I don't think I could truly express how much I appreciate the support SI provides at such a difficult time.
Kenny 55, yes I am in IC and we are in MC.
Norabird, I actually ordered that book for her, should be here Monday. And when I give it to her,my expectation will be that she reads it immediately.
Doggiediva, appreciate your thoughts, that is very much my take, and communicating with me around intimacy is something my wife has stuggled with in the past that we are hoping to address in counseling. Why she could go to this sexual place within the affair, but not within the love and stability of our marriage will need to be addressed.
appreciate each and every one of you