I'm sorry you continue to endure this psycho. I can relate to the physiological reaction when a communique comes in. My heart still pounds a bit when crazy ex sends a text or email.
Sorry, misread the guidelines, you get him this year for Easter. Though, as an atheist, I wouldn't think you would be celebrating the resurrection...
But I did get a chuckle from this, and I hope you are able to as well. Clearly he is rankled and is grasping for any childish retort. I too during my marriage got criticism for being an atheist--as though our ex's are the paragons of religious virtue!!
Hang in there. I know you will. (I always read your posts, BTW.)
Fear is the mind-killer.
Fear is the little-death that brings total obliteration.
I will face my fear.
I will permit it to pass over me and through me.
Oh and did I ever mention that she is moderately to lowly rated on a website where strip club goers rate the dancers? And that she posted on it whining how mean these guys were for talking so much trash about her?
Yep...all part of the weirdness.
I was thinking of starting a blog this summer while Teslet is on his summer visitation about all these weird stories...because really, they are strange.
The incredibly amusing thing about the atheist comment is that he is militantly anti-Christian...which is even more amusing when you also know that he considers himself a Buddhist.
I have no idea what he was trying to accomplish with that comment. I'm sure once he was sober and reread those texts he felt like a fucking idiot...or maybe he figured he better get drunk and high real quick so everything he says sounds fucking brilliant again.
Apparently, crickets to all that shit has moved him to seek legal advice. At least, so says his step-mom.
Bet that consultation was interesting.
So he must condescend to seek an opinion from someone who is already in the 'good ole boy' network. Because, after all, that is how I screwed him over. It wasn't because he actually did anything wrong...oh no, my friends, my lawyer is an unscrupulous shark that twisted all his good deeds into negligence. And I was a master creator of text messages and lies that I used as evidence to railroad him.
He's just a good, hard working family man, sacrificing his health and youth to be a provider and support two households.
Surely, we can understand why such a formidable man has been reduced to the lowly state of seeking legal advice.
[This message edited by tesla at 6:14 PM, April 18th (Friday)]
"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
totally don't get where he read that he gets Teslet for Memorial Day WEEK
all that shit has moved him to seek legal advice
In my effort to be *concise*, I often come off as blunt and harsh. Sorry, don't mean to be offensive.
Seriously though. You're in better space if he does have a lawyer. Lawyers tend to learn pretty quickly when it's their own client who is the problem and will try to corral them into a more reasonable state wherever possible.
He has no money. Well, he does...he recently got his tax refund...but is busy spending it on other things...like a hotel room while he is at stripper-whore's family Easter egg hunt.
And he told his dad that I'm withholding visitation (no big surprise there) BUT what I found interesting is that when he tries to explain the reason for switching weekends, he actually told his dad that he was unable to pick up Teslet a month ago because he had no gas in the car and no money to buy gas.
Anywho, when ex-shat's dad is relating all this bullshit to the step-mom, she says to him, "Well, make sure that ex-shat gets a lawyer and takes Tesla to court over the visitation thing because if she is doing that, that is wrong and he needs to DO something about it."
I love that woman.
He must have figured out that we don't have court on Tuesday, because he texted me today saying that he'd like to have his midweek visitation this Tuesday.
Oh and no job on the horizon. Looks like getting fired from the job for being drunk on the job is having more consequences than he anticipated.
May 2nd just cannot get here fast enough.
I love that the step-mom knows where it's all at though. Good for her for saying what she said. She put it all back on him because if it were true, he could go to court rather than just pissing and moaning about made up shit.