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User Topic: Hey gonnabe2016, you were right
Abbondad
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Default  Posted: 7:49 AM, April 18th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Tesla,

I'm sorry you continue to endure this psycho. I can relate to the physiological reaction when a communique comes in. My heart still pounds a bit when crazy ex sends a text or email.

Sorry, misread the guidelines, you get him this year for Easter. Though, as an atheist, I wouldn't think you would be celebrating the resurrection...

But I did get a chuckle from this, and I hope you are able to as well. Clearly he is rankled and is grasping for any childish retort. I too during my marriage got criticism for being an atheist--as though our ex's are the paragons of religious virtue!!

Hang in there. I know you will. (I always read your posts, BTW.)


Divorced April Fool's Day 2014

Fear is the mind-killer.
Fear is the little-death that brings total obliteration.
I will face my fear.
I will permit it to pass over me and through me.
-Dune


Posts: 1571 | Registered: Dec 2012
tesla
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Default  Posted: 5:01 PM, April 18th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

BTW, my point count: 111.

Oh and did I ever mention that she is moderately to lowly rated on a website where strip club goers rate the dancers? And that she posted on it whining how mean these guys were for talking so much trash about her?
Yep...all part of the weirdness.

I was thinking of starting a blog this summer while Teslet is on his summer visitation about all these weird stories...because really, they are strange.

The incredibly amusing thing about the atheist comment is that he is militantly anti-Christian...which is even more amusing when you also know that he considers himself a Buddhist.

I have no idea what he was trying to accomplish with that comment. I'm sure once he was sober and reread those texts he felt like a fucking idiot...or maybe he figured he better get drunk and high real quick so everything he says sounds fucking brilliant again.

Apparently, crickets to all that shit has moved him to seek legal advice. At least, so says his step-mom.

Bet that consultation was interesting.


"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

Posts: 4553 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Indiana
sudra
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Default  Posted: 6:03 PM, April 18th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wait, why would he need legal advice? I thought he was great at being his own lawyer!


Me (BW) (54), Him(SAWH) (57)
Married 21 years, 1 son (19), 1 stepdaughter (27)
DDay #1 January 2004
DDay #2 7-27-2010 7 month EA/PA (became "engaged" to OW before he told me he wanted a divorce)
Working on R

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tesla
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Default  Posted: 6:13 PM, April 18th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sudra -- he is a brilliant and amazing litigator. Alas, he is also misunderstood and his brilliance rarely recognized by his peers.

So he must condescend to seek an opinion from someone who is already in the 'good ole boy' network. Because, after all, that is how I screwed him over. It wasn't because he actually did anything wrong...oh no, my friends, my lawyer is an unscrupulous shark that twisted all his good deeds into negligence. And I was a master creator of text messages and lies that I used as evidence to railroad him.

He's just a good, hard working family man, sacrificing his health and youth to be a provider and support two households.

Surely, we can understand why such a formidable man has been reduced to the lowly state of seeking legal advice.

[This message edited by tesla at 6:14 PM, April 18th (Friday)]


"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

Posts: 4553 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Indiana
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 7:54 PM, April 18th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Surely.


You can call me NIK

Wise men talk because they have something to say; fools, because they have to say something.
- Plato


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gonnabe2016
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Default  Posted: 12:04 AM, April 19th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

totally don't get where he read that he gets Teslet for Memorial Day WEEK

Oh, ffs. Here we go again.....

all that shit has moved him to seek legal advice

Good. Let him have to actually pay someone to read and interpret his parenting agreement for him so that you don't have to deal with his cluelessness.
He is such a moron.


"Oh, what a tangled web we weave when first we practice to deceive." - Sir Walter Scott

In my effort to be *concise*, I often come off as blunt and harsh. Sorry, don't mean to be offensive.


Posts: 7696 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: Midwest
Nature_Girl
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Default  Posted: 12:11 AM, April 19th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You ever sometimes wish you could visit an alternate reality, drop a couple hits of acid so this crazy shit all made sense, and just enjoy the rainbows & unicorns 'n hearts for a while? I mean, really, it seems like these people are on a permanent, fantastically awesome trip and we're just the schmucks who get stuck being sober & driving them home.


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - I DIVORCED HIM, I'M FREE!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RBOJpIwF47Y

Posts: 9289 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
sudra
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Default  Posted: 6:08 AM, April 19th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Lol!

Seriously though. You're in better space if he does have a lawyer. Lawyers tend to learn pretty quickly when it's their own client who is the problem and will try to corral them into a more reasonable state wherever possible.


Me (BW) (54), Him(SAWH) (57)
Married 21 years, 1 son (19), 1 stepdaughter (27)
DDay #1 January 2004
DDay #2 7-27-2010 7 month EA/PA (became "engaged" to OW before he told me he wanted a divorce)
Working on R

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IrishLass518
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Default  Posted: 12:08 PM, April 19th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

NO!!! Exshat sought legal advice? But he is soo good in court. What with teaching stripperwhore to use the little door and all.


Me: 45 BS Divorced
Him: 45 Married OW
DDay: 07/04/2008
Divorced: 06/15/2011
5 kids: IrishLass 27,IrishLad 25, IrishLass 22, IrishLad 21 and IrishLad 12
"You can't run from trouble..there ain't no place that far"

Posts: 1676 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: WA
tesla
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Default  Posted: 6:40 PM, April 19th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh boy.
Ex-shat's step-mom met Teslet and me at a park today. While Teslet is playing on the playground she tells me that ex-shat has finally figured out that he is facing jail time at the next hearing. Guess that lawyer consult was good for something.

He has no money. Well, he does...he recently got his tax refund...but is busy spending it on other things...like a hotel room while he is at stripper-whore's family Easter egg hunt.

And he told his dad that I'm withholding visitation (no big surprise there) BUT what I found interesting is that when he tries to explain the reason for switching weekends, he actually told his dad that he was unable to pick up Teslet a month ago because he had no gas in the car and no money to buy gas.

Whoa.

Anywho, when ex-shat's dad is relating all this bullshit to the step-mom, she says to him, "Well, make sure that ex-shat gets a lawyer and takes Tesla to court over the visitation thing because if she is doing that, that is wrong and he needs to DO something about it."

I love that woman.

He must have figured out that we don't have court on Tuesday, because he texted me today saying that he'd like to have his midweek visitation this Tuesday.

Oh and no job on the horizon. Looks like getting fired from the job for being drunk on the job is having more consequences than he anticipated.

May 2nd just cannot get here fast enough.


"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

Posts: 4553 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Indiana
IrishLass518
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Default  Posted: 11:46 PM, April 19th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Well, that makes sense now because the hotel room for the Easter thing with stripperwhores's family is WAY higher on the priority list than say, paying your obligation to your child and keeping your own ass out of jail so you can sober up and find a job.
((Tesla and Teslet))

I love that the step-mom knows where it's all at though. Good for her for saying what she said. She put it all back on him because if it were true, he could go to court rather than just pissing and moaning about made up shit.


Me: 45 BS Divorced
Him: 45 Married OW
DDay: 07/04/2008
Divorced: 06/15/2011
5 kids: IrishLass 27,IrishLad 25, IrishLass 22, IrishLad 21 and IrishLad 12
"You can't run from trouble..there ain't no place that far"

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