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Default  Posted: 4:43 PM, April 22nd (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Where's Teslen?

Teslet needs some time with his Uncle.



BS: 56
WS: 53
Betrayed: 23 years
Affairs: 14 (2 lasted 3 months. Rest were ONS)
WS died: 16 May 2011
Do not stay in your hurt forever. Choose to move out of it.

Posts: 6580 | Registered: Jul 2006 | From: Wisconsin
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Default  Posted: 5:20 PM, April 22nd (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Teslen is Teslet's saving grace. He's like the safety net. Ex-shat fucks up? It's cool cuz Teslen steps right in and shows Teslet that a man is not a whiny bitch that cries victim to the five year old.

I'm ready for the next onslaught of bullshit. I know ex-shat is going to talk about how mom wouldn't let Teslet come over on Easter. I think I may have headed that one off at the pass to some extent by telling Teslet that daddy made a mistake with the calendar and must have written down the wrong weekend. We have a calendar where we write down when ex-shat is going to see hopefully I will not have to do too much damage control there.

We just have to get to that court date. And speaking of which, I got word today that ex-shat has retained a lawyer. It looks like from the communication ex-shat's L had with mine that ex-shat's L is going to attempt to keep him out of jail. (It's the only play they have...except for disputing my request for a CS modification (due to me now carrying Teslet on my health ins policy)). We'll see if ex-shat gets what he pays for on that one. At the very least, our next hearing will not go into crazy ex-shat fucked up world. Such a shame to be denied the privilege of watching a gifted litigator at work.

"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

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Default  Posted: 5:53 PM, April 22nd (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It's so sad how little they actually care about their kids. It's all about them, all the time.

(((Tesla and Teslet)))

BS (Me) 39
Happily liberated!
Two DS and One DD
It matters not how strait the gate,/How charged with punishments the scroll./I am the master of my fate:/I am the captain of my soul.--"Invictus," William Ernest Henley

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Default  Posted: 6:10 PM, April 22nd (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It unfortunately seems to be a pattern for the cheaters to also do the mind fuckery. Whether it's the ex husband one ex wife. Mine tells the kids that she can't wait until they are older so she can tell them all the bad things daddy did to mommy!!!! I guess u having an AP doesn't count as a bad thing you did to Daddy.

Similar to Abbondad , I have someone with cluster B traits and behaviors that has made this even harder. They all say stupid things. We need to vent here or to family and friends and realize they are spinning lies that grow further on down the line.

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Default  Posted: 7:39 PM, April 22nd (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Someone should just keep sending this guy gift cards to strip clubs so he can occupy himself with endeavors more suited to his intellect.

me: BS
him: XWS

Much of your pain is self-chosen. ~Kahlil Gibran, The Prophet, 1923

"It's not livin' that you're doin' if it feels like dyin." Ray Lamontagne

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