Funniest : I want you to be able to eventually talk about this without the emotions overwhelming you, to reach that point of acceptance where it no longer has such a strong physical and emotional impact. I want you to be able to say to people "your husband eats too many cheeseburgers? Oh, mine likes old #$@#" (this was his IC to me)
Most impact : it doesn't matter if there was 1 or 100 OW, it was like choosing rum or vodka for an alcoholic. (trying to prepare me for the reality that there was likely more than 1OW...and there was).