Last week I showed my kids photos of the new apartment that I will be renting from my parents. I didn't want to because I knew STBX would throw a hissy, but they have been really anxious about where they would be living so I showed them. I promptly sent her an email telling her that I told them and that my parents would be paying for housing until our house sells, to head off the questions.
Of course she throws a hissy and starts demanding I tell her how I financed the house. I ignored the requests. So a couple days ago, when she received her SSDI money she refused to put it into the joint account we use for paying bills until the house sells. Her reason, "I am entitled to know how you are financing your new house. You don't want to tell me, so cooperation is gone."
cooperation? Cooperation? And yes, I understand that you feel entitled. Your behavior over the last 4 years has demonstrated that.
I told her I am renting, and now she wants to depose my parents' finances. My lawyers tell me this is ludicrous, but we'll just have to play it out.
The lawyers are trying to sort this out, but what the F? These are her bills as well that she will get slammed on. Oh well. First probate court date on May 8th. Hopefully some progress to ending this debacle will happen.