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ItsaClimb
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Default  Posted: 10:12 AM, April 25th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

{{{phoenix and family}}}


BS 46
Together 29 yrs, M 25 years
2 daughters 24yo(married with a brand new little daughter) & 19yo
D-Day 18 Aug 2012
6mth EA lead to 4mth PA with CO-W. I found out 8 1/2 yrs later

Posts: 1024 | Registered: Oct 2012
AnnieOakley
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Member # 13332
Default  Posted: 10:41 AM, April 25th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Holding you in my thoughts today.


Me= BS, 50
Him=WH, 51
M=23+,T=26+
dday=7/06, 8/09 (pics at a work function), 11/09 VAR, 6/12 Sep'd, 10/14 Divorced.
"If you are going through hell, keep going." - Sir Winston Churchill

Posts: 1277 | Registered: Jan 2007 | From: West
Charity411
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Member # 41033
Default  Posted: 10:52 AM, April 25th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm praying for you and your family every day. ((((hugs))))

Posts: 402 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: Illinois
Kajem
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Member # 36134
Default  Posted: 10:56 AM, April 25th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending you strength, peace and love today.

May today bring you some smiles as you surround yourself with those that share your love for your son.

Many hugs,


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

Posts: 5528 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Florida
nowiknow23
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Member # 33226
Default  Posted: 11:07 AM, April 25th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending you and your family peace and comfort today, phoenix.


You can call me NIK

"If you carry joy in your heart, you can heal any moment."
- Carlos Santana


Posts: 26151 | Registered: Aug 2011
LosferWords
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Member # 30369
Default  Posted: 11:33 AM, April 25th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((Phoenix))))

I will be thinking of you and holding you in my thoughts especially over the next couple of days.


Posts: 7985 | Registered: Dec 2010
stroppy_wanadoo
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Member # 11224
Default  Posted: 11:40 AM, April 25th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending prayers for peace and every ounce of my strength to you. We will hold you as you hold your son.

(((Phoenix and Son)))


Posts: 1052 | Registered: Jul 2006
hexed
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Default  Posted: 12:30 PM, April 25th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((phoenix and family))

I am thinking of you today. Praying for peace, strength and endurance for all of you today. Your beautiful words about your son continue to touch me deeply.


But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned

“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler


Posts: 8489 | Registered: Apr 2008
woundedby2
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Default  Posted: 12:59 PM, April 25th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers, Phoenix.


Me: BS
2 kids: DD15 and DS18
Him: The Assclown NPD
OW: "friend" of 15 years
Divorced! Feb. 2010

Everybody, soon or late, sits down to a banquet of consequences.
~Robert Louis Stevenson


Posts: 7843 | Registered: Mar 2008 | From: SoCal
norabird
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Default  Posted: 1:41 PM, April 25th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((Phoenix))))

We all wish this could be a bad dream too. I know you will find the strength to make it through tomorrow; after that, let yourself rest, and mourn, and know that we are all sending you our strength if it helps hold you up at all.


Sit. Feast on your life.

Posts: 4203 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: NYC
gahurts
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Default  Posted: 1:48 PM, April 25th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I hope you get through everything with a minimum of unnecessary drama. Then please get some rest for yourself. You have been a pillar of strength and now you need to make yourself a priority and try to rest and recover.


"Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indominable will" - Mahatma Gandi

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - Aubrie


Posts: 3467 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: Georgia
incredulous
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Default  Posted: 6:12 PM, April 25th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Keeping you and your family in my thoughts and prayers today. I hope celebrating your son's life with so many others who also loved him has been able to bring you a small measure of peace.


(((((Phoenix1)))))


me: BW, now 52;
DD now 16 (adopted by me as single mom, so XWH was "Dad")
married: June, 2005, together since July, 2002
d-day: 10/21/07;
Divorced July, 2008 and he never looked back...

Posts: 1214 | Registered: Oct 2007
Skan
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Default  Posted: 7:58 PM, April 25th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Praying that you could feel the love surrounding you today.


Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012



Posts: 5088 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: So California
scaredyKat
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Default  Posted: 8:06 PM, April 25th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

There isn't a day that I don't think about you. Add me go the list of folks who wish we could be there in person to give you whatever support we could.

Holding you in the *******LIGHT********

SK


Me-BS-60
HIM-SAFWH-63
Damn autocorrect is responsible for the silly errors, sorry!

Posts: 3763 | Registered: Sep 2009 | From: In my head
hexed
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Default  Posted: 10:01 AM, April 26th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((phoenix))

thinking of you this morning. yesterday must have been incredibly difficult. I hope that you're surrounded by love and support today.


But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned

“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler


Posts: 8489 | Registered: Apr 2008
still2suspicious
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Default  Posted: 10:52 AM, April 26th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending prayers and hugs for today.

Just rest now. Take as much time as you need.

You have been so strong this last month. What an inspiration to all who know you IRL.

Sending strength.

eta: missing words make dumb sentences!

[This message edited by still2suspicious at 10:53 AM, April 26th (Saturday)]


Me: BS
Him: WH
DDay: LTEA

Posts: 1328 | Registered: Apr 2011 | From:
cantbelieve
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Default  Posted: 11:03 AM, April 26th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

No words can truly express what you are going through. Just know that you have lots of prayers for you and your family.

((hugs))


Me: BS (58)
Him: WS (59)
LTA 4 years with co-worker
DS(26)
DD(23)
DD(20)
Married 29 years
D-day1 5/08
D-day2 11/08
Status: 6 yrs and wondering if I'll ever be truly happy again

Posts: 1071 | Registered: Dec 2008 | From: DFW
IrishLass518
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Default  Posted: 11:10 AM, April 26th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Phoenix))) the poem is beautiful. I too, stroke my son's hair. You're love for him and your family comes through in every post. My heart breaks for you and your family.


Me: 46 BS Divorced
Him: 45 Married OW
DDay: 07/04/2008
Divorced: 06/15/2011
5 kids: IrishLass 27,IrishLad 25, IrishLass 23, IrishLad 21 and IrishLad 12
"You can't run from trouble..there ain't no place that far"

Posts: 1800 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: WA
LosferWords
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Member # 30369
Default  Posted: 11:49 AM, April 26th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending additional hugs today, and thinking of you...

(((((Phoenix)))))


Posts: 7985 | Registered: Dec 2010
little turtle
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Default  Posted: 5:15 PM, April 26th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((Phoenix & Dad))))


Failure is success if we learn from it.

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