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User Topic: Now DS is missing...
AnnieOakley
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Default  Posted: 3:29 PM, April 17th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My thoughts and prayers are with you. I'm so sorry...


Me= BS, 45
Him=WH, 46
M=18+,T=21+
dday=7/06, 8/09 (pics at a recent work function), 11/09 VAR. Done.
"If you are going through hell, keep going." - Sir Winston Churchill

Posts: 1254 | Registered: Jan 2007 | From: West
brooke4
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Default  Posted: 4:13 PM, April 17th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm so sorry, Phoenix. I know there are no words that will help right now, but just wanted to say I'm holding you and your family in my thoughts.


Me: BS, 40, Him: WS 41
Married: 15 years
3 children
D-Day: 10/2005

Posts: 1490 | Registered: Feb 2007
still2suspicious
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Member # 31722
Default  Posted: 4:52 PM, April 17th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Keeping you, and your family in my prayers.

The volunteers WILL find your BB and BSIL!! My friend got called yesterday for another 4 days, with her wonderful service dog.

Know they will NOT stop looking.

Sending strength to you, and prayers for DS.


Me: BS
Him: WH
DDay: LTEA

Posts: 1262 | Registered: Apr 2011 | From:
hexed
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Member # 19258
Default  Posted: 4:55 PM, April 17th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

you're in my thoughts continually.

((phoenix))


But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned

“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler


Posts: 8405 | Registered: Apr 2008
Gottagetthrough
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Default  Posted: 5:04 PM, April 17th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My thoughts and prayers are with you, phoenix. I am so very sorry for your loss

Posts: 1332 | Registered: Jan 2010
Teach8
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Member # 36521
Default  Posted: 5:17 PM, April 17th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Phoenix,
The unfairness of all this extreme loss truly breaks my heart. I am so sorry. No words truly express how much empathy and sympathy I feel for you. You are in my thoughts and prayers.


Me: BW. Him: WH. Dday: 4/26/12. TT until 8/15/12 LTA 7 years. Trying to R

Posts: 491 | Registered: Aug 2012
Chefj9
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Default  Posted: 5:40 PM, April 17th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

There are no words.... Prayers for you.


ME - BS 49, Him - WS 46 trying to "R"
4 DD's - blended 25, 15, 15 and 12
Multi DDays the grand finale 5/13/2013
From here on out, I am only interested in what is real. Real people, real feelings, that's it, that's all I'm intere

Posts: 457 | Registered: Mar 2013 | From: Texas
heartbroken0903
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Default  Posted: 6:05 PM, April 17th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I just saw this.

I'm so very sorry. Words are inadequate.

I am praying for you and your family.


Me: WS, 30s
XH: BS, 40s
No kids

Married 2.5 years
D-day 3/6/10
Divorced 5/14/10

Reconciling after divorce

"Someday you'll look back on all these days
And all this pain is gonna be invisible." - Hunter Hayes, "Invisible"


Posts: 2077 | Registered: Mar 2010 | From: the cat's meow
gypsybird87
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Default  Posted: 6:27 PM, April 17th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((((((phoenix1)))))))

I am so sorry.


Me: Looking forward to the future
Him: Left behind in the past

Rock bottom became the solid foundation on which I rebuilt my life. ~ JK Rowling


Posts: 659 | Registered: May 2013 | From: Oregon
incredulous
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Default  Posted: 8:06 PM, April 17th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Phoenix1, I have thought about you and your family so often in the last few days, but haven't written because everything I write seems so inadequate. I am so sorry for your unfathomable loss. Please know that there are thousands of us here to support you.

(((((((Phoenix1)))))))


me: BW, now 52;
DD now 16 (adopted by me as single mom, so XWH was "Dad")
married: June, 2005, together since July, 2002
d-day: 10/21/07;
Divorced July, 2008 and he never looked back...

Posts: 1208 | Registered: Oct 2007
Skan
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Default  Posted: 9:40 PM, April 17th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sweetheart, I have a whole bunch of people here praying for you and your family. It's unfair, it's just so unfair, inhumanely unfair. (((hugs)))


Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012



Posts: 4557 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: So California
sunsetslost
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Default  Posted: 11:12 PM, April 17th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Whatever you need. We love you.


Divorced 7/11/14. New Beginning on the Gulf of Mexico. It's real nice.

Posts: 682 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: The beach.
heartbroken_kk
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Default  Posted: 2:04 AM, April 18th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((Phoenix))))

Sending you thoughts of peace and grace, and much love.


BW then 46, STBXWHNPDPAFTG the destroyer of my entire life.
D-Day 1 1999, D-Day 2,3,4,5,6... 2009 thru 2011.

Separated, divorcing, moving on.
I edit because I always make typos.


Posts: 1086 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: California
MammaMia
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Default  Posted: 2:42 AM, April 18th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Phoenix:
There are no words I can say to heal your pain. The loss of a child is the ultimate pain. I pray for you two.

What happened? Do they know? Do they have any suspicions what happened? I may have missed the post.


And once the storm is over, you won’t remember how you made it through, how you managed to survive.But one thing is certain. When you come out of the storm, you won’t be the same person who walked in. That’s what this storm’s all about.”

Posts: 841 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: Somewhere in the South
really trying
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Default  Posted: 10:58 AM, April 18th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Phoenix)))


Me: late 40's
XH: A parasite and that might be a compliment
My S-23, Our D-15
Married 5/93 D-Day: 11/18/03
Divorced 5/19/08

The future's so bright - I got to wear shades

Plant Seeds of Kindness


Posts: 10389 | Registered: Sep 2004 | From: California
StillLivin
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Default  Posted: 2:58 PM, April 18th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

The words, "I'm sorry," seem so inadequate.
Hugs, strength, and prayers for you and your family during this tragic time.
(((Phoenix1 & Family)))


I don't need further confirmation of what a fuckwit he is. I already have plenty, thanks very much. -SBB
D: 7/2/2014

Posts: 2141 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: AZ
still2suspicious
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Member # 31722
Default  Posted: 3:13 PM, April 18th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending you prayers, and hugs, for today.


Me: BS
Him: WH
DDay: LTEA

Posts: 1262 | Registered: Apr 2011 | From:
mchercheur
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Member # 37735
Default  Posted: 5:16 PM, April 18th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((phoenix)) Just saw this. Please know that you & your family are in my thoughts & prayers. I am so so sorry .


together 25 yrs, married 24 yrs, 4 children;Rebuilding
D Day: 5/10/2011 PA
OW: WH's co-worker,divorced, no children, 20 yrs younger than I-----& she knew he was married, had met our kids, but that did not stop her from trying to destroy our family

Posts: 1337 | Registered: Dec 2012
metamorphisis
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Default  Posted: 5:24 PM, April 18th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thinking of you today.



“We don't see things as they are; we see them as we are.”... Anais Nin

Posts: 43922 | Registered: Sep 2006
SpecialK
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Default  Posted: 8:46 PM, April 18th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Phoenix words truly can't describe how sad I am for your losses. All I can share is that if you put your faith in God, he will get you through this.

I am so sorry


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