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User Topic: Hissy fit
kg201
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Default  Posted: 3:23 PM, April 23rd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Last week I showed my kids photos of the new apartment that I will be renting from my parents. I didn't want to because I knew STBX would throw a hissy, but they have been really anxious about where they would be living so I showed them. I promptly sent her an email telling her that I told them and that my parents would be paying for housing until our house sells, to head off the questions.

Of course she throws a hissy and starts demanding I tell her how I financed the house. I ignored the requests. So a couple days ago, when she received her SSDI money she refused to put it into the joint account we use for paying bills until the house sells. Her reason, "I am entitled to know how you are financing your new house. You don't want to tell me, so cooperation is gone."

cooperation? Cooperation? And yes, I understand that you feel entitled. Your behavior over the last 4 years has demonstrated that.

I told her I am renting, and now she wants to depose my parents' finances. My lawyers tell me this is ludicrous, but we'll just have to play it out.

The lawyers are trying to sort this out, but what the F? These are her bills as well that she will get slammed on. Oh well. First probate court date on May 8th. Hopefully some progress to ending this debacle will happen.

[This message edited by kg201 at 3:24 PM, April 23rd (Wednesday)]


Me: BH, 39
Her: WW, 40
Together 18 years, married 15+
LTA 3.5 years, ongoing
Dday: 7/28/13
Divorcing, 3 children
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"There can be no friendship without confidence, and no confidence without integrity." -S

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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 3:27 PM, April 23rd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

"Hissy fit" is the perfect description of her reaction. Cheese and rice. Your parents' financials are completely irrelevant to your divorce. What an idjit.


You can call me NIK

Wise men talk because they have something to say; fools, because they have to say something.
- Plato


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GabyBaby
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Default  Posted: 3:30 PM, April 23rd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wow!
Instead of cheese and rice, I'd be more apt to say the cheese slid off her cracker if she thinks your parent's finances are ANY of her business.

Congrats on your new place btw!


Me - 42
SorryInSac - WH#2 - 47. DDay 7/12/14
Married 4yrs, together 7yrs total

DD(21), DS(18, PDD-NOS)
5 Furkids (3 Dogs, 2 Cats)

WXH (serial cheater, 12+ OW)
Legally married 18yrs, together 16.5yrs

Note: I edit often for typos/clarity.


Posts: 6074 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: California
7yrsflushed
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Default  Posted: 3:33 PM, April 23rd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I guess she is including the financial support she is getting from OM if he is still around too right.

You were better than me KG. I don't tell my stbxww anything. She never bothered to tell me when she started fucking OM so I feel no obligation to tell her anything about my life now.


D-day 5/24/11
BH = Me
2 children
The first true sense of calm I felt in YEARS was when I filed for D...
D hopefully official in 7/2014

Posts: 1825 | Registered: May 2011 | From: VA
kg201
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Default  Posted: 3:40 PM, April 23rd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

If she does keep pushing the craziness and deposes my parents I am going to request her business account statements for the last four years so she can show how much money she took from the family to finance her affair. Hopefully it doesn't come to that because I just want to be rid of this marriage and move on.


Me: BH, 39
Her: WW, 40
Together 18 years, married 15+
LTA 3.5 years, ongoing
Dday: 7/28/13
Divorcing, 3 children
---------------------------------
"There can be no friendship without confidence, and no confidence without integrity." -S

Posts: 586 | Registered: Aug 2013
SBB
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Default  Posted: 4:00 PM, April 23rd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I promptly sent her an email telling her that I told them and that my parents would be paying for housing until our house sells, to head off the questions

IMO this is where you went wrong. Why are you telling her this stuff? Why are you heading off questions? You just don't answer them.

None of this is her business unless your L tells you it is her business.

You still think you're dealing with a rational human being - you are not. Lesson learned. Don't engage - let her hang herself.


Buzz- The word you are searching for is 'Space-Ranger.'
Woody- The word I'm searching for, I can't say, because there are Pre-school toys here.

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