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User Topic: Got my apartment but move in
idkam
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Default  Posted: 10:02 PM, May 3rd (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Because I do not have any frig-gin lights. I decided to go with a new company and they require you to wait 24 to 48 hours before they turn on the lights. I'm still at my friends house hopefully no longer than Monday. Grrr!! The mule has been nice, I guess he finally realize there's nothing he can do to me now.

I was feeling a little sad earlier but I believe I'm past it for now. Acknowledged it, felt it and let it go.


People come into your life for a Reason, Season or a Lifetime..
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Posts: 1783 | Registered: Feb 2008 | From: Texas
healingtree
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Default  Posted: 11:54 PM, May 3rd (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

The lights will be on eventually. Moving, changing, and doing things differently is always challenging, no matter what. Just know that EVENTUALLY you will get settled!

Patience it tough when we want things to be right now.


FBS 1st D-day 7-11-07, 2nd DDay Post-Breakup in 8-12
HIM - Doesn't Matter Anymore
The only thing we can change about the past is how we look at it.

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idkam
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Default  Posted: 9:14 PM, May 4th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Healing; thanks you are so right. Patience is something I'm still growing into because when I want something I want it now.

Today was a good day my friends and I got a lot of my things from the storage unit, you really do not know how much junk you accumulate until you move. My mattress and box spring was delivered also, and I was able to unpack all of boxes and bags.

Everything is looking good except I do not have any lights. Tomorrow is a new day and hopefully all of my woes will be gone. Hopefully.


People come into your life for a Reason, Season or a Lifetime..
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Posts: 1783 | Registered: Feb 2008 | From: Texas
norabird
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Default  Posted: 12:11 AM, May 5th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((Idkam))))

Congrats on the new place. Here's to all the lights coming on bright and cheery!


Sit. Feast on your life.

Posts: 4088 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: NYC
million pieces
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Default  Posted: 4:43 AM, May 5th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I just read this and thought lights = lamps. Was thinking how odd that there isn't at least an overhead light in the bathroom. Then was going to suggest running to goodwill or target. Then I realized that no lights = no electricity!!! Ha, that would be more of a problem

Good luck with your next adventure!


Me - 42
2 kids, 9 and 11
D-Day 2/5/10, separated 3 wks later
Divorced 11/15/11!!!!

Posts: 1241 | Registered: Feb 2010 | From: MD
idkam
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Default  Posted: 11:35 AM, May 6th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Million...

My lights were on when i got home last night, Yay!! Then i noticed i needed lamps because there are no light fixtures in the bd rm or living rm...Dollar Store here i come....i didn't haveWiFI either... I called the manager and she went to my balcony to check and told me she got a weak bar...I'll have to check it out when i get home...

I just got basic cable too...

Mr.. Mule sent me a text telling me i will regret leaving him... conceded much?? :


People come into your life for a Reason, Season or a Lifetime..
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Posts: 1783 | Registered: Feb 2008 | From: Texas
Kajem
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Default  Posted: 1:41 PM, May 6th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yay for your new place!!!!!

Light is always a good thing to have. The dollar stores here are having some good sales, hope you score some deals!

K


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

Posts: 5017 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Florida
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 1:50 PM, May 6th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Mr.. Mule sent me a text telling me i will regret leaving him...
The only regret you might have is that you didn't do it sooner.

Congrats on the new place!


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


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idkam
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Default  Posted: 3:23 PM, May 6th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Kajem, the dollar stir will be my best friend for a while...moving has help me to see i have too much STUFF... Although i filled up 6 lawn bags when we moved to the condo i still have so much Stuff...

Now; exactly..

Some times i think about the things he said to those women in in the emails and I'm still so surprised....this man has two personalities....i would not have ever thought he would send pics of his private to a woman, never.....

How can i ever trust again? Dayum he really fooled me...


People come into your life for a Reason, Season or a Lifetime..
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Posts: 1783 | Registered: Feb 2008 | From: Texas
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