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User Topic: 3 years ago today
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Default  Posted: 6:59 AM, May 2nd (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

was the day that WH's PA started with the SLUT.
I didn't find out until 8 days later.

I wish I had found this site right away, but at least I did eventually.

Our marriage is stronger, in some ways.

I have lost a lot, & am still grieving.

Thank God for SI and all of you. You have been a life saver.

together 25 yrs, married 24 yrs, 4 children;Rebuilding
D Day: 5/10/2011 PA
OW: WH's co-worker,divorced, no children, 20 yrs younger than I-----& she knew he was married, had met our kids, but that did not stop her from trying to destroy our family

Posts: 1396 | Registered: Dec 2012
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Default  Posted: 7:17 AM, May 2nd (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Me - BS, 39 (I'm not old...I'm vintage)
Two Wonderful children - DS10, DD7
Married, for now... (4+ D-Day - listed in profile.)

Posts: 5854 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: In the darkest depths of hell!
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Default  Posted: 8:21 AM, May 2nd (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

hugs to you. Let yourself grieve. Have you talked with your WH about how you are feeling?

be gentle with yourself. Is it possible for you to to do something to pamper yourself- something you enjoy today?

D-day: Christmas 2011
D-day 2: 3/28/2013

Married for over 15 years
2 beautiful boys in elementary school

You may not control all the events that happen to you, but you can decide not to be reduced by them. Maya Angelou

Posts: 1479 | Registered: Dec 2011
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Default  Posted: 8:24 AM, May 2nd (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


25 years and counting of pain caused by mother's infidelity. Aftermath: 1 deceased sibling, 1 lost family, 3 lost souls.
"Each new day I am just glad to be alive and have survived all that I did." Ashland13

Posts: 2200 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: Northeast US
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