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Too_Trusting
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Default  Posted: 9:27 AM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((((Phoenix))))

I just read about your Brother, SIL, and now your DS. I can't imagine the heartache you feel. I, along with the rest of your SI family will be praying with all of our collective might for the safe return of your DS.

Huge HUGS and prayers for you and your family.


"Anyone perfect must be lying; anything easy has its cost. Anyone plain can be lovely; anyone loved can be lost." Barenaked Ladies

Posts: 2449 | Registered: Jun 2002 | From: North Carolina
cmego
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Default  Posted: 9:42 AM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Phoenix))) continued strength...


me...BS, 43 years old, 2 small kids
WS, 41, multiple gay affairs
M 15 years, together 17
Divorced

"For whatever we lose, like a you or a me, it's always ourselves we find in the sea" ee cummings


Posts: 4107 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: South
Must Survive
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Default  Posted: 9:53 AM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I just saw this! ((((Phoenix))))


Me BS
WS: Just a squished bug on the window of my life!
Divorcing, STBXH is engaged/living with OW#3

They have a choice: they can live in my new world, or they can die in their old one." — Daenerys Targaryen


Posts: 703 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Must Survive
ajsmom
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Default  Posted: 10:02 AM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Continued prayers.

(((((Phoenix)))))

(((((DS)))))


Fidelity isn't a feeling...it's a choice.

"Truth has no special time of its own. Its hour is now - always." - Albert Schweitzer
____________________________________________
Me: BW - Him: 200+ # tumor removed 7/09
DS - 31 - Yikes!


Posts: 21039 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: Been Through Hell...On My Way Back
jjct
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Default  Posted: 10:10 AM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Phoenix)))

Posts: 6489 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: texas
yewtree
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Default  Posted: 10:12 AM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Praying for you today Phoenix1


Me(BS)45(at the time of D-day)

Divorced 2009, Closing on house Nov 2011 -
No longer waiting for the other "she" to drop.


Posts: 4644 | Registered: Oct 2007
ExposedNiblet
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Default  Posted: 10:16 AM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((Phoenix & family))))


Divorced
Me ($39.95 plus S & H)
DS1(17), DS2(15)

Enjoying this chapter in my life.
Learning that being alone does not mean being lonely.
Discovering that where I've been is not as important as where I'm going.


Posts: 355 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: Right Here, Canada
lordhasaplan?
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Default  Posted: 10:25 AM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Phoenix)))


D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
No life should be passively relinquished due to the toxicity of others and taking steps to protect yourself may very well be the most important steps you will ever take.

Posts: 1885 | Registered: Nov 2010
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 10:27 AM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You are constantly in my thoughts, honey. (((((Phoenix)))))


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


Posts: 24789 | Registered: Aug 2011
karmahappens
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Default  Posted: 10:58 AM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You haven't left my thoughts and prayers are constant.

(((phoenix)))


“And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom”
Anaïs Nin
Me: 45
Him: 47
Dday 8/2007
We have R'd

Posts: 3792 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: Massachusetts
somanyyears
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Default  Posted: 11:45 AM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


.... continued prayers sent for your son's safe return.

..smy


trust no other human- love only your pets
She isn't and never was who I thought..I can't believe who I married and what she did to us.
Me 67
Her 63
Married 42 yrs (together 47)
18 yr LTA with bf


Posts: 4117 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: the sad state of affairs
still2suspicious
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Default  Posted: 11:54 AM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending prayers for you, and your family.

eta: Just saw his pic. What a beautiful young man! Praying for him.

[This message edited by still2suspicious at 12:11 PM, April 15th (Tuesday)]


Me: BS
Him: WH
DDay: LTEA

Posts: 1275 | Registered: Apr 2011 | From:
tryingagain74
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Default  Posted: 11:58 AM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending you as much positive mojo as possible. I'm keeping you and your family in my thoughts and prayers.

(((Phoenix1)))


BS (Me) 39
Happily liberated!
Two DS and One DD
It matters not how strait the gate,/How charged with punishments the scroll./I am the master of my fate:/I am the captain of my soul.--"Invictus," William Ernest Henley

Posts: 3571 | Registered: Oct 2011
SisterMilkshake
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Default  Posted: 12:29 PM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

NO, NO, NO.........they found Phoenix's son's body. NO, NO, NO.................


BW (me) 50ish FWH 50ish
Married 34 years, 3 children
d-day 3/10 LTA (4 yrs./fucking & flirting)

"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak!" ~ Homer Simpson


Posts: 9513 | Registered: Nov 2010 | From: The Great White North USA
Tred
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Default  Posted: 12:32 PM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

SMS - where did you here that?


Married: 17 years (14 @JFO)
D-Day: 11/09/11
"Ohhhhh...shut up Tred!" - NOT the official SI motto (DS)

Posts: 3849 | Registered: Dec 2011
wanauld
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Default  Posted: 12:33 PM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am so, so very sorry. My heart breaks for you. You are in my thoughts and prayers Phoenix.


If you want closure, start with your legs.

Posts: 330 | Registered: Apr 2008 | From: Virginia
SisterMilkshake
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Default  Posted: 12:34 PM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

On the internet.

[This message edited by SisterMilkshake at 8:26 AM, April 16th (Wednesday)]


BW (me) 50ish FWH 50ish
Married 34 years, 3 children
d-day 3/10 LTA (4 yrs./fucking & flirting)

"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak!" ~ Homer Simpson


Posts: 9513 | Registered: Nov 2010 | From: The Great White North USA
abbycadabby
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Default  Posted: 12:34 PM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

NO, NO, NO.........they found Phoenix's son's body

How do you know this?

ETA: SMS, we cross posted.

Oh my gosh.

(((Phoenix1)))

[This message edited by abbycadabby at 12:35 PM, April 15th (Tuesday)]


Posts: 1228 | Registered: Feb 2010
gahurts
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Default  Posted: 12:39 PM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Pheonix1 - I am So So Sorry!


"Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indominable will" - Mahatma Gandi

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - Aubrie


Posts: 3383 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: Georgia
Tred
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Default  Posted: 12:39 PM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh Phoenix...I'm so sorry.


Married: 17 years (14 @JFO)
D-Day: 11/09/11
"Ohhhhh...shut up Tred!" - NOT the official SI motto (DS)

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