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User Topic: Supportive Voices
brokeback
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Default  Posted: 8:20 PM, April 24th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

By saying more evolved, I meant my own personal style of communication.

I went from police officer, shouting and bossing and telling ppl what to do, to social worker to educator. My communication skills have evolved over the years, not more evolved than anyone's here.


ME 43
BS 38
1 Child 3 years old
Married 18 years
DDay - 10/2013. EA 9 months. PA 4 months. Ended the affair 11/2014



Posts: 69 | Registered: Dec 2013
Aubrie
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Default  Posted: 8:23 PM, April 24th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh for the love of humanity.

We all speak different ways. We all have different styles. This is an infidelity website. Emotions run high. Some of us are just now finding our voices and "eloquence" fails us. Doesn't mean the heart isn't in the right place. Tough love, mushy love, pick your poison. Nobody is out to get anyone else. Take what you need, leave the rest.

Someone pass me marshmalllow. Its time to sing Kumbaya.


Me - FWW * Him - QuietStand

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - J. Wayne

"What if I fall?" Oh but my darling, what if you fly?


Posts: 6167 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: South, Y'all!
Deeply Scared
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Default  Posted: 8:25 PM, April 24th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh for the love of humanity.

Rough day babe?


"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.


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brokeback
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Default  Posted: 8:26 PM, April 24th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Exactly, like I said, if it does apply, let it fly...

Pretty sure that was said in the original post.

For the love of god is right...


ME 43
BS 38
1 Child 3 years old
Married 18 years
DDay - 10/2013. EA 9 months. PA 4 months. Ended the affair 11/2014



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Unagie
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Default  Posted: 8:27 PM, April 24th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

^^^^^^

Here ya go


Heartbroken madhatter trying to rebuild

No longer together

Do not let others be your reference for who you see in the mirror.

Stop allowing people to hurt you, because you don't love you enough to walk away.


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Aubrie
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Default  Posted: 8:28 PM, April 24th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Well looks like DS wore her sassy pants today.


Me - FWW * Him - QuietStand

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - J. Wayne

"What if I fall?" Oh but my darling, what if you fly?


Posts: 6167 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: South, Y'all!
Deeply Scared
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Default  Posted: 8:29 PM, April 24th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I still fit in them and they look goooood!


"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.


Posts: 197359 | Registered: May 2002
Deeply Scared
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Default  Posted: 8:30 PM, April 24th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

brokeback...

It's all ok...we really do understand and appreciate your voice


"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.


Posts: 197359 | Registered: May 2002
Aubrie
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Default  Posted: 8:30 PM, April 24th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I still fit in them and they look goooood!

[This message edited by Aubrie at 8:31 PM, April 24th (Thursday)]


Me - FWW * Him - QuietStand

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - J. Wayne

"What if I fall?" Oh but my darling, what if you fly?


Posts: 6167 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: South, Y'all!
brokeback
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Default  Posted: 8:33 PM, April 24th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

No worries, I feel the love and can see how mature and well adjusted you are.

Forum should say...newbies, shut up, keep still, kiss our ass, we are queens, you are shit...welcome, bend over and take it.


ME 43
BS 38
1 Child 3 years old
Married 18 years
DDay - 10/2013. EA 9 months. PA 4 months. Ended the affair 11/2014



Posts: 69 | Registered: Dec 2013
20WrongsVs1
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Default  Posted: 8:36 PM, April 24th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wow.

If only we all could be so mature and evolved as you. Thanks for modeling that for us.


fWW: 42
BH: 52
Sweet DS & fierce DD, under 10
"Between stimulus and response there’s a space, in that space lies our power to choose our response, in our response lies our growth and our freedom." V. Frankl

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BaxtersBFF
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Default  Posted: 8:37 PM, April 24th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

newbies, shut up, keep still, kiss our ass, we are queens, you are shit...welcome, bend over and take it.
It's funny when the newbies try telling that to the old-timers...


WH - 44
BW - gerrygirl

Posts: 6097 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Boise
brokeback
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Default  Posted: 8:42 PM, April 24th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You are a band of bullies. How very sad.

Truth hurts. There's issues with your "so called" safe place.

What a joke this site is. Pathetic really.


ME 43
BS 38
1 Child 3 years old
Married 18 years
DDay - 10/2013. EA 9 months. PA 4 months. Ended the affair 11/2014



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Unagie
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Default  Posted: 8:42 PM, April 24th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

newbies, shut up, keep still, kiss our ass, we are queens, you are shit...welcome, bend over and take it.

Where in the hell did you get that!? Funny I felt like everyone here was expressing opinion somehow it went from engaging conversation to a widely painted insult to what I am assuming is pointed to the female waywards posting to you. I'll take this time to bow out of this thread. Good luck.

[This message edited by Unagie at 8:43 PM, April 24th (Thursday)]


Heartbroken madhatter trying to rebuild

No longer together

Do not let others be your reference for who you see in the mirror.

Stop allowing people to hurt you, because you don't love you enough to walk away.


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bionicgal
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Default  Posted: 8:43 PM, April 24th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It wasn't just me! I felt this weird undercurrent with this thread. . . and then Blamo!

I am a BS, and I think most of the the waywards here are just incredible;I have learned a ton. And, there are some really fine writers as well. For a public forum on a emotionally loaded topic, I can't believe it is as positive as it is.


me - BS (40s)
DDay - June 2013, A was 2+ months, EA then PA
In MC & Reconciling
An affair is more like a mental break than a relationship.

I edit, therefore I am.


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Aubrie
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Default  Posted: 8:44 PM, April 24th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Forum should say...newbies, shut up, keep still, kiss our ass, we are queens, you are shit...welcome, bend over and take it.
Hooo boy. I'm sorry you see it that way. It couldn't be further from the truth. But I don't think anyone can convince you otherwise brokeback.

I don't know what you want here brokeback. You want everyone to be gentle. To who's version? Yours? Who calls the shots? This is a community of many voices. If you don't like it, that's on you. Not anyone else.


Me - FWW * Him - QuietStand

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - J. Wayne

"What if I fall?" Oh but my darling, what if you fly?


Posts: 6167 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: South, Y'all!
sunnyrain
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Default  Posted: 9:01 PM, April 24th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Brokeback,

If I don't see you around, I wish you and your family the very best of luck in your recovery.

Stay strong!


"I'm not much into health food, I am into champagne."

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BaxtersBFF
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Default  Posted: 9:01 PM, April 24th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Man...the thread starts out pretty cool, then gets cooler, it seems like we're all on the same page, then some humor, then something that seem like it could be tongue in cheek, and now this? What the hell happened to "take what you need and leave the rest"?

Sorry things took a turn. I'll bow out.


WH - 44
BW - gerrygirl

Posts: 6097 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Boise
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Default  Posted: 9:04 PM, April 24th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It's a mystery to me too Baxter.

I thought everyone was giving Brokeback a voice and place, color me stupid


"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.


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tired girl
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Default  Posted: 9:06 PM, April 24th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Brokeback,

I am curious as to what it is exactly you need for others to see here?


Me45 Him 45 Hardlessons DS 25,23,20
D Day 1/18/10 his 3/8/2012 mine
"No one can make you feel inferior without your consent." Eleanor Roosevelt

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