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User Topic: in praise of BS
morethantrying
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Default  Posted: 4:28 AM, May 10th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I just have to say as I read so many different topic on the Reconciliation thread, how hard so many BS are trying...just really trying and I applaud you all...

I just think BS are trying so hard to live up to their (our) values and what we think love really is...sticking this out because we define love in a certain way...it takes a lot of strength to really do it...to really live up to what we think are our true values and commitments...saying it is one thing, that we will love in good times and bad, really doing it another and I am finding it hard but somehow, somehow I am doing it...So you see, if I REALLY want to LIVE what I BELIEVE (put my money where my mouth is)...that is my choice and I just have to do it, became that it what I decided I AM and WHO I AM...but ah it is hard....does this make sense?

I am trying to live what I say I believe...turning out to be harder than I thought, but I AM DOING IT...pat on the back for me....and all of you!

[This message edited by morethantrying at 4:31 AM, May 10th (Saturday)]


Affairs - hard on us both - but love will win.
Me: BS 55
Him: WS 62
Married 32 yrs.
dday TT from 12/2012-2/2013)...

Posts: 283 | Registered: Sep 2013
AML04
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Default  Posted: 7:51 AM, May 10th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Morethan)))


Me-BS Him-WH DS 5/12
T-13 M-9
DDay 5/26/13, TT through 8/13
2.5 yr EA w/co-worker, PA 12/12 to 4/13.
Hopeful for R

Posts: 844 | Registered: Jun 2013 | From: MA
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