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User Topic: You know what would make this nice?
Pass
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Default  Posted: 2:22 PM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

She must make a lot of money to be throwing money away like she has.... Tell her I need some... The Faithful w/Love Charity...lol

She's making over $90K per year, and has the nerve to get all teary-eyed with me while telling me that she's "living paycheque to paycheque". I'll do what I can to try to get her to send some money your way, but you may want a Plan B.


Loyal spouse: Me; Disloyal spouse: The Princess
Two sons: Now 11 and 14
DDay: Nov 15, 2012
Separated: Mar 2, 2013 after 17 year marriage, now divorcing!

The best thing about hitting rock bottom is that everything after that looks fucking fabulous


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Default  Posted: 2:26 PM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

LOL Pass....
Wow, she makes damn good money. How the hell can she cry about living paycheck to paycheck?

She would never be able to live off what most of us make. What a shame.....

Get your part of the house NOW! and don't worry about her... if you need I can knock her in her throat if you need me too, that will shut her up!

That wasn't nice... sorry


BS(ME)40 WH(HIM)38
DD 20 and DS 15
Separated Aug 2012
Moved back home Oct 31 2013
Separated again June 2014. Heading toward divorce.
False R. Still Lying.

"You never know how strong you are until being strong is all you have left"


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Default  Posted: 3:51 PM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

How the hell can she cry about living paycheck to paycheck?

That's easy: She's a fucking malcontent. Nothing ever makes her happy. Ever.

She can be temporarily happy on a vacation, but it doesn't last. Some day Rig Pig will learn, poor bastard.


Loyal spouse: Me; Disloyal spouse: The Princess
Two sons: Now 11 and 14
DDay: Nov 15, 2012
Separated: Mar 2, 2013 after 17 year marriage, now divorcing!

The best thing about hitting rock bottom is that everything after that looks fucking fabulous


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jagged
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Default  Posted: 4:22 PM, April 15th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Serious parallel universe shit going on here, Pass. I spent 17 years married to the same chick.


One foot in and one foot back
But it don't pay to live like that
So I cut the ties and I jumped the tracks
For never to return

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Default  Posted: 4:37 PM, April 16th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Jagged, you have my sympathy, empathy, and deep sense of being wronged.


Loyal spouse: Me; Disloyal spouse: The Princess
Two sons: Now 11 and 14
DDay: Nov 15, 2012
Separated: Mar 2, 2013 after 17 year marriage, now divorcing!

The best thing about hitting rock bottom is that everything after that looks fucking fabulous


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nekorb
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Default  Posted: 8:10 PM, April 16th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Serious parallel universe shit going on here, Pass. I spent 17 years married to the same chick.

I don't know how that's possible. I think he's been married to my WH. Especially the malcontent part. Never understand how someone could unbox a brand new tv and be talking about the next better one he's going to buy all in the same day.


Me: BS 44; Him: WH 47 aka CAT- colossal asshat; Married 22 years
D-day: July 17, 2013, with TT to follow
D filed July 16, 2014, 363 days later than I should have
Psalms 27:14
Wait for The Lord; be strong and take heart. Wait for the Lord.

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Default  Posted: 8:35 PM, April 19th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That's the Princess's npd!!!

Not a counselor or anything, but the people I know who are also NPD ALWAYS want something else-never satisfied and will deplete any source or resource they have-person, place or thing.

Nothing they have and nothing people have done is enough-always a complaint for more, bigger, better...that's maybe why the money isn't enough either.

Changing our behavior is damn hard and we end up feeding the personality. I did it for the whole time I was married and never knew it because when we're in a situation it's very hard to get. At least for me. Looking back now after learning about personalities and psychology for a few years, I see the patterns in our personalities and how we sort of fed each other.

Since he doesn't think anything is wrong with him, he won't seek counseling or help. He still seeks me out for the ego feed and I refuse, which confuses him and becomes a game for me.

Sorry for wandering thoughts but wanted to give a thought because she sounds similar.

It seems like you earned that part of equity and I hope you'll use a tiny bit for "fun" money, like I'm going to, once bills are paid.

What I have left to take from him is also money, for words fall on deaf ears here as well. I would also rather save my breath for something else.


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A person is a person, no matter how small. -Dr. Suess

Perserverance and spirit have done wonders in all ages.

-George Washington


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Default  Posted: 9:25 PM, April 19th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Not a counselor or anything, but the people I know who are also NPD ALWAYS want something else-never satisfied and will deplete any source or resource they have-person, place or thing.
Nothing they have and nothing people have done is enough-always a complaint for more, bigger, better...that's maybe why the money isn't enough either.

Oh ... So you've met her? You've totally nailed it.

It seems like you earned that part of equity and I hope you'll use a tiny bit for "fun" money, like I'm going to, once bills are paid.

First priority: Debts. If I get my full half, that will more than clear my debts, I'll be able to prepay my rent for a few months, and I'll replace this shitty old slip-covered couch she gave me when I moved out. Then I might get one more tattoo before saving the rest.

It doesn't really feel like I'm asking for so much to make me happy!


Loyal spouse: Me; Disloyal spouse: The Princess
Two sons: Now 11 and 14
DDay: Nov 15, 2012
Separated: Mar 2, 2013 after 17 year marriage, now divorcing!

The best thing about hitting rock bottom is that everything after that looks fucking fabulous


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Gemini71
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Default  Posted: 11:54 PM, April 19th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wait a minute. Didn't you say that The Princess is a guidance counselor, and that's why she's against counseling for the boys? Man, I'm in the wrong business if that's the money she makes.


Edited to correct stupid typos.

Two steps forward and one step backwards, is still progress.


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