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User Topic: Anyone from the So. Cal area?
BreatheAgain10
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Default  Posted: 1:38 PM, May 11th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Just wondering if anyone in the So. Cal area gets together and if not, does anyone want to? Summer's coming up fast and thought it would be nice to meet up with some of you who are open to it.
Hope all of you are enjoying your mother's day wknd, whether you are a mother, or are celebrating a special mother, or remembering a mother who lives on in your hearts.


By God's blessing we've survived, but the scars are still tender to the touch.
BW: Me 34yrs FWH: 29yrs
Latest D-Day 04/29/2010
Together: 12yrs Married: 10yrs
DS:16yrs DS:9yrs. DS:Due 6/25/14
Main D-Day that hurts is #4 4/29/10
OW=Yuck!

Posts: 273 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: Sunny So. Cal.
woundedby2
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Default  Posted: 1:46 AM, May 12th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

A SoCal g2g would be awesome! It's been quite a while since we've had one. I'm definitely interested.


Me: BS
2 kids: DD16 and DS19
Him: The Assclown NPD
OW: "friend" of 15 years
Divorced! Feb. 2010

Everybody, soon or late, sits down to a banquet of consequences.
~Robert Louis Stevenson


Posts: 7850 | Registered: Mar 2008 | From: SoCal
BreatheAgain10
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Default  Posted: 10:48 AM, May 12th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I agree, wounded! If no one else responds tho I don't mind making it a small little shindig


By God's blessing we've survived, but the scars are still tender to the touch.
BW: Me 34yrs FWH: 29yrs
Latest D-Day 04/29/2010
Together: 12yrs Married: 10yrs
DS:16yrs DS:9yrs. DS:Due 6/25/14
Main D-Day that hurts is #4 4/29/10
OW=Yuck!

Posts: 273 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: Sunny So. Cal.
Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 11:42 AM, May 12th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I would definitely try to head down if time and resources permitted.


"If the path you walk leads back to yourself, you'll never get anywhere." - Master Oogway

Posts: 18340 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
BreatheAgain10
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Default  Posted: 12:48 PM, May 12th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I don't know how to go about organizing anything formally... A simple g2g? Any ideas are welcome


By God's blessing we've survived, but the scars are still tender to the touch.
BW: Me 34yrs FWH: 29yrs
Latest D-Day 04/29/2010
Together: 12yrs Married: 10yrs
DS:16yrs DS:9yrs. DS:Due 6/25/14
Main D-Day that hurts is #4 4/29/10
OW=Yuck!

Posts: 273 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: Sunny So. Cal.
really trying
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Default  Posted: 6:08 PM, May 14th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

depending on the location, anything pretty much works for me


Me: late 40's
XH: A parasite and that might be a compliment
My S-23, Our D-15
Married 5/93 D-Day: 11/18/03
Divorced 5/19/08

The future's so bright - I got to wear shades

Plant Seeds of Kindness


Posts: 10397 | Registered: Sep 2004 | From: California
beautytoashes5
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Default  Posted: 6:40 PM, May 14th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Me! It depends on location & day. Then I can make babysitting arrangements.

Posts: 97 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: Southern California
deeplysad
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Default  Posted: 6:55 PM, May 14th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

We haven't had one in quite awhile. Depending on where and when, I would be up for it.


Me: BW - I'm much too young to feel this damn old
Him: FWH - Midlife crisis with a pathetic porn wannabe
D-Day: August 2004; Lots of false R until February 2005.

It takes all kinds of kinds....Miranda Lambert


Posts: 3252 | Registered: Oct 2007 | From: So Calif
BreatheAgain10
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Default  Posted: 3:53 PM, May 15th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hi Ladies!
I don't know how far would be an acceptable distance to travel, but is the Orange county/Inland Empire (Riverside/San Bernardino) areas doable?


By God's blessing we've survived, but the scars are still tender to the touch.
BW: Me 34yrs FWH: 29yrs
Latest D-Day 04/29/2010
Together: 12yrs Married: 10yrs
DS:16yrs DS:9yrs. DS:Due 6/25/14
Main D-Day that hurts is #4 4/29/10
OW=Yuck!

Posts: 273 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: Sunny So. Cal.
beautytoashes5
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Default  Posted: 6:36 PM, May 15th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I can drive out to the OC/ IE

Posts: 97 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: Southern California
MissesJai
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Default  Posted: 6:38 PM, May 15th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I can make that drive too. I'm so down for a G2G and Razzie, if you could make it down, I would be in heaven!


FWW - 41
"Don't think first about the risks of speaking up. Think first about the risks of not speaking up." ~ Kerry Patterson

Posts: 6028 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: So Cal.....
Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 6:43 PM, May 15th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Awww shucks. Likewise I'm sure.


"If the path you walk leads back to yourself, you'll never get anywhere." - Master Oogway

Posts: 18340 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
BreatheAgain10
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Default  Posted: 6:44 PM, May 15th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That's good! We can narrow down an area, but it would also be great to see when most of us are best available. My schedule is somewhat flexible. Only thing I may have to work around is that I'm 34 weeks pregnant. So it would with have to be before I pop (but hopefully not too close to my due date June 25th) or deeper into summer to give me time to heal and bond with my new son.
Not sure what anyone else's schedules permit.

[This message edited by BreatheAgain10 at 6:46 PM, May 15th (Thursday)]


By God's blessing we've survived, but the scars are still tender to the touch.
BW: Me 34yrs FWH: 29yrs
Latest D-Day 04/29/2010
Together: 12yrs Married: 10yrs
DS:16yrs DS:9yrs. DS:Due 6/25/14
Main D-Day that hurts is #4 4/29/10
OW=Yuck!

Posts: 273 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: Sunny So. Cal.
MissesJai
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Default  Posted: 9:06 PM, May 15th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

If we're looking at June, the only weekend I can't do is the weekend of 6/20. Other than that, plan away!


FWW - 41
"Don't think first about the risks of speaking up. Think first about the risks of not speaking up." ~ Kerry Patterson

Posts: 6028 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: So Cal.....
BreatheAgain10
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Default  Posted: 10:48 AM, May 16th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

"Like" ^^


By God's blessing we've survived, but the scars are still tender to the touch.
BW: Me 34yrs FWH: 29yrs
Latest D-Day 04/29/2010
Together: 12yrs Married: 10yrs
DS:16yrs DS:9yrs. DS:Due 6/25/14
Main D-Day that hurts is #4 4/29/10
OW=Yuck!

Posts: 273 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: Sunny So. Cal.
woundedby2
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Default  Posted: 2:11 PM, May 16th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am good with the OC/IE or even LA.

MissesJai, if you know of any other SoCal members, give them a heads up about this thread.


Me: BS
2 kids: DD16 and DS19
Him: The Assclown NPD
OW: "friend" of 15 years
Divorced! Feb. 2010

Everybody, soon or late, sits down to a banquet of consequences.
~Robert Louis Stevenson


Posts: 7850 | Registered: Mar 2008 | From: SoCal
BreatheAgain10
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Default  Posted: 6:03 PM, May 17th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Anyone wanna do this before mid-June? Or would mid-summer be better?


By God's blessing we've survived, but the scars are still tender to the touch.
BW: Me 34yrs FWH: 29yrs
Latest D-Day 04/29/2010
Together: 12yrs Married: 10yrs
DS:16yrs DS:9yrs. DS:Due 6/25/14
Main D-Day that hurts is #4 4/29/10
OW=Yuck!

Posts: 273 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: Sunny So. Cal.
stilllovinghim
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Default  Posted: 11:52 PM, May 17th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

We live in LA County now (I know, that narrows it down, right?) Anyway, SLHer and I would love a G2G. June is good for us.


“You have a choice. Live or die.Every breath is a choice. Every minute is a choice. Every time you don't throw yourself down the stairs, that's a choice. Every time you don't crash your car, you re-enlist.”
― Chuck Palahniuk, Survivor

Posts: 1942 | Registered: Oct 2010
BreatheAgain10
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Default  Posted: 4:02 PM, May 18th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Awesome! The more the merrier SLHim!


By God's blessing we've survived, but the scars are still tender to the touch.
BW: Me 34yrs FWH: 29yrs
Latest D-Day 04/29/2010
Together: 12yrs Married: 10yrs
DS:16yrs DS:9yrs. DS:Due 6/25/14
Main D-Day that hurts is #4 4/29/10
OW=Yuck!

Posts: 273 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: Sunny So. Cal.
gotmylifeback
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Default  Posted: 10:20 PM, May 18th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I could be available depending on the time, day, and place.


Her-Unremorseful, Wayward ex wife
Me-No longer a betrayed husband

Happily remarried.

"You are what you do. A man is defined by his actions, not his memory." - Kuato in Total Recall


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