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User Topic: Near My Breaking Point (Rantish)
Wodnships
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Default  Posted: 9:33 PM, April 17th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm about a month and half out from Dday. I'm dealing with that mess. My house was broken into two days ago. The person didn't get much and it was all my wife's but still it happend.

Then we've started a work out club at work. We've been working out three days a week. My boss shows up for the 3rd time (in three weeks) on Wednesday and anouces today that he's going to now "challange" us to keep up with him. Because he only saw two people putt in an "effort" the day before.

I'm over 350lbs, losing weight and actually did noticeably more yesterday then I had before. To a point where I was feeling really good about things. Normally I'd roll my eyes at his arrogant and ignore it but right now he took something positive (I've lost 18 lbs in three weeks) and add a bunch of stress. So, I'm done with that. I will tell him why tomorrow. I'm too pissed off right now.

I'm just at the end of my rope. I feel like one more thing and I'm going to lose it. I just stopped IC last week because things were going so well. Maybe I should go back. I seriously just feel like giving up on everything right now.


me: BH 35
Her: WW 28

Married 4 years. Dating 8. Living together 7.

I'm going to make my last stand. This time I can't be bought. Then again on the other hand, how much have you got? - Todd Snider


Posts: 314 | Registered: Mar 2014 | From: California
hardtimesinlife
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Default  Posted: 9:36 PM, April 17th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Aww, think about it before quitting your exercise. It's like cutting off your nose to spite your face. It is probably the thing that is helping you reduce your stress. Couldn't you just not take him up on the challenge?

Hugs.


Ddays 2004 & 2007
I cut my losses mid 2013
Feeling happier every day :)

Posts: 6065 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: Florida
Wodnships
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Default  Posted: 9:48 PM, April 17th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I plan to keep working out on my own. I don't want to lose the lead way I've made.

The two people he pointed out as giving an effort both already work out multiple times a week. So, yes they do more then I do.

I leave with flop sweats and am losing weight getting better all the time. That's what I'm interested in. I'm just not interested in trying to complete with other people who are in better shape then me or trying to prove my self in some idiotic macho challenge.


me: BH 35
Her: WW 28

Married 4 years. Dating 8. Living together 7.

I'm going to make my last stand. This time I can't be bought. Then again on the other hand, how much have you got? - Todd Snider


Posts: 314 | Registered: Mar 2014 | From: California
Gemini71
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Default  Posted: 9:54 PM, April 17th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yeah, stupid bosses. Unless he is a physician or physical therapist, who the hell does he think he is judging other peoples' work outs? Find another way to regularly exercise. You don't need that crap.


Edited to correct stupid typos.

Two steps forward and one step backwards, is still progress.


Posts: 1553 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: Illinois, USA
StillGoing
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Default  Posted: 9:59 PM, April 17th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Don't take his challenge. Fuck him. This is for you, keep it that way.

18 lbs in 3 weeks is fucking awesome. You are on too damn good a roll to let some asshole take a shit on you so he can feel better about himself.

Don't say anything to him. Don't bother with his bullshit, don't let him make it about him. Keep this. Keep kicking ass man.


“Fate is a fickle bitch who dotes on irony.”

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dailyflowers
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Default  Posted: 6:51 AM, April 18th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Don't take his challenge. Fuck him. This is for you, keep it that way.
18 lbs in 3 weeks is fucking awesome. You are on too damn good a roll to let some asshole take a shit on you so he can feel better about himself.

Don't say anything to him. Don't bother with his bullshit, don't let him make it about him. Keep this. Keep kicking ass man.

^^^^THIS!!!!! just block him in your mind, keep going and show them commitment!! if they are already in shape, how hard is the journey for them, really?? YOUR road is the journey!!!


eesh-- what an 'effing mess!!!

Posts: 502 | Registered: Dec 2011
Wodnships
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Default  Posted: 3:08 PM, April 18th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks for the support everyone. My boss and I have a pretty good relationship so I ended up going into his office today and simply told him that what he said offended me.

He says that he didn't mean it the way he sent it. He meant that there were only two people that could do everything on the video we were doing, and others had to take breaks. What it comes down to is he felt bad himself because he couldn't keep up. So, he's trying to make a change for him, but made it seem about everyone else. All kinds of arm chair physiologist opportunities there.

Anyway I think I'm just at the end of my rope over all and being a little overly sensitive. Good thing I have a fishing trip planed tomorrow nothing gets me centered again like a good day on the river. Or even a bad day on the river.


me: BH 35
Her: WW 28

Married 4 years. Dating 8. Living together 7.

I'm going to make my last stand. This time I can't be bought. Then again on the other hand, how much have you got? - Todd Snider


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