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User Topic: My gut was right!
Faithful w/Love
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Default  Posted: 3:52 PM, April 16th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

As you all know, I moved back home and had a feeling he was cheating again but I was not sure except in my gut. Well today he confirmed that he was talking to someone but not OW. So this is OW #2 (if it is actually not the OW#1). Said he is not trying to hurt me and he stopped contact with this woman.

Here is what hurts.
I had my own place...
I was at peace...
I moved back home 5 months ago...
2 weeks after moving back he started his pattern of being a WH.
He denied denied denied.
Talking about divorce all the time..
Its not going to work....
All we do is fight.....
Now the truth is out and I am not in a state of confusion...

How can someone bring me home just to do it again?
Its like he wanted to hurt me on purpose....
He could have left me alone and I could have kept my own place.....

I FUCKING HATE HIM!!!!!


BS(ME)40 WH(HIM)38
DD 20 and DS 15
Separated Aug 2012
Moved back home Oct 31 2013
Separated again June 2014. Heading toward divorce.
False R. Still Lying.

"You never know how strong you are until being strong is all you have left"


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justinpaintoday
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Default  Posted: 4:09 PM, April 16th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am so sorry. The level of selfishness is unbearable.


I never realized you could be in this much pain and not be dying.

Posts: 700 | Registered: Mar 2014
Faithful w/Love
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Default  Posted: 4:09 PM, April 16th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

This is a special kind of EVIL!


BS(ME)40 WH(HIM)38
DD 20 and DS 15
Separated Aug 2012
Moved back home Oct 31 2013
Separated again June 2014. Heading toward divorce.
False R. Still Lying.

"You never know how strong you are until being strong is all you have left"


Posts: 2791 | Registered: Aug 2011
Nature_Girl
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Default  Posted: 4:20 PM, April 16th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am so sorry. What a thoughtless, careless, cruel thing to do to you.

The silver lining here is that you now know, without a shadow of a doubt, that you should have confidence in yourself and what you believe you know.


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - I DIVORCED HIM, I'M FREE!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RBOJpIwF47Y

Posts: 9824 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
momentintime
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Default  Posted: 1:41 AM, April 17th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It was the challenge for him. Once you were back, he reverted to his true self. Live and learn.


BS-me FWS - him
D-day 8/04
R'd

"Global editing disclaimer - I edit almost everything I post, and I am not going to post why every time."...re: Bionical girl


Posts: 2985 | Registered: Sep 2007 | From: New York
SBB
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Default  Posted: 4:45 AM, April 17th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Once you've seen under the mask it is terribly difficult for you and for him to keep putting it back into place.

His goal wasn't growth or healing - it was to reopen the bakery.

Live and learn - better now than a decade from now.

The cruelty is astonishing - the sad clown morphed back into the parasite that he is within 2 short months of False R - his idea of R was rugsweeping and promises to not fuck anyone else again. He was offended I didn't trust him to slip slide on that slippery slope as he has always done.

He said to me "I can't be in an M without trust" - I burst out laughing in his face and said "Me either dude, me either".

The he hoovered me to the point of madness - I was a complete shell of a person. Only then was his job done. I'll never understand it and I no longer care to. His complete lack of remorse was a gift - it forced my hand well before had the strength or courage to free myself.

I am not looking forward to the day that he gives it another crack. I fear he will never stop. He'll appear like he grim reaper every few years until I can block him completely from my life when my girls are grown. I predict he'll then play the poor me victim for them because the nasty XW won't give him a fourth chance.

I would rather sew it up.

Faithful - you gave it everything you could but you simply cannot R on your own. The sooner you evict this guy from your heart and mind the better. Find your anger, girl!!


I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!

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