Topic: Now DS is missing...
Member # 13332
| Posted: 3:29 PM, April 17th (Thursday), 2014|
My thoughts and prayers are with you. I'm so sorry...
Me= BS, 45
dday=7/06, 8/09 (pics at a recent work function), 11/09 VAR. Done.
"If you are going through hell, keep going." - Sir Winston Churchill
Posts: 1254 | Registered: Jan 2007 | From: West
Member # 13581
| Posted: 4:13 PM, April 17th (Thursday), 2014|
I'm so sorry, Phoenix. I know there are no words that will help right now, but just wanted to say I'm holding you and your family in my thoughts.
Me: BS, 40, Him: WS 41
Married: 15 years
Posts: 1490 | Registered: Feb 2007
Member # 31722
| Posted: 4:52 PM, April 17th (Thursday), 2014|
Keeping you, and your family in my prayers.
The volunteers WILL find your BB and BSIL!! My friend got called yesterday for another 4 days, with her wonderful service dog.
Know they will NOT stop looking.
Sending strength to you, and prayers for DS.
Posts: 1265 | Registered: Apr 2011 | From:
Member # 19258
| Posted: 4:55 PM, April 17th (Thursday), 2014|
you're in my thoughts continually.
But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned
“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler
Posts: 8405 | Registered: Apr 2008
Member # 27325
| Posted: 5:04 PM, April 17th (Thursday), 2014|
My thoughts and prayers are with you, phoenix. I am so very sorry for your loss
Posts: 1332 | Registered: Jan 2010
Member # 36521
| Posted: 5:17 PM, April 17th (Thursday), 2014|
The unfairness of all this extreme loss truly breaks my heart. I am so sorry. No words truly express how much empathy and sympathy I feel for you. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Me: BW. Him: WH. Dday: 4/26/12. TT until 8/15/12 LTA 7 years. Trying to R
Posts: 491 | Registered: Aug 2012
Member # 38604
| Posted: 5:40 PM, April 17th (Thursday), 2014|
There are no words.... Prayers for you.
ME - BS 49, Him - WS 46 trying to "R"
4 DD's - blended 25, 15, 15 and 12
Multi DDays the grand finale 5/13/2013
From here on out, I am only interested in what is real. Real people, real feelings, that's it, that's all I'm intere
Posts: 457 | Registered: Mar 2013 | From: Texas
Member # 27879
| Posted: 6:05 PM, April 17th (Thursday), 2014|
I just saw this.
I'm so very sorry. Words are inadequate.
I am praying for you and your family.
Me: WS, 30s
XH: BS, 40s
Married 2.5 years
Reconciling after divorce
"Someday you'll look back on all these days
And all this pain is gonna be invisible." - Hunter Hayes, "Invisible"
Posts: 2077 | Registered: Mar 2010 | From: the cat's meow
Member # 39193
| Posted: 6:27 PM, April 17th (Thursday), 2014|
I am so sorry.
Me: Looking forward to the future
Him: Left behind in the past
Rock bottom became the solid foundation on which I rebuilt my life. ~ JK Rowling
Posts: 660 | Registered: May 2013 | From: Oregon
Member # 16737
| Posted: 8:06 PM, April 17th (Thursday), 2014|
Phoenix1, I have thought about you and your family so often in the last few days, but haven't written because everything I write seems so inadequate. I am so sorry for your unfathomable loss. Please know that there are thousands of us here to support you.
me: BW, now 52;
DD now 16 (adopted by me as single mom, so XWH was "Dad")
married: June, 2005, together since July, 2002
Divorced July, 2008 and he never looked back...
Posts: 1208 | Registered: Oct 2007
Member # 35812
| Posted: 9:40 PM, April 17th (Thursday), 2014|
Sweetheart, I have a whole bunch of people here praying for you and your family. It's unfair, it's just so unfair, inhumanely unfair. (((hugs)))
Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.
D-Day, June 10, 2012
Posts: 4585 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: So California
Member # 39885
| Posted: 11:12 PM, April 17th (Thursday), 2014|
Whatever you need. We love you.
Divorced 7/11/14. New Beginning on the Gulf of Mexico. It's real nice.
Posts: 688 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: The beach.
Member # 22722
| Posted: 2:04 AM, April 18th (Friday), 2014|
Sending you thoughts of peace and grace, and much love.
BW then 46, STBXWHNPDPAFTG the destroyer of my entire life.
D-Day 1 1999, D-Day 2,3,4,5,6... 2009 thru 2011.
Separated, divorcing, moving on.
I edit because I always make typos.
Posts: 1091 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: California
Member # 34030
| Posted: 2:42 AM, April 18th (Friday), 2014|
There are no words I can say to heal your pain. The loss of a child is the ultimate pain. I pray for you two.
What happened? Do they know? Do they have any suspicions what happened? I may have missed the post.
And once the storm is over, you won’t remember how you made it through, how you managed to survive.But one thing is certain. When you come out of the storm, you won’t be the same person who walked in. That’s what this storm’s all about.”
Posts: 844 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: Somewhere in the South
Member # 5311
| Posted: 10:58 AM, April 18th (Friday), 2014|
Me: late 40's
XH: A parasite and that might be a compliment
My S-23, Our D-15
Married 5/93 D-Day: 11/18/03
The future's so bright - I got to wear shades
Plant Seeds of Kindness
Posts: 10390 | Registered: Sep 2004 | From: California
Member # 40229
| Posted: 2:58 PM, April 18th (Friday), 2014|
The words, "I'm sorry," seem so inadequate.
Hugs, strength, and prayers for you and your family during this tragic time.
(((Phoenix1 & Family)))
I don't need further confirmation of what a fuckwit he is. I already have plenty, thanks very much. -SBB
Posts: 2141 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: AZ
Member # 31722
| Posted: 3:13 PM, April 18th (Friday), 2014|
Sending you prayers, and hugs, for today.
Posts: 1265 | Registered: Apr 2011 | From:
Member # 37735
| Posted: 5:16 PM, April 18th (Friday), 2014|
((phoenix)) Just saw this. Please know that you & your family are in my thoughts & prayers. I am so so sorry .
together 25 yrs, married 24 yrs, 4 children;Rebuilding
D Day: 5/10/2011 PA
OW: WH's co-worker,divorced, no children, 20 yrs younger than I-----& she knew he was married, had met our kids, but that did not stop her from trying to destroy our family
Posts: 1337 | Registered: Dec 2012
Member # 12041
| Posted: 5:24 PM, April 18th (Friday), 2014|
Thinking of you today.
“We don't see things as they are; we see them as we are.”... Anais Nin
Posts: 43958 | Registered: Sep 2006
Member # 42372
| Posted: 8:46 PM, April 18th (Friday), 2014|
Phoenix words truly can't describe how sad I am for your losses. All I can share is that if you put your faith in God, he will get you through this.
I am so sorry
Posts: 187 | Registered: Feb 2014 | From: Florida
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