B is known to be "whiney", per my SIL.
My BIL (ex's brother) came to my house a few weeks ago, unannounced. He said, "You know we love you. You know we hate was EX did to you, right??! I don't know what EX's problem is, but family members know to stay away from him…and no one in the family really likes B either."
BIL is protective of me, and I appreciate his concern. I feel bad that they are "in the middle". They love me, they are my neighbors and I hang out with them, our kids hang out with each other, yet EX is their family. They are supposed to be "Switzerland", in other words, neutral…and we are not supposed to bring them into any of our discussions/arguments.
But, dammit, something is going down in the background and the natives are restless.
I'm guessing EX and B are moving in together and ex brought BIL and SIL into this mess last night. It is too complicated to type. SIL forgot she is supposed to be Switzerland.
Send me mojo. I am dealing with lower muppets today. me...BS, 43 years old, 2 small kids
WS, 41, multiple gay affairs
M 15 years, together 17
"For whatever we lose, like a you or a me, it's always ourselves we find in the sea" ee cummings