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User Topic: Rough day
blackbirdfly
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Default  Posted: 7:30 AM, April 25th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I haven't been around much, so I just saw this. I hope you're ok. I know that icy cold feeling all too well.

Tons of hugs and support and strength to you. Let me know if I can help at all.


Me: BW - 36
Him: WH - 38

Kids, yes.

Currently in Limbo, possible R. WH says he wants R. I'm not convinced.


Posts: 43 | Registered: Oct 2013
Williesmom
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Default  Posted: 7:32 AM, April 25th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((Razz family))

Hang in there, J. Have faith.


You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

Posts: 7504 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Western PA
SBB
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Default  Posted: 8:03 AM, April 25th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending you love Jrazz. I barely believe in this Mythical thing called R but I am rooting for you guys.

No matter what happens you are going to be OK.


Buzz- The word you are searching for is 'Space-Ranger.'
Woody- The word I'm searching for, I can't say, because there are Pre-school toys here.

Posts: 5526 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Australia
gahurts
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Default  Posted: 8:38 AM, April 25th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hope today is a much better day and that you get through it together and that you feel the love of VRazz.


"Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indominable will" - Mahatma Gandi

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - Aubrie


Posts: 3377 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: Georgia
lynnm1947
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Default  Posted: 8:49 AM, April 25th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hope you have found a little peace, Jrazz. Hugs and love.


Age: 64..ummmmmmm, no...............65....no...oh, hell born in 1947. You figure it out!

"I could have missed the pain, but I would have had to miss the dance." Garth Brooks


Posts: 7162 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Toronto, Canada
GabyBaby
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Default  Posted: 9:02 AM, April 25th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending you loads of hugs and hopes that today is a better day.

((( Jrazz )))


Me - 40s
SorryInSac - WH#2 - 40s. DDay 7/12/14
Married 4yrs, together 7yrs total

DD(21), DS(18, PDD-NOS)
6 Furkids (4 Dogs, 2 Cats)

WXH (serial cheater, 12+ OW)
Legally married 18yrs, together 16.5yrs

Note: I edit often for clarity/typos.


Posts: 6262 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: California
itainteasy
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Default  Posted: 9:10 AM, April 25th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm hoping today is a better day.

((((JRazz))))))


Posts: 3351 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: NWPA
Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 11:02 AM, April 25th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks everyone. Came straight here to collect hugs this morning. (Well, I detoured to the kitchen to assemble Miss Thang's pancakes and watermelon, THEN I came here.)


You will have bad times, but they will always wake you up to the stuff you weren't paying attention to. - Robin Williams

Posts: 16776 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
norabird
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Default  Posted: 11:03 AM, April 25th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

pancakes and watermelon

That's a new one! Extra syrupy hugs to you this morning if those are a thing.


Sit. Feast on your life.

Posts: 4019 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: NYC
tired girl
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Default  Posted: 11:08 AM, April 25th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((Jrazz))))
Hope today is better for you.


Me45 Him 45 Hardlessons DS 25,23,20
D Day 1/18/10 his 3/8/2012 mine
"No one can make you feel inferior without your consent." Eleanor Roosevelt

Posts: 4682 | Registered: Mar 2010 | From: az
Kajem
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Default  Posted: 1:22 PM, April 25th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

"Pancakes and watermelon" I think I found my dinner for Grammy and DGD! Thanks for the dinner idea.

I hope today is better.

More hugs,
K


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

Posts: 4982 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Florida
Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 5:38 PM, April 25th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Today's ok. Wasn't as productive as I wanted to be, but the feeling in my chest is heavy. I have work tomorrow and my boogaloo's birthday on Sunday. Both are welcome distractions. I'm not a runner or a compartmentalizer by nature, but I think it's the way I'm going to have to do it this weekend to avoid getting overly emotional.

I have a counseling appointment on Monday which I am VERY much looking forward to.

Thanks to all who have sent PM's and fb messages and texts... I'm sorry if I haven't gotten back to you and I hope you understand. I will after this week.


You will have bad times, but they will always wake you up to the stuff you weren't paying attention to. - Robin Williams

Posts: 16776 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
ThoughtIKnewYa
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Default  Posted: 5:44 PM, April 25th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Jrazz)))

I'm sorry I'm late to the thread, but I just saw this. I hope your weekend goes okay.


Posts: 11534 | Registered: Mar 2008
Unagie
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Default  Posted: 5:52 PM, April 25th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Take the distractions and enjoy yourself. You dont need that heaviness on you so I for one am glad you will do something distracting.

((((JRazz))))


Heartbroken madhatter trying to rebuild

No longer together

Do not let others be your reference for who you see in the mirror.

Stop allowing people to hurt you, because you don't love you enough to walk away.


Posts: 2691 | Registered: Oct 2012
sisoon
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Default  Posted: 6:01 PM, April 25th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Jrazz)))

Happy birthday to V - Watch out! She's gaining on you!


fBH (me) - 70, fWW (plainsong) - 65+, Married 45+, together since 1965
DDay - 12/2010
Recovered, not yet fully R'ed
I share my own experience because it's the only experience I know, not because I'm a good model.

Posts: 9911 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: Chicago area
still2suspicious
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Default  Posted: 6:01 PM, April 25th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am sorry you have hit a dip. Glad you have a weekend full of plans.

You are an amazing and thoughtful woman. You deserve whatever you need in life.

Sending strength.


Me: BS
Him: WH
DDay: LTEA

Posts: 1275 | Registered: Apr 2011 | From:
Kajem
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Default  Posted: 6:21 PM, April 25th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending strength, love, peace and birthday greetings to little razz.

Hugs for mama.

Kajem


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

Posts: 4982 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Florida
Amazonia
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Default  Posted: 12:44 AM, April 26th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((Jrazz))


"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

Posts: 13651 | Registered: Jul 2011
tesla
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Default  Posted: 10:22 AM, April 26th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Jrazz, I always enjoy reading your posts. They lift me up and make me laugh. I hate that you are having a rough time.
(((((hugs)))))
Sending you mojo and good thoughts.


"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

Posts: 4605 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Indiana
tired girl
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Default  Posted: 10:26 AM, April 26th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((Jrazz)))

Hugs for today. Hope it is going better.


Me45 Him 45 Hardlessons DS 25,23,20
D Day 1/18/10 his 3/8/2012 mine
"No one can make you feel inferior without your consent." Eleanor Roosevelt

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