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JustWant2BHappy
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Stop  Posted: 11:47 AM, May 7th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

How long have you been in MC and IC and how often do you go?

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authenticnow
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Default  Posted: 12:28 PM, May 7th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

We don't go anymore but we went for about 3 years (IC and MC) after d-day and then I'd go back every once in awhile for a 'tune up'. Usually not A-related, but for other life stuff. I love IC and I probably should go steadily because it really helps me!

[This message edited by SI Staff at 12:28 PM, May 7th (Wednesday)]


Take up your space (and do it well).

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Matilda23
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Default  Posted: 12:44 PM, May 7th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It's been a little over 3 months since dday, but I've been in IC for about 3 months and I go every week. I have changed counselors 3 times and I am seeing the same counselor BBF is seeing. But she is wonderful. It was worth switching a few times.


WGF - 24
BBF - MercilesslyNuked, 29
DDay 1 - 1/6/14
DDay 2 - 1/23/14

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islesguy
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Default  Posted: 1:29 PM, May 7th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I have been in IC for 2+ years and am still hopeful that my wife will go to MC with me at some time in the future. She gave me a chance in MC in the past and I blew it with my lies so she is understandably not interested anymore.


Me: WH
Father of 3 beautiful girls

* I am a RS (Recovering Scumbag)
* Do as I say, NOT as I did. :-(
* I acknowledge the grace I have received. I know do not deserve it.


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Neznayou
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Default  Posted: 11:24 PM, May 8th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

We started MC just a few days after DDay. Since then, she's been our MC and our IC. There were short times when we didn't meet with her at all (maybe a couple of weeks) and times when we were meeting with her 4 times a week (3 IC each and 1 MC). Now we are at 1 or 2 IC a week and no MC sessions. However, we are meeting a new counselor next week, so the schedule will probably change.


Me: WW
Caught at AP's house: 10 Aug 2012
Admitted PA: 12 Aug 2012
TT ended: Jan 2014

"Power, Lincoln, real power comes not from hate, but from truth."


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