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MissesJai
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Default  Posted: 4:46 PM, April 24th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Jrazz))) big hugs hon...


FWW - 41
"Don't think first about the risks of speaking up. Think first about the risks of not speaking up." ~ Kerry Patterson

Posts: 5978 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: So Cal.....
Aubrie
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Default  Posted: 4:47 PM, April 24th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((((Spazzie Razzie))))))


Me - FWW * Him - QuietStand

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - J. Wayne


Posts: 6309 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: South, Y'all!
Kajem
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Default  Posted: 5:00 PM, April 24th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending love, peace, strength - whatever you need.

And some hugs, ((((((((Jrazz)))))))


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

Posts: 5272 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Florida
Allornothing
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Default  Posted: 5:07 PM, April 24th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Jrazz)))

You're always here for us, I'm glad that we can be here for you.

Sending prayers and strength.


Me- BS 43
Him- FWH 43
Married 19 years, Together 26
Kids- 23,21,15,14
D Day- 7 Sept 2013
OW- Irrelevant

Posts: 190 | Registered: Feb 2014 | From: Australia
Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 5:09 PM, April 24th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks everyone. Vitamin exercise helps a lot. Gonna go pick up DD in a bit and that's always a boost too.


Cherish those who seek the truth but beware of those who find it. - François-Marie Arouet

Posts: 17850 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
AFrayedKnot
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Default  Posted: 5:13 PM, April 24th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Jrazz)))


BS 40
fWS 36 (SurprisinglyOkay)
DD DS
A whole bunch of shit that got a lot worse before it got better.
"Knowing is half the battle"

Posts: 2633 | Registered: Aug 2012
yearsofpain25
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Default  Posted: 5:20 PM, April 24th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thinking of you Jrazz. Hope your day gets better and everything turns out alright.


25 years and counting of pain caused by mother's infidelity. Aftermath: 1 deceased sibling, 1 lost family, 3 lost souls.
"Each new day I am just glad to be alive and have survived all that I did." Ashland13

Posts: 2200 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: Northeast US
metamorphisis
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Default  Posted: 6:37 PM, April 24th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending you love and strength my friend. Process it all and take care of you. We're here when you need us.



“We don't see things as they are; we see them as we are.”... Anais Nin

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norabird
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Default  Posted: 6:42 PM, April 24th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((((Jrazz))))

You're such a wonderful woman and mom and support. Have a good night with your DD. Hugs and strength.


Sit. Feast on your life.

Posts: 4196 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: NYC
Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 7:54 PM, April 24th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks everyone. We're an hour past promised check in call. Please keep the mojo rolling.


Cherish those who seek the truth but beware of those who find it. - François-Marie Arouet

Posts: 17850 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
mchercheur
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Default  Posted: 8:07 PM, April 24th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Jrazz))) sending you strength


together 25 yrs, married 24 yrs, 4 children;Rebuilding
D Day: 5/10/2011 PA
OW: WH's co-worker,divorced, no children, 20 yrs younger than I-----& she knew he was married, had met our kids, but that did not stop her from trying to destroy our family

Posts: 1396 | Registered: Dec 2012
Kajem
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Default  Posted: 8:08 PM, April 24th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Mojo continuing your way.

((((((((Jrazz))))))))


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

Posts: 5272 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Florida
Neverwudaguessed
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Default  Posted: 8:08 PM, April 24th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ugh! Today must be so frustrating. I hope that Crazz confides in you what is going on for him. Hopefully this is just a minor bump in the road, but you are so strong even though you may not feel it now. We all feel it through the way that you give to us. Whatever this is, you will get through it. You have all of us supporting you. Hang in…… Maybe you will feel better once you have a heart to heart.


BW: 44 Me
WH:48
DDay1 9-9-13 (18th Wedding Anniversary) 6 wk EA, 1 wk PA
DDay2: 10-25-13 EA/PA with same OW 12 1/2 years ago for 3 months
OW: XGF Predator who never stopped pursuing WH
DS 13
DD 11

Posts: 645 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: New York
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 8:09 PM, April 24th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((((Razzie))))) Sending you more love than you can imagine.


You can call me NIK

"If you carry joy in your heart, you can heal any moment."
- Carlos Santana


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karmahappens
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Default  Posted: 8:10 PM, April 24th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Praying for strength, mojo and peace ♥


“And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom”
Anaïs Nin
Me: 45
Him: 47
Dday 8/2007
We have R'd

Posts: 3846 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: Massachusetts
jo2love
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Default  Posted: 8:19 PM, April 24th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Jrazz)))

Sending strength, hope, and love.


Posts: 35915 | Registered: Mar 2011
Unagie
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Default  Posted: 8:24 PM, April 24th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh honey sending you so much strength and love.

((((JRazz))))


Heartbroken madhatter trying to rebuild

No longer together

"To be loyal to myself is to allow myself to grow and change, and challenge who I am and what I think."


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SisterMilkshake
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Default  Posted: 8:56 PM, April 24th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You are in my thoughts, Jrazz. Sending peaceful and serene thoughts to you. (((Jrazz)))


BW (me) 50ish FWH 50ish
Married 34 years, 3 children
d-day 3/10 LTA (4 yrs./fucking & flirting)

"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak!" ~ Homer Simpson


Posts: 9801 | Registered: Nov 2010 | From: The Great White North USA
norabird
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Default  Posted: 9:09 PM, April 24th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Still sending positive mojo to you.


Sit. Feast on your life.

Posts: 4196 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: NYC
Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 10:25 PM, April 24th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Whereas the evening did not end great with Crazz, I did suck it up and have DD call and say goodnight to him.(Did I mention he's traveling?)I will never ever let our issues come in the way of her relationship with him, no matter what crappy decisions he makes in regards to me.

The evening DID end well in that I got to hang out with my little raison d'etre, Vrazz. She's on a lot of asthma/allergy meds so she gets a popsicle when she finishes her evening ones. (They're pedialyte pops... shhhhh don't tell her! ) She also gets to choose a cartoon to watch while she does the nebulizer. Tonight we rocked out to Jem and the Holograms.

I can't tell you all what it means to have your support. There are too many details about what happened today and I'm reeling too much to type them out. I want to have a more centered post to share and I will later.

For tonight, I have your love and my daughter's and I feel good. Thank you all.


Cherish those who seek the truth but beware of those who find it. - François-Marie Arouet

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