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User Topic: Now DS is missing...
scaredyKat
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Default  Posted: 11:02 AM, April 14th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

********(((((((Phoenix))))))********


Me-BS-60
HIM-SAFWH-63
Damn autocorrect is responsible for the silly errors, sorry!

Posts: 3460 | Registered: Sep 2009 | From: In my head
MissesJai
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Default  Posted: 11:04 AM, April 14th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

OMG Phoenix. Sending prayers and anything else I got your way! (((Phoenix & family)))


FWW - 41
I'm big on personal responsibility. Own your shit. ALL OF IT.

Posts: 5846 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: So Cal.....
badd
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Default  Posted: 11:11 AM, April 14th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

prayers and strength to you and DS have had you both in my thoughts since this all started along with so many others here.

Posts: 130 | Registered: Apr 2009
LoveActually
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Member # 31030
Default  Posted: 11:19 AM, April 14th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My heart goes out to you. I can't even imagine. Sending prayers.


BS (Me)
WS (Him)
D-Day 5/29/09
Married 11 yrs, together 16 yrs

Posts: 768 | Registered: Jan 2011
ThoughtIKnewYa
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Default  Posted: 11:30 AM, April 14th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Phoenix)))

Sending prayers.


Posts: 11605 | Registered: Mar 2008
MinorBee
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Member # 17895
Default  Posted: 11:32 AM, April 14th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I keep trying to think of something comforting to say but I'm left speechless...

I'm so sorry.


previously married for 20 years
DDays: which time?, OW's which one?

Posts: 457 | Registered: Jan 2008
Lalagirl
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Member # 14576
Default  Posted: 11:32 AM, April 14th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((Phoenix)))))

I don't know what to say, but I will be praying hard. I am so sorry...


Me - 49; FWH - 51
Married 30 years 9/2/13
2 grown daughters-30 & 27
5yo GS & 20 mo. GD & GB #4 due 8/15(DD30) and 2.5 yo GD(DD27). D-day #1 - 1/06; D-day #2 - 3/07
Reconciled! Construction Complete.

Posts: 5027 | Registered: May 2007
karmahappens
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Default  Posted: 11:43 AM, April 14th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((phoenix))))

Please take care of you during this time.

Prayers, hope and strength.


“And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom”
Anaïs Nin
Me: 45
Him: 47
Dday 8/2007
We have R'd

Posts: 3793 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: Massachusetts
thebighurt
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Default  Posted: 11:48 AM, April 14th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Strength to you. ((((((((Phoenix))))))))


Finding what life could have been....... Why didn't I see it?

Posts: 2280 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: the Other Side
Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 12:23 PM, April 14th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh no!

We're all here with you. Maybe he just got overwhelmed and needed to check out for a bit? Sending good thoughts for a positive outcome.

(((Phoenix1)))


It is better to be slapped with the truth than kissed with a lie. -Russian Proverb

Posts: 17072 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
purplebreeze
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Default  Posted: 12:37 PM, April 14th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Praying that he is safe.


me 64
WH 66
married 44 years
DD Jan 16 2011

Posts: 356 | Registered: Mar 2011
sisoon
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Default  Posted: 12:47 PM, April 14th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yes - praying he is safe.

(((Phoenix1 & son)))


fBH (me) - 70 (22 in my head), fWW (plainsong) - 65+, Married 45+, together since 1965
DDay - 12/2010
Recovered, not yet fully R'ed
I share my own experience because it's the only experience I know, not because I'm a good model.

Posts: 9991 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: Chicago area
Nature_Girl
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Default  Posted: 12:53 PM, April 14th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((HUGS))))

My heart just aches for you & your family.


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - I DIVORCED HIM, I'M FREE!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RBOJpIwF47Y

Posts: 9536 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
jo2love
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Default  Posted: 12:55 PM, April 14th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Praying he is ok. Sending strength and hope.

Posts: 34748 | Registered: Mar 2011
CheaterMagnet
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Default  Posted: 1:33 PM, April 14th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I have no words so I will just send you strength and prayers for his safe return. (((((Hugs)))))


If Happy Ever After did exist, I would still be holding you like this.
All those fairly tales are full of shit.
One more fucking love song I'll be sick. ~ Maroon 5

Posts: 1025 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: Kailua-Kona, HI
norabird
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Default  Posted: 1:39 PM, April 14th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((((Phoenix and DS))))))


Sit. Feast on your life.

Posts: 4088 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: NYC
lordhasaplan?
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Default  Posted: 1:39 PM, April 14th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I have been thinking of you and your family all day. So much grief. I hope he is safe. I hope you are too.


D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
No life should be passively relinquished due to the toxicity of others and taking steps to protect yourself may very well be the most important steps you will ever take.

Posts: 1889 | Registered: Nov 2010
stroppy_wanadoo
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Default  Posted: 2:14 PM, April 14th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Many, many prayers and positive thoughts for you all.

Posts: 1020 | Registered: Jul 2006
Faithful w/Love
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Default  Posted: 2:22 PM, April 14th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Prayers and love sending your way.
Hold on to faith!
My heart breaks for you!


BS(ME)40 WH(HIM)38
DD 19 and DS 15
Separated Aug 2012
Moved back home Oct 31 2013
False R. Still Lying.
Will be divorcing soon!
"You never know how strong you are until being strong is the only choice you have"!

Posts: 2661 | Registered: Aug 2011
Crescita
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Default  Posted: 2:25 PM, April 14th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Praying he is safe and you hear something soon.

Posts: 3344 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: The Valley of the Sun
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