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User Topic: SI quote thread- Vol 14
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Default  Posted: 6:27 AM, July 10th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Pull the plug on that Hoover!!!
Holy crap - I can smell the smokin' motor overheating from here.

Sounds like maybe Unicorn Fart land is having a run of the shits, so he's testing the waters with you again.

Absolute gold from nekorb in General.

Me, 48
Him, 41 (JMSSC)
married 18 years. In R. We are making it. The past does not define who we are today.

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Default  Posted: 11:30 AM, July 10th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm not Noah, nor the daughter of Noah, but I suppose if it walks like an ass and acts like an ass then there's no point in trying to pair it up with a human.

nomoreblueskies in D/S

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This is it. The darkest day. The blackest hour. Chin up, shoulders back. Let's see what we're made of, you and I.
- The Doctor

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Default  Posted: 9:52 AM, July 14th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

StillGoing -- from the "What if my M really was shitty" in General:

I'm sure divorce is difficult. That doesn't make being a complete fucking asshole suddenly somehow acceptable. Math is hard, too. NASA doesn't just say fuck it, crack a 40 and shoot rockets in the air in random directions hoping they land some dude on a cool rock.

"Oh, what a tangled web we weave when first we practice to deceive." - Sir Walter Scott

In my effort to be *concise*, I often come off as blunt and harsh. Sorry, don't mean to be offensive.

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Default  Posted: 3:55 PM, July 14th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I just want to know if the self-esteem thing is as big a steaming pile of baloney as I assume it is

That is a baloney sandwich with extra baloney, using baloney as bread and a tangy baloney spread for some zing.
RyeBread calling it as he sees it on the Ask The Menz thread.

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This is it. The darkest day. The blackest hour. Chin up, shoulders back. Let's see what we're made of, you and I.
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Default  Posted: 5:49 AM, July 15th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Lonely Husband explaining to Numb2014 about being replaced in JFO...

If you throw away the steak on your plate and put some dog shit on there instead, you have "replaced" the steak. Doesn't mean it's a good idea, doesn't mean the steak should blame itself. The steak is still a steak. Unique, perfect. The dog shit is still dog shit. He may have "replaced" you but sooner or later he's going to ask himself why his life stinks and why everything tastes suspiciously like shit.

Everyone is "replaceable". His loss, your gain. Congratulations, your life now has one less loser in it. All that's happened is that the dog shit has been scraped from your plate. One day you'll wake up and realise that the air is a little fresher in your world. Once you have your life back on the rails you may find a new steak yourself.

Keep Calm and Happy On!

me BS 52
him - 46
married 15 years DIVORCED 10 31 12
children - ds15 ds12
d-day 12-19-11
I gave a 24hour ultimatum then went to attorney next day
Divorce filed

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Default  Posted: 7:21 AM, July 16th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Pass in a Topic Thread:

Fuck me gently.....she's an idiot.

Made me LOL and still does to this day. :0)

Divorced 1/3/14 after 31 years of marriage.

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Default  Posted: 12:04 PM, July 18th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Don't pet the drama llama buddy.

JJCT's simple response (in menz) to HurtingandLost's

"stbx throwing a pity party with some added mind fuckery"

Dday 1 EA 7/8/2010
Dday 2 PA 3/1/2013 same OMM for 4yrs

Mister rabbit says, "A moment of realization is worth a thousand prayers."

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Default  Posted: 7:17 AM, July 19th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

However, Disney does not do happily ever stories about cheaters, only Facebook does.

Wontdefineme in the General forum, responding to ShyGirl07's XH getting engaged.

Loyal spouse: Me; Disloyal spouse: The Princess
Two sons: Now 12 and 15
DDay: Nov 15, 2012
Separated: Mar 2, 2013 after 17 year marriage, now divorcing!

The best thing about hitting rock bottom is that everything after that looks fucking fabulous!

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Default  Posted: 6:45 PM, July 23rd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I would call bullshit on this one, but am afraid that I would offend true bullshitters who take more pride in their craft than that.

Sal1995 on page 39 of the Ask the Menz thread in General, responding to the comment:

WH (and I know I have to remember this came from a waywards perspective) told me that 'Every man wants to to try something (someone) new at least once so they can then appreciate what they have at home.

[This message edited by sisoon at 6:46 PM, July 23rd (Wednesday)]

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DDay - 12/22/2010
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I'm not an exemplar. I share my own experience because it's all I know.

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Default  Posted: 11:28 PM, July 23rd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

as my Old Man used to say whenever I "wished" out loud for something to be true: wish in one hand and piss in the other and see which fills up first.

Sal1995 on the Betrayed Menz thread (page 28) talking about there is no use in wishing things were different. I'll be using this one as part of my internal dialog whenever I do down the "I wish" road.

Your beliefs don’t make you a better person, your behavior does.

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Default  Posted: 10:52 AM, July 25th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks gents, I'm honored.


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Default  Posted: 7:32 PM, July 25th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Tearsoflove in D/S

I think I'm going to punch the next person in the face who says "I deserve to be happy" and then tell them punching them in the face made me happy so I deserved to do it. You think that will fly?

"Better not give in to it. It takes ten times as long to put yourself back together as it does to fall apart.”
― Suzanne Collins, Mockingjay

Double Betrayal D-Day 7/26/2013
Divorced 11/18/2014

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Default  Posted: 8:50 AM, August 2nd (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

From Stillgoing in BetrayedMenz thread of ICR:

I came for the pain and stuck around for the good company? Mostly I stuck around because I didn't get kicked out.

"Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indominable will" - Mahatma Gandi

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - Aubrie

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Default  Posted: 11:14 AM, August 2nd (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Because the truth is the only thing offering me a way back into this marriage. The lies are the door I left through in the first place.

From theseseatsRtaken in Wayward.

Me - WH
Her - BW
Married 20 yrs, 3 kids
DDay - 17 Nov '12 (5 month PA)

Life's tough, it's tougher when your stupid.

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Default  Posted: 7:31 AM, August 6th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Asking for polyamory after having an affair is a lot like trying to call your truck a boat after driving into a lake.

Quote from Bigger


Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless

We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.

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Default  Posted: 9:30 PM, August 7th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

People are forgetting in this age of instant gratification that friendships and relationships take the most hated word on SI - time. We all just want the crap through which we've been wading to be over already, and to move on and feel awesome and have a billion friends and al the rest of it but, fuck it, guys - that's just not even close to being realistic. Any new beginning, whether with a set of friends or a move or a job or a new SO or a house or whatever is going to take some time. Not only do we have to walk before we can run, we - given our particularly crappy circumstances - have to learn to crawl all over again before we can even contemplate walking. And we learn to crawl by learning to be our own best friend.

Forged1 on the art of moving on.

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"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

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Default  Posted: 5:18 PM, August 8th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

BtraydWife making it sound so simple...

What??? Denial isn't happiness. If you have to shut off a part of you to be happy, that's not real happiness. That's make believe.

I could have used that wisdom many times when I was younger.

Me: 45, independent, happy, despite parallel parenting with a lower muppet
FT "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
DS 14 DS 11
S 5/2010
D 12/2012

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Default  Posted: 7:57 AM, August 10th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

SBB - giving advice on how to interact with the OW:

I treat it as I would a visit to a public toilet - as quick as possible and with as little contact with the festy surrounds as is possible.

Maybe try imaging yourself trying to wee on her without whilst balancing yourself so you don't actually touch her?

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Default  Posted: 8:57 AM, August 13th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wow, Hurtingandlost. How COULD you post on an anonymous board about an anonymous person who now shaves her hooha?

Bahahahaha! Made me spit my coffee this morning.

edited to attribute hardtimesinlife for this quote!

[This message edited by HFSSC at 8:57 AM, August 13th (Wednesday)]

Me, 48
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Default  Posted: 9:58 AM, August 14th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sometimes it's hard not to carried away, I mean it's tough to get things symmetrical, and then a little more and a little more, then it looks like a Hitler Vag, then the whole shebang has to come off......

Tushnurse re: personal grooming in the "Cat's out of the bag" thread.

"Being in love" first moved them to promise fidelity: this quieter love enables them to keep the promise. *CS Lewis*

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