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User Topic: Now DS is missing...
norabird
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Default  Posted: 2:23 PM, April 22nd (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What a beautiful poem. I love to think of your DS being by you and all of his loved ones as you go through life.

((((Phoenix & family))))


Sit. Feast on your life.

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2oldforthis
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Default  Posted: 4:53 PM, April 22nd (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thinking of you today on this most difficult day. (prayers)


He did not see what he had in me, what I saw in him I did not have!

Love kills slowly.


Posts: 1649 | Registered: Jun 2008
mixedemotions
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Default  Posted: 5:10 PM, April 22nd (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Phoenix, something that strikes me over and over in this thread is how full of grace you are. So warm and so authentic, it's really powerful. Thank you for letting us in, I'm joining the masses in standing beside you and wishing I could hold some of this pain for you.

To you and anyone else who may not have heard of this resource, some areas have support groups for survivors of suicide. When you're ready, there could be some people ready to connect with you.


Me: Former BW, 28
Divorced 10/11/12
He didn't show up for the D...very fitting, seeing as he didn't show up for the M, either : )
"What did not demolish me simply polished me, now the clearer I can see" - India Arie

Posts: 382 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: Back in the Southeast!
IWantDoOver
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Default  Posted: 5:16 PM, April 22nd (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

As I was finishing it, I received the news that bro and SIL have been found. I now have to share that heartbreaking news on the same day I welcome DS home.

Phoenix, I encourage you to lean on others in your time of grief.

Additions prayers being offered in silent support.


Peace

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metamorphisis
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Default  Posted: 5:26 PM, April 22nd (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm with the others, so many of us, just wishing for any way at all to carry some of this for you. We aren't ever going to stop listening. You keep posting, and we'll keep responding. That's an ironclad deal. So many of us are here and listening. It's small comfort if any I am sure. But you are not alone.



“We don't see things as they are; we see them as we are.”... Anais Nin

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SweetheartVixen
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Default  Posted: 6:03 PM, April 22nd (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((phoenix))))

I use to write poems on Christmas and various cards. It was such a release of emotions when I wrote dealing with tragedies.

I know it doesn't take the pain away but I think its a wonderful helpful thing and the poem is beautiful.

You are so strong. You are in my thoughts an prayers daily Phoenix. HUGS


BS/60s WS/60s Divorcing and not soon enough~!
Its nice to be important, but its more important to be nice...

DD 6-14


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hexed
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Default  Posted: 6:09 PM, April 22nd (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm with the others, so many of us, just wishing for any way at all to carry some of this for you. We aren't ever going to stop listening. You keep posting, and we'll keep responding. That's an ironclad deal. So many of us are here and listening. It's small comfort if any I am sure. But you are not alone.

THIS ^^^^^^


I've been searching for words. There is no understanding this but please know that we are all here as long as you need.


But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned

“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler


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ThoughtIKnewYa
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Default  Posted: 6:12 PM, April 22nd (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Phoenix)))

Once again, I find myself at a loss for words in this situation. Just know that we are here for you.


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authenticnow
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Default  Posted: 6:16 PM, April 22nd (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thinking of you, Phoenix. Thank you for sharing the beautiful tribute with us.


Take up your space (and do it well).

"That's the thing about pain, it demands to be felt."


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devasted30
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Default  Posted: 7:00 PM, April 22nd (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((((Phoenix)))))


And remember Murphy is right. Nothing is so bad that it can't get worse!!!

Posts: 1374 | Registered: Jun 2013 | From: Ontario, Canada
Yme
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Default  Posted: 7:44 PM, April 22nd (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am speechless by the immeasurable amount of grief that has descended upon your lovely soul. You and your loved ones are in my thoughts and prayers.


"Wipe your mouth. There's still a tiny bit of bullshit around your lips."

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PhoenixRisen
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Default  Posted: 7:58 PM, April 22nd (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((Phoenix and family))))

We are all here for you


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gettherefromhere
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Default  Posted: 9:34 PM, April 22nd (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Phoenix))).

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heartbroken_kk
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Default  Posted: 10:55 PM, April 22nd (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Pheonix, I am so touched by your poem, it is beautiful, and I know you feel it so deeply as true.

I hope you find a shoulder to lean on in each moment when you need support through this awful day, and also it's clear you do know your DS is there with you.

We are here for you too. I'm sending hugs and peaceful thoughts through the ether to you. Hang in there lady.


BW then 46, STBXWHNPDPAFTG the destroyer of my entire life.
D-Day 1 1999, D-Day 2,3,4,5,6... 2009 thru 2011.

Separated, divorcing, moving on.
I edit because I always make typos.


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LivinginLimbo
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Default  Posted: 7:50 AM, April 23rd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

There truly are no words for the unimaginable loss of your son. The poem is a beautiful tribute that I'm sure will be a comfort to those who loved him.

I'll be praying for your family.


BS - 62
FWH - 60
Married 34 years
D-Day 2/12/12
Doing well with R

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JanaGreen
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Default  Posted: 7:59 AM, April 23rd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh Phoenix.

((HUGS))


We're both in our 30s. One awesome 5-year-old daughter. Baby Green 2.0 expected June 2015!!!!!!!!!

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itainteasy
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Default  Posted: 8:09 AM, April 23rd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What a beautiful poem.

(((((Phoenix))))))


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She11ybeanz
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Default  Posted: 10:06 AM, April 23rd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You cannot hug me or stroke my hair,
but know in your heart that I am there.

This gave me chills and made my heart break. ((BIGHUGZ)) So sorry for your loss sweetie... he will always be with you in spirit! <3

Sending you lots of strength....

Beautiful poem.....absolutely beautiful.


"Sometimes your knight in shining armor ...is just a douchebag in tin foil!!"

ME - BW - 35
HIM - XWH - 39
D day: November 15th, 2009
Married: 5 Years, together 8
Divorced: December 13th, 2010
New Beginning: Piper/8-3-12


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hexed
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Default  Posted: 10:23 AM, April 23rd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((Phoenix))

Holding you in my thoughts today. Hope that you made it through yesterday.


But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned

“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler


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neverdidithink
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Default  Posted: 10:54 AM, April 23rd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Phoenix))) Your strength through all of this is inspiring.


Me: BW 52
Him: WH 55
Married 8 years
4 20-something his and hers kids

Trying to understand the behavior of some people is like trying to smell the color 9


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