So stbxh interpreted something I said as me taking off with my youngest two kids and leaving the state. Not the case but I think he is paranoid now because he knows my employment is coming to an end and he left me with everything and I have no family here.
So he blows up my phone via texts and calls. Tells me he's calling the cops. For the most part I ignore. I wasn't in the mood for his antics. Supposedly they told him there is nothing they can do because we are still married and there are no court ordered documents regarding custody yet. I eventually had my youngest call him, that's the only child he worries about anyways. That was Friday.
The standard is by no later than early Saturday he needs to confirm pickup time for his Sunday visitation. Last weekend he didn't respond and didn't use his day. Yesterday he didn't respond to confirm, I get an email this morning saying he would like to see him this afternoon if I'm actually still in the state, the idiot knows I'm still here.
I know my little guy is going to be disappointed when he wakes up and realizes that his dad pulled this stuff again. He misses 2 or 3 out of the 4 Sundays every month. Should I ignore him considering he couldn't respond by the set time or do I accommodate the jackass?
I am so sick of this bastard letting our son down, this is the same guy who wants 50/50 custody. I have days that I truly hate him for what he is doing to our kids, and he wonders why his own family wants nothing to do with him right now.
The asshole was probably out with his gutter pig late last night, that is what she does. She has kids but lives with her parents so they can raise the kids and she can be a party whore all the time. The rest of us grown folks are home with our kids, handling grown people responsibilities.
I know my kids will know who was the real adult in their lives someday, hell, my two teenagers already do.