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User Topic: Had to say *good-bye* to our dog.....I miss him.
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 12:37 PM, April 27th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((gonna & boys)))) I'm so sorry, honey.


You can call me NIK

"If you carry joy in your heart, you can heal any moment."
- Carlos Santana


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LosferWords
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Default  Posted: 12:43 PM, April 27th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Saw this just now... I am so sorry. Dogs are family, and it is so hard when they go to that Rainbow Bridge.

((((Gonna and family))))


Posts: 7543 | Registered: Dec 2010
Kuwaited
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Default  Posted: 4:05 PM, April 27th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sorry for yours and your boys' loss, gonna.

Having just been through this....I know how incredibly difficult it is.


"For every trip to the vet, there's a car ride.", Satchel Pooch.

"At some point in life, everyone has gambled on a fart and lost." -- Tad...from Craig's List


Posts: 8488 | Registered: Oct 2004 | From: North Atlanta Burbs
Afraid2LoveAgain
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Default  Posted: 5:17 PM, April 27th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm so sorry, gonna. But his last day was full of love from you and the children.


BW -- 57
Divorced 2001
Re-married 2014--on what would have been our 35th anniversary

Posts: 427 | Registered: Jul 2006 | From: NC
Williesmom
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Default  Posted: 6:55 PM, April 27th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm so sorry.


You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

Posts: 7769 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Western PA
tired girl
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Default  Posted: 9:14 PM, April 27th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I stood by your bed last night, I came to have a peep.
I could see that you were crying, You found it hard to sleep.
I whined to you softly as you brushed away a tear,
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You were thinking of the many times, your hands reached down to me.
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I longed to take your parcels, I wish I could do more.
I was with you at my grave today, You tend it with such care.
I want to re-assure you, that I知 not lying there.
I walked with you towards the house, as you fumbled for your key.
I gently put my paw on you, I smiled and said it痴 me.
You looked so very tired, and sank into a chair.
I tried so hard to let you know, that I was standing there.
It痴 possible for me, to be so near you everyday.
To say to you with certainty, 的 never went away.
You sat there very quietly, then smiled, I think you knew
In the stillness of that evening, I was very close to you.
The day is over I smile and watch you yawning
and say 敵ood-night, God bless, I値l see you in the morning.
And when the time is right for you to cross the brief divide,
I値l rush across to greet you and we値l stand, side by side.
I have so many things to show you, there is so much for you to see.
~Author Unknown

I am so sorry that you had to say good bye. It is one of the hardest things to do. I am glad your kids were with you and that your son could be there. Many hugs to you gonna, (((()))


Me45 Him 45 Hardlessons DS 25,23,20
D Day 1/18/10 his 3/8/2012 mine
"No one can make you feel inferior without your consent." Eleanor Roosevelt

Posts: 5073 | Registered: Mar 2010 | From: az
Crushed1
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Default  Posted: 10:55 PM, April 27th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((gonnabe & family)))) Sorry for your loss of your beloved pet. He's crossed the Rainbow Bridge now and is safe and free.


~~"You can't run away from yourself"!!! Me to my H when he descended into adultery insanity.
~~Prov.15:13 "By sorrow of the heart the spirit is broken"
~~"The day breaks-your mind aches"
~STRENGTH~PEACE~HOPE~FAITH

Posts: 9756 | Registered: Feb 2005 | From: Texas
karmahappens
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Default  Posted: 6:56 AM, April 28th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((gonna)))

I am sorry.


鄭nd the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom
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Dday 8/2007
We have R'd

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tushnurse
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Default  Posted: 7:19 AM, April 28th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((Gonna, and DS's))))

It is so hard to say goodbye. He was a lucky guy to have so many wonderful people love him.

Now he isn't in pain, and sleep in the sunshine all he wants.

((((and strength))))


Me: FBS
Him: FWS
Kids: 15 & 17
Married for 22 years now, was 16 at the time. .
D-Day Sept 26 2008
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Posts: 8714 | Registered: Oct 2008 | From: St. Louis
knightsbff
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Default  Posted: 7:27 AM, April 28th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((Gonna)))))
So sorry.


FWW 40's
D-day August 27, 2012
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Posts: 1499 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Deep South, USA
little turtle
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Default  Posted: 7:47 AM, April 28th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Gonna)))


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Posts: 4205 | Registered: Aug 2007 | From: michigan
SisterMilkshake
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Default  Posted: 7:55 AM, April 28th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((gonna and boys)))))


BW (me) 50ish FWH 50ish
Married 34 years, 3 children
d-day 3/10 LTA (4 yrs./fucking & flirting)

"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak!" ~ Homer Simpson


Posts: 9801 | Registered: Nov 2010 | From: The Great White North USA
itainteasy
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Default  Posted: 10:29 AM, April 28th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((((Gonna and boys))))))))


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Kajem
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Default  Posted: 7:16 PM, April 28th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((((Gonna and kids)))))))

You gave your furkid a huge gift, you allowed him to leave this life not in pain and surrounded by love. What a great gift to teach your kids.

More hugs,
K


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

Posts: 5272 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Florida
Kajem
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Default  Posted: 7:16 PM, April 28th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((((Gonna and kids)))))))

You gave your furkid a huge gift, you allowed him to leave this life not in pain and surrounded by love. What a great gift to teach your kids.

More hugs,
K


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

Posts: 5272 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Florida
gypsybird87
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Default  Posted: 7:19 PM, April 28th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((gonna and family)))

I'm so sorry.... I lost my beloved cat to cancer just a couple of weeks ago. It was awful.

Sending many hugs to you and your family. Losing a pet leaves such a hole in the heart.


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Him: Someone else's problem

Life shrinks or expands in proportion to one's courage. ~ Anais Nin


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gonnabe2016
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Default  Posted: 7:49 PM, April 28th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

unconditional love

.....and loyalty. Whether you're gone for 10 minutes or 10 hours, there's your pet greeting you at the door with a look that says "Hey! It's you! What's up? Wanna hang out?" No accusations or recriminations.....just happy to see you, period.

So tonight is my first night *alone.* I had the kids and other dog all weekend, but now they are all with stbx. (don't ask me why our one dog was 'left behind' while the other one transferred because I have no idea -- stbx has lived across the street, within 45 second walking distance for over a year now -- and I always felt really bad for him about it).

AND there have been thunderstorms, off and on, all day. I, personally, love T-storms, but 'dog who is gone' hated them. His panting during storms was so loud that it would drown out the thunder. If he even heard any sound that resembled thunder, he would start panting and pacing.

It's awfully quiet around here today.....


"Oh, what a tangled web we weave when first we practice to deceive." - Sir Walter Scott

In my effort to be *concise*, I often come off as blunt and harsh. Sorry, don't mean to be offensive.


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Kajem
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Default  Posted: 7:57 PM, April 28th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((((((gonna)))))))


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

Posts: 5272 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Florida
gulliblelass
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Default  Posted: 8:13 AM, April 29th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Gonna & Boys, just wanted to send my heartfelt sympathy to you on the loss of your furbaby.

I lost a golden two years ago come September to cancer. I nursed her for the last six months of her life whilst she underwent chemo and several operations. She had it in her bladder so had to have a tube fitted so I could empty her through out the day and night. She grew up with my children and it was heartbreaking the day I had to make that decision to call the vet in.

I will never forget the look on her face that morning. It was a kind of relief as if she was saying, at last, it's time for me to go.

I struggled for a long time as to whether I made the right decision and even after all this time, it still hurts so bad but I know it was the kindest thing.

She's buried in our garden and the kids have made a special grave for her and she has fresh flowers every couple of weeks and in the summer, hubby and I go and sit on her special bench that overlooks the grave and have a drink with her.

Sounds mad but they're our fur babies and they leave such big voids.

Cherish the memories as they will never fade and remember the love she gave and brought to you all.

Hugs to you all xx


WH 49
Me 44

3 beautiful children

Married 14 years together 17

DD1 03/06
DD2 06/07

In R and going well, hoping everyday that this is the last time otherwise I'm out of here


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5454real
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Default  Posted: 9:48 AM, April 29th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Gonna, I really have no words to express my sorrow.

strength and prayers.


BH 51, WW 42
DS 23(Mine),SD 21,SS 20(Hers),DS 9 Ours, DGS 3, DGD 1 mo
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 10yrs
的 have no love for a friend who loves in words alone.
― Sophocles, Antigone

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