His grandma once told me (after we got married) when he was about 13 he said he wanted to be married by the time he was 20. We got married 2 days before he turned 20.
He married me because he wanted a wife and kids. That was it. He didn't care who I was, I was a role, not a person. I got pregnant with our son, and told him to get lost, but he wouldn't. His goal was coming true, he just had to convince me to marry him. I was fairly mature and responsible, but had also grown up in an abusive household, so I was pretty easy to control. So, he had me around to take care of all his messes, but was able to tell me they were all my fault, and I used to believe him.
He wants to be in a serious relationship, because then there is always someone else to blame for his fuck ups. I am the only woman he ever dated. Everyone else, he cheated on the person he was with, they found out, kicked him out, and he immediately moved in with the new OW. He's done this...10? times now. He married me because I was willing. That's about it. Me-29,Two boys, 10 and 8
It will all be ok in the end. If it's not ok, it's not the end
Happily remarried to a wonderful man (Aussie). I think I found the right guy and the right finger this time.