the beach.
I didn't want to read this book, but then did and I am just so sad, stunned and hurt for them, for you and for all who knew and loved your handsome DS.
There are no words, NONE that express my deep feelings of sadness for you ....((((Phoenix))))). .


BS/60s WS/60s Divorcing and not soon enough~!
Its nice to be important, but its more important to be nice...

DD 6-14


Posts: 3094 | Registered: Jul 2004 | From: somewhere over the rainbow
justdoit
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Default  Posted: 6:58 PM, April 16th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((Phoenix1))
I can't imagine your pain. I know all the words in the world won't take away your pain, but know that hundreds of us wish we could.


Me - 60
WH - 67
Married 35 years
DDay - 5/14/09
He's reconciled, I'm in limbo.
"Stuck in the middle with you"

Posts: 155 | Registered: Oct 2009 | From: Rocky Mountains
looking forward
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Default  Posted: 7:07 PM, April 16th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Phoenix,
I am so very, very sorry for this unimaginable series of losses.
As others have stated, there are no words.
You are in my prayers.
((((Phoenix and Family))))


Memory and hope; one looks backward, and the other forward; one is of today, the other of tomorrow.
"Find a place inside where there's joy, and the joy will burn out the pain." (Joseph Campbell)

Posts: 2833 | Registered: Aug 2009 | From: Where a river runs through it
AgainandAgain
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Default  Posted: 7:44 PM, April 16th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I have no words because there is nothing I can do or say for you.

We are here with you through this and will be.

(((((((((((((((((((((Phoenix and family))))))))))))))))))))))


Posts: 231 | Registered: Feb 2012
Brandon808
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Default  Posted: 9:30 PM, April 16th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Prayers for you and your family
((((((Phoenix))))))


xBH
D final 8/2012

Posts: 3652 | Registered: May 2012 | From: southeast
birdy
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Default  Posted: 9:48 PM, April 16th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am so very sorry. My heart aches for you.

Posts: 129 | Registered: Jan 2011
shatteredapart
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Default  Posted: 8:51 AM, April 17th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My heart is breaking for you {{Phoenix1}}. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.


Me-BS
Him-WS
EA(PA?) 10 months with COW
3 ddays-Sept '13, Oct '13, Dec '13
Attempting Reconciliation...time and actions will tell

Posts: 118 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: USA
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 8:59 AM, April 17th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending you love and light, Phoenix. You are constantly in my thoughts and in my heart.


You can call me NIK

Wise men talk because they have something to say; fools, because they have to say something.
- Plato


Posts: 24404 | Registered: Aug 2011
Aubrie
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Default  Posted: 9:05 AM, April 17th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thinking of you today. My husband too. He has called and asked about you every single day for the past three weeks.

Hugs and prayers.


Me - FWW * Him - QuietStand

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - J. Wayne

"What if I fall?" Oh but my darling, what if you fly?


Posts: 6046 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: South, Y'all!
wheredoigo
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Default  Posted: 9:24 AM, April 17th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((Phoenix))))

My heart is breaking for you and your family. As someone else stated this is a loss of Job proportions. Remember that you are here for a reason, you will keep breathing. Eat and drink even when you feel like it tastes like nothing. Remember what he loved and would of wanted for you and let that lead you. Many prayers for strength and comfort are being sent your way. And remember- we are all here for you when you need it.


WW(me) 33
BS(him/Jt8d) 35 | Teaches me real, true unbroken love every day.

"Love comes when manipulation stops; when you think more about the other person than about his or her reactions to you. When you dare to reveal yourself fully." J. Brot


Posts: 89 | Registered: Feb 2014 | From: Midwest
Pinkyxo
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Default  Posted: 3:08 PM, April 17th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm so very sorry for your loss (((Phoenix)))
My heart is breaking for you. Please take care of yourself.


One foot in front of the other

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