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User Topic: Now DS is missing...
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Default  Posted: 12:15 PM, April 19th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Phoenix

I'm truly very sorry at your lost of loves ones.. my heart breaks for you, your daughters and father...prayers sent to you and your loved ones..


Those three words are said too much and not enough.
Chasing Cars-Snow Patrol.
FWW

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LosferWords
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Default  Posted: 12:16 PM, April 19th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((Phoenix))))

Sending you all of the strength, mojo, and positive thoughts that I can muster... I've been thinking of you and your family many times every day.


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Lucky2HaveMe
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Default  Posted: 12:45 PM, April 19th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I can imagine the overwhelming weight you are bearing. Remember to take care of yourself during this difficult time. Don't hesitate to accept the help so many are offering.

Hugs & Prayers.


Indian wisdom says our lives are rivers. We are born somewhere small and quiet and we move toward a place we cannot see, but only imagine. From Tending Roses

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sadtoo
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Default  Posted: 12:49 PM, April 19th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Phoenix,
I think and pray for you and your family every day. In my thoughts throughout the day, in my own way, I am sending you peace and strength.
(((Phoenix)))


It is what it is, not what we hope it can be.

When another woman takes your husband,
sometimes the best thing you can do for
yourself is to LET HER HAVE the worthless
bum.
OC born 2001
Divorced 2003
Remarried 2008 (New Guy)


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sisoon
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Default  Posted: 12:53 PM, April 19th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Phoenix1 & family)))

My heart goes out to you.


fBH (me) - 70 (22 in my head), fWW (plainsong) - 65+, Married 45+, together since 1965
DDay - 12/2010
Recovered, not yet fully R'ed
I share my own experience because it's the only experience I know, not because I'm a good model.

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knutz
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Default  Posted: 12:55 PM, April 19th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you for taking the time to check in with us. After the services are over, this will hit you hard. Just know that when it does we are all here to hold you up. Peace and love to you and your family.


Together 23 years
Married 20 Years
BW (me) 48
FWH: 49 (rSA)
2 children, 9 & 12
DDay: December 27, 2009
"Life is not what it is supposed to be. It is what it is. The way we cope with it is what makes the difference". Virginia Satir

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DeadMumWalking
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Default  Posted: 12:58 PM, April 19th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((Phoenix))))

Thanks so much for checking in, we are all thinking of you and the incredible difficulties you are going through.

I am glad that there is substantial support for you there through the army, and also that the rescue workers are taking your feelings into consideration.

You are so strong, you will make it through. I am so so very sorry for your pain. I remember how I felt when my suicidal then 18 yo DS went missing 2 years ago, it was unBEARable.

If there is any way anyone here can help, please don't hesitate to reach out.

Just know that everyone here at SI is behind you, sending you prayers, condolences and strength.

I am so sorry for the loss of your DS, on top of the other losses you have sustained. Sending you strength and peace.

((((Phoenix))))


Me (BS), Him (WH): early 50's
3 DS: teens!!! :)
M: 24 (19 1/2 at Dday), Together 29
Dday: Dec 2008
Limbo-ish, again (after multiple S) -- weighing my options

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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 1:35 PM, April 19th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Phoenix))))

Keeping you and your family in my heart.


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Default  Posted: 1:48 PM, April 19th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Continued prayers for you and your family.

(((Phoenix & family)))


BW - me FWH - him
D Day - July 26, 2007
Married 36 years


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Default  Posted: 1:58 PM, April 19th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am in awe of your strength through everything you are going through right now. I'm so sorry.... I know I can't even come close to imagining what you are going through. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

(((((Phoenix)))))


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Default  Posted: 2:19 PM, April 19th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Phoenix we don't know each other & I don't read off-topic very often. I just want to say that this Mom's heart is bleeding for you. I too have teens & young adults & can't even imagine how you are managing, actually I do know why, you are obviously a very strong woman. I am so sorry for all of the losses you have had to deal with. If you ever need a cyber friend feel free to send me a PM. I will keep you and your loved ones in my thoughts and prayers. Jamie


BS early 50's Wh also early 50's. I am Jamie, Mom to 3 great teens/young adults. My WH and I have been together more than half of our lives and married 25+. We are in MC & going to give R our best shot, hoping and praying for a better 2013!

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BrokenPieces
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Default  Posted: 5:03 PM, April 19th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I have been thinking of you and praying for you every day. I am so, so sorry. I'm thankful that the Army is being so supportive and caring. (((HUGE HUGS))) sweetie.


BS-40
Red Headed Imps 10 & 8
DDay 1/05
Divorce final 6/21/06
My new life is GRAND.
Married my new beginning 6/09

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hexed
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Default  Posted: 5:49 PM, April 19th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((phoenix))

I am so glad you posted an update. I know you're not OK but we've been worried about you around these parts.

Glad that you're at home and surrounded by people that love you and can support you.


But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned

“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler


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Default  Posted: 8:54 PM, April 19th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((PHOENIX)))))))

my heart is breaking for you. I truly wish I had a magic wand that I could wave for you to make things right and happy for you again.

healing thoughts and prayers are going out to you and all that you love, and who love you and your family

(((PHOENIX and family)))))


eesh-- what an 'effing mess!!!

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Default  Posted: 9:34 PM, April 19th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((Phoenix)))))) and strength.


Now, faith is being sure of what you hope for and certain of what you cannot see. Heb 11:1
I done been through the pain and the sorrow the struggle is nothing but love. Maino
Me: Divorced BS 49
DS22, DD19, DS17

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Default  Posted: 10:18 PM, April 19th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((Phoenix, DDs, and father)))) Strength and love continuing your way, honey. We're all with you.


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


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Default  Posted: 10:20 PM, April 19th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Phoenix1))) You & your family are in my thoughts every day. Continued strength to you and wishes for some small measure of peace.


You can't fill a cup with no bottom.

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Abby
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Default  Posted: 10:45 PM, April 19th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Phoenix1))) I am so very sorry for your losses. Prayers for you and your family.

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Default  Posted: 10:57 PM, April 19th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It is so good to hear from you Phoenix. I was really worrying about you. Please take care of yourself ahead of others.

I am glad that the Army has done so much to give you comfort and to honor your DS. It shows that they have real honor and care for one of their own. I hoep they continue to support you through all that remains.

Please stay strong through everything but remember to take time out for your self.


"Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indominable will" - Mahatma Gandi

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - Aubrie


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Default  Posted: 11:06 PM, April 19th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Phoenix)))

You are in our thoughts constantly, what you continue to go through is just unimaginable. Your strength is astounding. Please know that you have people all over the world thinking of you and sending you love as you deal with this.


Love Ellejay
xxx


Married 25 years now divorced.
D-Day: 20/11/10
Me: 48.5 plus 10% GST
Him: mental age 6 (apologies to all 6 year olds)
Betrayal: Who cares anymore?

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