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User Topic: A long overdue update
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Default  Posted: 10:46 PM, May 1st (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That is wonderful news! And the ring, I die for that ring.

Me- BS
Him- FWS (I hope- F)

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Default  Posted: 11:39 PM, May 1st (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Beautiful ring! Congrats!

BS, age 53, d-day 6-2-08, divorced after 17 years and 20 together. Now I am living alone in the beautiful rural property that was once the dream retreat with X. It's taking a long time to create new dreams but despite some struggles I am mostly happy.

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Default  Posted: 1:38 AM, May 2nd (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations! And yes, I too am dying over that beautiful ring.

Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan

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Default  Posted: 6:44 AM, May 2nd (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

The pic really doesn't do it justice. The center diamond is just brilliant and beautiful and the smaller ones around it and on the shank are so sparkly. I like sparkly.

But with that said, it's delicate and not overpowering. I just think it's perfect.

[This message edited by cryingdaily at 6:55 AM, May 2nd (Friday)]

Me: BS 48
Him: Doesn't matter any more.
The Royal Court, formerly known as the Princess Posse:
DD31 - Belle
DD23 - Xena
GD10 - Jasmine
GD8 - Ariel
GD Born 9/4/12 - Tink
GS Born 6/23/2014 - Little Prince

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Default  Posted: 7:53 AM, May 2nd (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

OMG CD! I'm so HAPPY for you!

Of course his kids love you - you're wonderful. Glad to know your life is going so well and the posse is doing well too.



Even if you can't control the world around you, you are still the master of your own soul.

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Default  Posted: 8:10 AM, May 2nd (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congrats! It was so good to meet you!!

And yes, her ring is STUNNING in person.

me (BS)
him (NPD Ex)
2 dds
DDay 10/7/11

Divorced 1/17/2013

"Diamonds aren't a girl's best friend, freedom is."

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Default  Posted: 12:41 PM, May 2nd (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congrats!!! I am so happy for you!

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Default  Posted: 2:57 PM, May 2nd (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What a great post!! It's a beautiful ring :)

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Default  Posted: 2:01 AM, May 4th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Great to see a happy update by you and to see that gorgeous ring! Congratulations!!

Finding what life could have been....... Why didn't I see it?

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Default  Posted: 5:23 AM, May 4th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congrats! Love the ring too

"Loving someone should not mean losing you. Love empowers you. It shouldn't erase you. - Thelma Davis.

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Default  Posted: 9:57 AM, May 4th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I LOVE hearing happy news like this!!!! Congratulations to both of you, and I hope the two of you will be as happy as my new husband and I have been (which is 10 out of ten!).

In the depths of winter I finally learned there was in me an invincible summer..Albert Camus

***Used to be hit-by-a-train***
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Default  Posted: 9:57 AM, May 5th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That is great news. Congratulations.

And, apparently, I'm the only woman his kids have liked....and they happen to love me.

Of course they do.

I've only been married once and I don't think I can do it again. It gives me hope when someone I know feels like taking that step again.

BS 38
FWW 37 (fireandice)
Married 13 Years - Together 20
D-Day1:Jan 08 (EA OM#1)
D-Day2:8-15-08 (EA/PA OM#2)
DS12, DS9
Divorced 1-27-11
Remember, you don't drown from being thrown in the water. You drown from staying in it.

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Default  Posted: 12:04 PM, May 6th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Aaawwwwww......I seriously have tears in my eyes I am so so happy for you.

The ring is beautiful! I'm so glad you updated us, and I understand you not putting the news out there too much. Happy can be scary sometimes. But you so deserve it! Congratulations!!!!!

Original WS D-Day July 10, 2008. Kept lying, he is gone.
New WS (2 EA's, no PA) 12-3-13
If you don't like where you are, then change it. You are not a tree.

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Default  Posted: 9:50 PM, May 7th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Damn, that is some gorgeous bling.


Keep calm and carry on.

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Default  Posted: 6:03 AM, May 8th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Take up your space (and do it well).

"That's the thing about pain, it demands to be felt."

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