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User Topic: Divorce is final
No12turn2
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Member # 40996
Default  Posted: 9:56 AM, April 25th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Went to court yesterday. It's final and she didn't fight me on anything. As of today, I am a new man


Me/BS 35
WW 32
M 12 yrs 2 Girls 10 & 7
Phone/Cyber Affairs (3 D-Days)
Status: DIVORCED 4/24/2014

No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.


Posts: 526 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: United Staes
SBB
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Member # 35229
Default  Posted: 10:02 AM, April 25th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm so glad it wasn't a protracted battle.

I celebrated mine because it was a long time coming (mandatory waiting periods). There's no 'right' way to feel about it and it can change from one day to the next.

For me even in my worst days it was still better than being lied to, deceived, abused and cheated on. Better than my best days in that M because the feelings are authentic.

It's not how I planned it but it's a hell of a lot better than the way it was heading.

Congratulations on being free. Here's to your New Beginning!


I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!

Posts: 5609 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Australia
MadeOfScars
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Default  Posted: 10:05 AM, April 25th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Whether its congratulations or condolences you need in this moment, I wish you the best in your new life. I know you'll make it a great one!


“The wound is the place where the Light enters you.” ― Rumi

Posts: 1225 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: Texas
No12turn2
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Member # 40996
Default  Posted: 10:19 AM, April 25th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks!


Me/BS 35
WW 32
M 12 yrs 2 Girls 10 & 7
Phone/Cyber Affairs (3 D-Days)
Status: DIVORCED 4/24/2014

No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.


Posts: 526 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: United Staes
Caretaker1
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Member # 42777
Default  Posted: 10:22 AM, April 25th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Lucky you not being fought on in every detail. Who gets the girls? Who got the major assets, who is paying CS?

Posts: 234 | Registered: Mar 2014
No12turn2
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Member # 40996
Default  Posted: 10:37 AM, April 25th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

50/50 on girls. One week here, one week there. The off parent gets a 2 hour dinner night with the girls on Wednesdays. I was assigned as the primary residence for their school. I get the home we live in and the house in Colorado was ordered to be sold. I split the profit with her AFTER any out of pocket expenses are reimbursed to me. No alimony but I will pay $630 a month CS.


Me/BS 35
WW 32
M 12 yrs 2 Girls 10 & 7
Phone/Cyber Affairs (3 D-Days)
Status: DIVORCED 4/24/2014

No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.


Posts: 526 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: United Staes
norabird
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Default  Posted: 10:37 AM, April 25th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Mazel tov on your new chapter.


Sit. Feast on your life.

Posts: 4196 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: NYC
No12turn2
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Member # 40996
Default  Posted: 11:07 AM, April 25th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Going to cleanse my life of her starting with the house. This should be really awkward for her. She was given 30 days to move out. She will get to see how fast I am moving on.


Me/BS 35
WW 32
M 12 yrs 2 Girls 10 & 7
Phone/Cyber Affairs (3 D-Days)
Status: DIVORCED 4/24/2014

No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.


Posts: 526 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: United Staes
DepressedDaddy
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Default  Posted: 11:28 AM, April 25th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It sounds like yo are happy with the results, so that means we are too! Congratulations and always remember that you have a lot of life in front of you. That's what I am hanging on at least!

Just take care of you now.


Since D I have become DDaddy 2.0 - or better known as DevotedDaddy

“Optimism is a strategy for making a better future. Because unless you believe that the future can be better, you are unlikely to step up and take responsibility for making it so."


Posts: 811 | Registered: Dec 2013
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 11:34 AM, April 25th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Welcome to the other side, No1.


You can call me NIK

"If you carry joy in your heart, you can heal any moment."
- Carlos Santana


Posts: 25726 | Registered: Aug 2011
Pass
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Member # 38122
Default  Posted: 11:50 AM, April 25th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You should expect a little jealousy from those of us who live in places with a one year waiting period before we can even file.

Sorry, that was off-topic. Despite the jealousy, I'm very happy for you!


Loyal spouse: Me; Disloyal spouse: The Princess
Two sons: Now 11 and 14
DDay: Nov 15, 2012
Separated: Mar 2, 2013 after 17 year marriage, now divorcing!

The best thing about hitting rock bottom is that everything after that looks fucking fabulous


Posts: 2089 | Registered: Jan 2013
No12turn2
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Member # 40996
Default  Posted: 1:48 PM, April 25th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I had my jealousy with those who were attempting to R. Struggled with coming here on most days. Time to wake myself up and get things moving in the right direction


Me/BS 35
WW 32
M 12 yrs 2 Girls 10 & 7
Phone/Cyber Affairs (3 D-Days)
Status: DIVORCED 4/24/2014

No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.


Posts: 526 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: United Staes
Pass
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Member # 38122
Default  Posted: 2:13 PM, April 25th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I hear you, No12. You're doing great!


Loyal spouse: Me; Disloyal spouse: The Princess
Two sons: Now 11 and 14
DDay: Nov 15, 2012
Separated: Mar 2, 2013 after 17 year marriage, now divorcing!

The best thing about hitting rock bottom is that everything after that looks fucking fabulous


Posts: 2089 | Registered: Jan 2013
WestMonroe91
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Member # 41999
Default  Posted: 6:19 PM, April 25th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations.

I hope to join your status real soon but WW is stalling by asking for more discovery. No SS or CS is involved. I just want to get to the settlement phase so I too can start a new life.


BS-60 (me)
WS-49
DD-25, DS-21, DS-20

Posts: 62 | Registered: Jan 2014
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