Topic: This is what true class looks like
Member # 11185
| Posted: 11:14 AM, May 5th (Monday), 2014|
Over the weekend I attended the wedding of a dear friend's oldest child. Her POS XH left her for the OW years ago.
My friend and the now OWife sat together in the first pew. My friend was gracious and radiant, as she always is. The OWife looked like a crack whore (apologies to crack whores).
My friend is the definition of class and graciousness. I'm sure her XH kicks his own ass every time he looks at OWife.
BW -- 57
Re-married 2014--on what would have been our 35th anniversary
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Member # 14866
| Posted: 12:03 PM, May 5th (Monday), 2014|
on the apologies
Your friend is truly classy.
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Posts: 51572 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Big Blue Nation
Member # 33226
| Posted: 12:18 PM, May 5th (Monday), 2014|
My friend and the now OWife sat together in the first pew.
Your friend is amazing and inspiring. I don't know many people who could do this while radiating grace and class. Her XH SHOULD kick his own ass. Nonstop.
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Member # 30346
| Posted: 12:29 PM, May 5th (Monday), 2014|
Those are some lucky kids to have a mom like that!
I strive to never make my children uncomfortable. If that means I have to suck it up and sit next to my ex and make small talk…so be it. My kids come first.
me...BS, 43 years old, 2 small kids
WS, 41, multiple gay affairs
M 15 years, together 17
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Posts: 4055 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Virginia
Member # 27428
| Posted: 1:22 PM, May 5th (Monday), 2014|
That IS classy. Kudos to her and congratulations to her child!
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Member # 31528
| Posted: 1:33 PM, May 5th (Monday), 2014|
She has a lot of class, dignity, and grace.
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Member # 16953
| Posted: 2:06 PM, May 5th (Monday), 2014|
The OWife looked like a crack whore (apologies to crack whores)
Holy shit !!!! That's the best laugh I've had in weeks. And kudos to your friend for being so classy.
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Member # 41033
| Posted: 3:35 PM, May 5th (Monday), 2014|
That's wonderful. I did much the same for my daughter's wedding. It was important to do that for my daughter. I even danced once with my ex.
Posts: 290 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: Illinois
Member # 25624
| Posted: 3:44 PM, May 5th (Monday), 2014|
I can be civil to the ex. The OW? Nope. Best I could do is try to ignore her
Your ex wanting to be friends is like asking a kidnapper to stay in touch when they let you go.
The type of fierce loyalty that I possess made me incapable of comprehending the level of disloyalty that he possessed
Posts: 1742 | Registered: Sep 2009 | From: Charlotte, NC
Member # 22870
| Posted: 5:30 PM, May 5th (Monday), 2014|
Ugh. Good for her.
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