Topic: Update on "I'm having a hard time keeping it together..."
Member # 33882
| Posted: 12:05 PM, April 18th (Friday), 2014|
(((dmari & son))))
him (NPD Ex)
"Diamonds aren't a girl's best friend, freedom is."
Posts: 2589 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: MA
Member # 31528
| Posted: 4:04 PM, April 18th (Friday), 2014|
(((((dmari & DS)))))
Posts: 35063 | Registered: Mar 2011
Member # 18449
| Posted: 4:21 PM, April 18th (Friday), 2014|
(((dmari & son)))
I'm so glad your son is safe.
Posts: 11651 | Registered: Mar 2008
Member # 34697
| Posted: 4:26 PM, April 18th (Friday), 2014|
Oh no! Thank goodness he called the hotline and he's somewhere safe where he can get what he needs.
Fuck what your ex's response to you might be. I'd just make sure that he has the hospital contact info he needs to get involved if he chooses.
I wish I could swing by tonight, make you a little dinner, clean your house, and take care of whatever else you need so you can attend to your kiddos.
(((((((dmari, DD, and DS))))))
[This message edited by tesla at 4:26 PM, April 18th (Friday)]
"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear
Posts: 4618 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Indiana
Member # 30853
| Posted: 4:48 PM, April 18th (Friday), 2014|
(((((dmari and DS)))))
BW - me
ExWH - "that one"
D - 2011
You get what you put in, and people get what they deserve.
Hard as it may be, try to never give the OP any of your power or head space.
Posts: 2788 | Registered: Jan 2011
Member # 35812
| Posted: 6:51 PM, April 18th (Friday), 2014|
Thank God that he reached out. (((hugs)))
Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.
D-Day, June 10, 2012
Posts: 4785 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: So California
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Member # 40882
| Posted: 7:30 AM, April 19th (Saturday), 2014|
Strength to you and your son, dmari. Hugs too.
"The liar's punishment is, not in the least that she is not believed, but that she cannot believe anyone else." -- George B. Shaw
Posts: 46 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: coldshot
Member # 40306
| Posted: 12:17 PM, April 19th (Saturday), 2014|
Thinking of you and your family dmari. Please update us when you are able.
[This message edited by nekorb at 12:17 PM, April 19th (Saturday)]
Me: BS 44; Him: WH 47 aka CAT- colossal asshat; Married 22 years
D-day: July 17, 2013, with TT to follow
D filed July 16, 2014, 363 days later than I should have
Wait for The Lord; be strong and take heart. Wait for the Lord.
Posts: 1838 | Registered: Aug 2013
Member # 29183
| Posted: 1:32 PM, April 19th (Saturday), 2014|
Oh dmari, I'm so sorry!!! Praying for you and your son. Much love to you.
3 amazing kidlets
To WXH "Now you're just somebody that I used to know." http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d9NF2edxy-M
D-day and separation - June, 2009
Divorced - December, 2011
Posts: 2508 | Registered: Jul 2010 | From: A better place
Member # 32962
| Posted: 4:46 PM, April 19th (Saturday), 2014|
Oh my goodness I am so sorry. Take care of you and DS and FTG!
-betrayed almost my whole almost 15 yr marriage
-divorced since 2004
Posts: 866 | Registered: Aug 2011
Member # 41181
| Posted: 11:57 PM, April 19th (Saturday), 2014|
So thankful for the Hotline! Much strength & support coming your way!
Boss A** B*tch
BS/52 Me, STBXpos/56, dd's 16&14
1st D-day 10/19/2013 EA/PA
2nd D-day 12/7/2013 LTA/Rendezvous
S 12/7/2013 No-fault state, 6 mo S, counting down the days.
Posts: 1271 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: DE
Member # 36445
| Posted: 4:14 AM, April 20th (Sunday), 2014|
Oh Dmari, this must be so hard. Thank God your son reached out for help. ((Dmari & Son)) I hope he finds the help he needs.
"Loving someone should not mean losing you. Love empowers you. It shouldn't erase you. - Thelma Davis.
Posts: 1331 | Registered: Aug 2012 | From: Australia
Member # 39169
| Posted: 9:05 AM, April 20th (Sunday), 2014|
Dmari my heart aches for you. I have been through something similar and it just takes your breath away. There is no fear like it. Hugs to you as you find your way forward in healing both of you.
40 somethings - me BW after 20 years
D Day April 2013
Divorced November 2013
Be happy with what you have while you work for what you want - Hellen Keller
Posts: 634 | Registered: May 2013
Member # 37215
| Posted: 3:52 PM, April 20th (Sunday), 2014|
It is so thoughtful for so many of you to reach out to me and my children during this time. I am speechless. The virtual hugs and thoughts have lifted me in a way I can't describe. Thank you! I'm going to post an update on my son as a new topic. I have felt so much love and hope from this forum! Thank you!
Me (BS): 42 Children: DD 18, DS 15
Settled at mediation
Officially divorced ... SOON!
Posts: 2180 | Registered: Oct 2012
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