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User Topic: Send me some Mojo!
careerlady
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Cool  Posted: 12:40 AM, April 25th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I know I haven't been around, been dealing with my DS's regression as well as the D paperwork and work.

BUT! We submitted the default judgement proposal again today! Hopefully the judge will accept it this time and we can hit the original dissolution date of 5/3! The Snake would be SOOO surprised to find himself divorced, hehe since he's been ignoring the whole process, including the revised financial disclosures served on him last week but sitting in his mail pile unopened.

If I got my judgement then I'd just have to work on evicting him....


Me (BS, 35); The Snake (WS, 36) 13yrs together; 1 baby boy (DOB 7/12)
Serial cheater-Multiple OWs, Multiple D-Days
D by default 5/3/14!
In house 8 mos, moved out 7/1!!!
Summary: http://youtu.be/iaysTVcounI

Posts: 942 | Registered: Nov 2007 | From: Northern California
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 12:45 AM, April 25th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

SO much mojo coming your way!


You can call me NIK

"If you carry joy in your heart, you can heal any moment."
- Carlos Santana


Posts: 25763 | Registered: Aug 2011
CheaterMagnet
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Default  Posted: 1:22 AM, April 25th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Uber Mojo!!!!!


If Happy Ever After did exist, I would still be holding you like this.
All those fairly tales are full of shit.
One more fucking love song I'll be sick. ~ Maroon 5

Posts: 1037 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: Kailua-Kona, HI
Gemini71
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Default  Posted: 7:49 AM, April 25th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Prayers and positive thoughts coming your way.


Edited to correct stupid typos.

Two steps forward and one step backwards, is still progress.


Posts: 1862 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: Illinois, USA
norabird
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Default  Posted: 10:42 AM, April 25th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Eventual eviction mojo


Sit. Feast on your life.

Posts: 4196 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: NYC
Kajem
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Default  Posted: 10:48 AM, April 25th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Mojo on its way!!!!! Eviction mojo following.

Hugs,
K


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

Posts: 5279 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Florida
one2ndchance
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Default  Posted: 10:59 AM, April 25th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wow...this is great, but I'm just wondering..is he just stupid or lazy or does he just think you won't go through with evicting him?


Me: BW 59
Him: STBXWH 61
Married: 25 years
DDay1: 2/2002; DDay2: 6/2012
Gave him his second chance and he blew it.
Divorcing

Posts: 479 | Registered: May 2007 | From: California
IrishLass518
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Default  Posted: 2:21 PM, April 25th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Much mojo :)


Me: 46 BS Divorced
Him: 45 Married OW
DDay: 07/04/2008
Divorced: 06/15/2011
5 kids: IrishLass 27,IrishLad 25, IrishLass 23, IrishLad 21 and IrishLad 12
"You can't run from trouble..there ain't no place that far"

Posts: 1778 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: WA
tushnurse
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Default  Posted: 6:41 PM, April 25th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Eviction mojo. Can't you just have him arrested for trespassing once the d is final?


Me: FBS
Him: FWS
Kids: 15 & 17
Married for 22 years now, was 16 at the time. .
D-Day Sept 26 2008
Fully R'd, and Happy Happy Happy

Posts: 8716 | Registered: Oct 2008 | From: St. Louis
justinpaintoday
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Default  Posted: 6:43 PM, April 25th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Good for u


I never realized you could be in this much pain and not be dying.

Posts: 700 | Registered: Mar 2014
careerlady
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Default  Posted: 9:39 PM, April 25th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks guys!

One2ndchance - yeah he's the ultimate narcissist. He doesn't think I'd ever leave him. He actually "threatened" me that if I divorce him there's no going back. That was our last discussion so he probably thinks he put me in my place

Eviction mojo. Can't you just have him arrested for trespassing once the d is final?


Love it!!!!


Me (BS, 35); The Snake (WS, 36) 13yrs together; 1 baby boy (DOB 7/12)
Serial cheater-Multiple OWs, Multiple D-Days
D by default 5/3/14!
In house 8 mos, moved out 7/1!!!
Summary: http://youtu.be/iaysTVcounI

Posts: 942 | Registered: Nov 2007 | From: Northern California
thebighurt
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Default  Posted: 12:25 AM, April 26th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Mojo, mojo, MOJO!!


Finding what life could have been....... Why didn't I see it?

Posts: 2386 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: the Other Side
SBB
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Default  Posted: 1:34 AM, April 26th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'll join that mojo conga line.

Mojo!!


I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!

Posts: 5609 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Australia
careerlady
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Default  Posted: 1:29 AM, May 1st (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I saw on the court website that a judgement was filed!!! So looks like I got it!

Now I just have to hope he doesn't get mad and appeal for the default to be set aside! Should I give him his eviction notice at the same time as the papers? I'm nervous about his temper and we do have a young toddler to raise...


Me (BS, 35); The Snake (WS, 36) 13yrs together; 1 baby boy (DOB 7/12)
Serial cheater-Multiple OWs, Multiple D-Days
D by default 5/3/14!
In house 8 mos, moved out 7/1!!!
Summary: http://youtu.be/iaysTVcounI

Posts: 942 | Registered: Nov 2007 | From: Northern California
Skan
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Default  Posted: 7:01 PM, May 1st (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'd have the papers and eviction notice served at the same time, and I'd pay to have a professional do it. Preferably at work, late on a day when you've already had a locksmith come change the locks on all of the doors and have unplugged the garage door opener. If you feel kind, you might want to help him pack up his clothing too with some hefty bags on the sidewalk. But then, I'm known to be a cantankerous old bitch at times.

Congratulations!


Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012



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