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User Topic: This is what true class looks like
Afraid2LoveAgain
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Default  Posted: 11:14 AM, May 5th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Over the weekend I attended the wedding of a dear friend's oldest child. Her POS XH left her for the OW years ago.

My friend and the now OWife sat together in the first pew. My friend was gracious and radiant, as she always is. The OWife looked like a crack whore (apologies to crack whores).

My friend is the definition of class and graciousness. I'm sure her XH kicks his own ass every time he looks at OWife.


BW -- 57
Divorced 2001
Re-married 2014--on what would have been our 35th anniversary

Posts: 413 | Registered: Jul 2006 | From: NC
MovingUpward
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Default  Posted: 12:03 PM, May 5th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

on the apologies


Your friend is truly classy.


AKA Moo

Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless

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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 12:18 PM, May 5th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My friend and the now OWife sat together in the first pew.

Your friend is amazing and inspiring. I don't know many people who could do this while radiating grace and class. Her XH SHOULD kick his own ass. Nonstop.


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


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cmego
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Default  Posted: 12:29 PM, May 5th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Those are some lucky kids to have a mom like that!

I strive to never make my children uncomfortable. If that means I have to suck it up and sit next to my ex and make small talk…so be it. My kids come first.


me...BS, 43 years old, 2 small kids
WS, 41, multiple gay affairs
M 15 years, together 17
Divorced

"For whatever we lose, like a you or a me, it's always ourselves we find in the sea" ee cummings


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abbycadabby
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Default  Posted: 1:22 PM, May 5th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That IS classy. Kudos to her and congratulations to her child!

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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 1:33 PM, May 5th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

She has a lot of class, dignity, and grace.

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stronger08
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Default  Posted: 2:06 PM, May 5th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

The OWife looked like a crack whore (apologies to crack whores)

Holy shit !!!! That's the best laugh I've had in weeks. And kudos to your friend for being so classy.


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Charity411
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Default  Posted: 3:35 PM, May 5th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That's wonderful. I did much the same for my daughter's wedding. It was important to do that for my daughter. I even danced once with my ex.


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trumanshow
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Default  Posted: 3:44 PM, May 5th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I can be civil to the ex. The OW? Nope. Best I could do is try to ignore her


Your ex wanting to be friends is like asking a kidnapper to stay in touch when they let you go.

The type of fierce loyalty that I possess made me incapable of comprehending the level of disloyalty that he possessed


Posts: 1746 | Registered: Sep 2009 | From: Charlotte, NC
Williesmom
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Default  Posted: 5:30 PM, May 5th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ugh. Good for her.


You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
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