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Default  Posted: 3:39 PM, May 11th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Mine is my hobby....would love to make a living out of it one day.

Posts: 11 | Registered: Mar 2014
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Default  Posted: 5:20 PM, May 11th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Because I played Nikola Tesla to ex-shat's Thomas Edison.

"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

Posts: 4684 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Indiana
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Default  Posted: 7:50 PM, May 11th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Mine are my initials plus a year that is actually more important to FWSO than myself...

I guess I wasn't thinking clearly... but since we've R'd I guess it's ok.

Me: BSO - 46
Him: FWSO - 69
DS - 13
D-Day - 12-11-09,
R - he finally came home
Your life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"

Posts: 24595 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Florida
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Default  Posted: 7:44 AM, May 12th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

The Jim Carrey movie-my life was a lie and I was oblivious

Your ex wanting to be friends is like asking a kidnapper to stay in touch when they let you go.

The type of fierce loyalty that I possess made me incapable of comprehending the level of disloyalty that he possessed

Posts: 1753 | Registered: Sep 2009 | From: Charlotte, NC
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Default  Posted: 1:01 PM, May 12th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Mine's because I kept messing up registering- ended up having to send an email like "this this and this are all me because i thought it didn't work so registered again then again and again blah blah blah" what an idiot and 85 because that's how old I am...29 not 85. Idiot fits

BH-29 (me)

Multi famam, conscientiam, pauci verentur.

Posts: 575 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Old Blighty
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Default  Posted: 2:38 PM, May 12th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Mine was what I did for a living at the time. It was really my safe place, and my respite from the whole total obsession of my time and energy. Without it I lacked the ability to stand up on my own, and walk away if I needed to.

Plus it makes people smile a bit.

I am no longer a nurse of tushes, but spend my days helping to get people the resources they need, and to help them learn how to be healthier, and take better care of themselves. I do think this experience allows me to be more empathetic, and empowering at the same time.

Him: FWS
Kids: 15 & 17
Married for 22 years now, was 16 at the time. .
D-Day Sept 26 2008
Fully R'd, and Happy Happy Happy

Posts: 8709 | Registered: Oct 2008 | From: St. Louis
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Default  Posted: 2:49 PM, May 12th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I registered on a site with an ID that bears absolutely no relation to my real name - 'soon'. I wanted the pain to be over soon.

They trashed SI on that site because SI treats WSes as human beings. I didn't see how I could R unless I saw my W as a human being, so I checked out SI and liked what I found.

I became 'soon on si' - 'sisoon' is the easiest way to say that....

fBH (me) - 70 (22 in my head), fWW (plainsong) - 65+, Married 45+, together since 1965
DDay - 12/2010
Recovered, not yet fully R'ed
I share my own experience because it's the only experience I know, not because I'm a good model.

Posts: 10356 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: Chicago area
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Default  Posted: 2:52 PM, May 12th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Mine is because I immediately recognized that I am: Way F***ing Lost.

Pretty much sums me up. I'm lost.

Me: WW
Him: BH (totalheartbreak)
Both: 30s

Appalled by my actions, and the choice to set off several atomic bombs in my life.

Posts: 412 | Registered: Dec 2013
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Default  Posted: 3:11 PM, May 12th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Mine relates to diving, which is a hobby I have enjoyed. I didn't want anything pain or mom related. I wanted something about ME and this reminds me that sometimes the best strategy is just to take a breath.

Him WH
2 ddays in '07
"The cure for the pain, is the pain." -Rumi

Posts: 6549 | Registered: Jan 2011
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Default  Posted: 3:14 PM, May 12th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ahh, I was wondering how you came up with your name, Rebreather. Mine is my first/middle initial and my age when I joined. That simple.

Me: 44
He: 47 WH
Married: 15 years
D Day: December 2012
Affair: Fall 2009 - Dec. 2011
R is not linear

Posts: 2445 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: Canada, eh
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Default  Posted: 3:22 PM, May 12th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Nickname plus had to pick a number or something since deena itself was taken. (Hi deena)...and on a side note, I love the name SisterMilkshake. It just sounds cool.

Me BS mid-late 30s
Him WS knocking on 40 (lovemywife4ever)
blended family with lots of kiddos
together 5 years, married 8/13
D day 12/1/13
WH ONS had been 4/12
Getting ME back and moving to HAPPY - whatever that means
I want out!

Posts: 1070 | Registered: Dec 2013
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Default  Posted: 3:54 PM, May 12th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

EZ4U. Cause it was easy for him to cut and run.. Ex's life not 2EZ no more.

"I shall Forgive and Forget.
Forgive myself for being stupid and Forget about you."

Posts: 39 | Registered: Dec 2012 | From: Central Florida
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Default  Posted: 4:06 PM, May 12th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

1Faith came from my looking for grace and courage to get through the mess that my FWH and the OW created.

I was so lost at times the only thing I could do to get through the day was give it up to God.

Thankfully He was always there just like my SI friends.

"I can be changed by what happens to me. But I refuse to be reduced by it." - Maya Angelou

Posts: 1190 | Registered: Apr 2013
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Default  Posted: 4:17 PM, May 12th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It's my love experience in 8 letters(though not limited to). Five for five for real. Five long term relationships, five cheating women. Need a new picker.

Wayflost, new respect for you. I read waif lost. Completely different take.

BH 51, WW 42
DS 23(Mine),SD 21,SS 20(Hers),DS 9 Ours, DGS 3, DGD 1 mo
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 10yrs
I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone.
― Sophocles, Antigone

Posts: 2986 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: midwest
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Default  Posted: 6:01 PM, May 12th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Jai is my nickname and H often refers to me as "The Misses" so I just put them together and voila! MissesJai

FWW - 41
"Don't think first about the risks of speaking up. Think first about the risks of not speaking up." ~ Kerry Patterson

Posts: 5975 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: So Cal.....
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Default  Posted: 6:13 AM, May 13th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

On Dday3 I told fWS that he had no idea what he was losing in me, that I was the-real-deal and he'd only realize it when I was gone.

Me: 45, him: 54
together 18 years
DDay1 March 2013, Dday2 April 27, 2013, Dday3 June 1, 2013
We are in R and trying to make it
Never lose yourself trying to hang onto someone who doesn't care about losing you.

Posts: 252 | Registered: Jun 2013 | From: Northeast
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