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Default  Posted: 6:14 PM, April 21st (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I agree that SI is awesome!! Due to our members and extremely dedicated Staff...everyone makes this site what it is today, which is hands down the best infidelity site on the internet

I think it's very important to remember that there are real people with real feelings behind the screen names. We are all human and if someone has an issue with something on the site, we'll do our best to fix it, but we don't have to put up with rude remarks and quiet honestly...we won't.

You all keep SI moving forward and I want to thank you all for your time, effort and help!!

"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.

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Default  Posted: 10:53 PM, April 21st (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sorry for the t/j but I looove the fact that I don't have to censor my language here. I am talking about in general like being able to say my day just fucking sucked. Not to be used against any member to cause harm but to just be able to vent without worrying that I will banned for cursing. I was a part of another forum & literally if you said damn or something mild you were reprimanded:( Needless to say I am not a part of that forum anymore. Jamie

BS early 50's Wh also early 50's. I am Jamie, Mom to 3 great teens/young adults. My WH and I have been together more than half of our lives and married 25+. We are in MC & going to give R our best shot, hoping and praying for a better 2013!

Posts: 112 | Registered: Dec 2012 | From: USA
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Default  Posted: 11:31 PM, April 21st (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

from DSI agree that SI is awesome!!

Well, I would hope you feel that way!!

And just to elaborate on the behind the scenes stuff that was referred to:
Any action taken to flag or reprimand or ban a user is a *group* decision. The SI hierarchy has a *meeting of the minds* and decides (as a group) what action (if any) should be taken.
(hope I didn't over-step, I just wanted to make clear that *vendettas* by admins/mods aren't a part of the process.....and if they are, the other admins/mods talk that person *off the ledge*....but no one is out to *get* anyone.)

....and now I'm off to find the thread that started this topic.......

eta: Ok. Read it. Don't really understand what happened because any time I've contacted DS over any type of *administrative* issue it's been addressed in a timely fashion. A lot of work goes into running a heavily trafficked website and I think that MH and DS do a very good job of staying on top of everything that happens here in addition to living a *real* life too.
I also wanted to add that I have a lot of appreciation and respect for the people who have taken on *administrative*-type positions here. Sometimes your own life is going to shit, but you are your support and letting someone know that his/her voice has been heard. And your concern is *for real* guys take your positions seriously and don't just *phone it in*. And so I add my "Thanks" to all of you.

[This message edited by gonnabe2016 at 12:02 AM, April 22nd (Tuesday)]

"Oh, what a tangled web we weave when first we practice to deceive." - Sir Walter Scott

In my effort to be *concise*, I often come off as blunt and harsh. Sorry, don't mean to be offensive.

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Default  Posted: 2:13 PM, April 22nd (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

We <3 you guys!

Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012

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Default  Posted: 2:43 PM, April 22nd (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ditto, ditto, ditto. Thank you for all you do.

excerpt from an awesome quote "Forgiveness - the finishing of old business that allows us to experience the present, free of contamination from the past."

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Default  Posted: 5:06 PM, April 22nd (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Right there with everyone else on the "KUDOS to ALL the mods & admin people on this site".

I, myself, have been "reprimanded" (very nicely & tactfully, I must add) when I broke the rules learning the ropes of SI & cannot believe they take all this on voluntarily. I can only imagine all the crap they truly deal with behind the scenes, so THANK YOU so much for taking the time out of your own lives to help us with ours!!!

Marriage #1=BW-46 (now)
XWH-Deceased on his 36 bday
Divorced in 1996
Marriage #2= Married in 2003
2 kids together-DS14 & DD12
"All this time I was finding myself & I didn't know I was lost"

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