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User Topic: Perspective and My Friend's D.S.D
Mama_of_3_Kids
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Default  Posted: 9:26 PM, April 25th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Just when I thought my world was about to fall apart from some stuff that really doesn't matter, in the grand scheme of it all, one of my friends came over so I could help get her daughter registered for camp (her 8yo DD and my 8 yo DD have been BFF's for four years and are going to "horse camp" this year). While she was over, she started telling us about what's been happening.

Her h has been having medical problems over the last year and a half...last Feb he would have died if I would not have convinced her that he needed to go to the ER (he has a congenital condition that was presenting in an "uncommon to his disease process" way). He recently had another "attack" and was in the hospital, but they were able to get him back to health and changed meds...he's healthier now than what he's been in years. However, in the midst of all of this, her 13 yo DSD has begun to act out. She is being risky with a boy who got caught receiving head from another girl, while at school Their 13 yo is sneaking out, running away, receiving and sending inappropriate pix, etc. She says that she wants to go live with her bio mom (who will let her do whatever she wants with whomever she wants). The girl lived with bio mom until she was 6, and the courts took her out of the mom's care and placed her with her dad and my friend (the step-mom). Do3K and I sat and talked with her for a few hours, trying to help. If you could, please be praying for her and the entire family, as they determine what their next steps will be.

My problems seemed so big until I talked to her. A little perspective went quiet a ways tonight.


Me: FBW/30 Him: FWH/33 The kidlets: DS13, DS10, and DD8 The hounds: Four Shih Tzu's
Finally, completely R'd
Clothed in strength and dignity, with nothing to fear, she smiles when she thinks about the future.~Proverbs 31:25

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MovingUpward
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Default  Posted: 10:41 PM, April 25th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending prayers her way.


AKA Moo

Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless

We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.


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norabird
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Default  Posted: 12:39 AM, April 26th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I hope your friend's DD gets straightened out. You're right, sometimes life reminds us we have it easy.


Sit. Feast on your life.

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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 7:26 AM, April 26th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending prayers, mojo, and mojo.

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Kajem
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Default  Posted: 8:52 AM, April 26th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Saying prayers..


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still2suspicious
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Default  Posted: 11:11 AM, April 26th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending prayers for your friend and DSD.

At 13 she is just a baby!!! My DGD is almost 13 and my heart broke when I read this. They just don't know, do they??


Me: BS
Him: WH
DDay: LTEA

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hexed
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Default  Posted: 1:26 PM, April 26th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((( DSD)))

Its such a tough time. I have no idea how any of live through the 13 -15 years.


But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned

“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler


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Mama_of_3_Kids
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Default  Posted: 2:28 PM, April 26th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you, everyone.


Me: FBW/30 Him: FWH/33 The kidlets: DS13, DS10, and DD8 The hounds: Four Shih Tzu's
Finally, completely R'd
Clothed in strength and dignity, with nothing to fear, she smiles when she thinks about the future.~Proverbs 31:25

Posts: 11553 | Registered: Dec 2009
Mama_of_3_Kids
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Default  Posted: 8:14 PM, April 27th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My friend and her h go to the lawyer, tomorrow, to evaluate their options. It has not been a good weekend


Me: FBW/30 Him: FWH/33 The kidlets: DS13, DS10, and DD8 The hounds: Four Shih Tzu's
Finally, completely R'd
Clothed in strength and dignity, with nothing to fear, she smiles when she thinks about the future.~Proverbs 31:25

Posts: 11553 | Registered: Dec 2009
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