So I've started dating some over the last few months. Dates here and there and did have a date with one guy I kind of liked but ended being just to arrogant and selfish....I definitely don't want selfish again. Well, strangest thing has happened. My XWH best friend whose wife left him 2 years and cheated on him, has been texting me and calling.
He is no longer friends with my XWH because he did not agree with what he did. My XWH even still tries to call him and he will not call him back.
In the meantime, the friendship I had with him has grown through this. He even talked me down one of the two times I had a dark moment and didn't want to live anymore.
Anyway, I am still a little scared of men. So he text me the other night "just thinking about u" and I got scared. I have known him and been friends with him for years and am very attracted to him not only physically but his character as well. Once during my marriage, I caught XWH on the phone with a woman on the back porch. This guy tore into my XWH telling him "you are a married man and have no business talking to other women on the phone. "
My question: how do I stop being scared? Especially about a man I know has a strong moral compass and I like so much as a person? I don't want to ruin it by being scared.