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User Topic: Crap - I got hit by collateral damage
homewrecked2011
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Default  Posted: 5:54 AM, April 22nd (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Seriously, go to a free consult at an atty.

I did. The coll company has 7 years in my state to collect, then it's too bad for them, and paying even a dollar starts the 7 years over again.

You may be able to be "off the hook" already.


me BS 52
him - 46
married 15 years DIVORCED 10 31 12
children - ds15 ds12
d-day 12-19-11
I gave a 24hour ultimatum then went to attorney next day
Divorce filed

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tushnurse
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Default  Posted: 8:31 AM, April 22nd (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I have to agree with making sure that it is not your responsibility. I would also urge you to contact the Collection agency, and let them know you know what the SOL is and that your attorney has advised you to tell them xyz. They will probably leave you alone at that point.


Me: FBS
Him: FWS
Kids: 15 & 17
Married for 22 years now, was 16 at the time. .
D-Day Sept 26 2008
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Posts: 8707 | Registered: Oct 2008 | From: St. Louis
hexed
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Default  Posted: 9:59 AM, April 22nd (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I did a quick search and it seems the SOL might be 5 years in your state. Lots of caveats to that but definitely consult with a lawyer


But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned

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Williesmom
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Default  Posted: 7:18 PM, April 23rd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

OK, so after sitting on this for 2 days, I talked to the collection guy. He is giving me until next week to come back with an answer as to what I want to do.

So, tonight I drafted a letter to Wxh's parents. I don't ask them to pay the debt, but I ask them to please call me. I included a copy of everything that the collection agent sent to me.

I was a part of that family for 26 years. They owe me the courtesy of a phone call. I'm putting the letter in the mail tomorrow. They are reasonable people. In the meantime, I'll consult legal counsel. To be continued....

[This message edited by Williesmom at 7:19 PM, April 23rd (Wednesday)]


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Posts: 7765 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Western PA
little turtle
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Default  Posted: 11:28 AM, May 1st (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It's been a week... have you heard back from xh's parents?


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Williesmom
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Default  Posted: 12:12 PM, May 1st (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

No, I did not hear anything from the chickenshit parents of the chickenshit wxh.

So, yesterday, I reached an agreement with the collection guy. I also revoked my personal guarantee (a bit like closing the barn door after the horses are out).

I also got the company to agree that that any overpayments on the account would be refunded to me, not wxh. My fear (or dream) would be that he also pays them, and they refund him the amount that I already paid).

This had better be the last of it.


You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

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