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User Topic: Solange vs Jay Z
tryingmybest2011
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Default  Posted: 7:09 PM, May 12th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Saw the headline that Beyonce's sister assaulted Jay Z in an elevator. My first thought was "he must have cheated on her (Beyonce)".

I'm disappointed that was my first thought. Sigh.

No point really - just that it's everywhere.


BS: me - 37
WH: him - 37
DD: 8
DD: 11 mos

Married over 9 years, together for 18.

DD#1: 12/12/10 - LTA of 3 years, 2 mos.
DD#2: 02/02/11 - 2 EA/PA with coworkers, a month after the LTA was ended (by OW).

In limbo.


Posts: 323 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: Ontario Canada
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Default  Posted: 7:11 PM, May 12th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Mine as well. You're not alone.


I keep my mind on my future/and my eyes on the sky/I don't really smile much/If you were there you'd know why.

Posts: 2164 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: City in the Midwest/Best In The Whole Wide World
Zayda1
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Default  Posted: 7:12 PM, May 12th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I thought the same thing.


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2 children (7 years & 4 years)
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h0peless
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Default  Posted: 7:13 PM, May 12th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I sort of thought that was a safe assumption.

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Chicky
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Default  Posted: 7:15 PM, May 12th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I think the whole thing is totally staged. They both just had successful tours and yet they are going to tour together this summer? The tour kicks off on June 13. Yep - totally staged to drum up interest.


Half of the truth is a WHOLE lie.

Posts: 556 | Registered: Mar 2008 | From: Somewhere Over The Rainbow
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Default  Posted: 7:19 PM, May 12th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

To be the devil's advocate for a minute, though, it could've been a lot of things: maybe she was drunk, or high, or just being a weird pseudo-celebrity, or has bipolar. A lot of the more bizarre personality traits tend to to be kept under wraps when you're famous and/or rich. Think: Mel Gibson's drunken rants, or Reese Witherspoon's DUI enititlement flipout.

AT first I thought that Beyonce just standing there is kind of weird, newly-BS behavior...but after thinking about it, I dunno. I almost got into a fight with my sister one time, and her boyfriend just stood there, because it's such an awkward position to be in.

All that said, I wouldn't be the least bit shocked if it turned out to be cheating.


I keep my mind on my future/and my eyes on the sky/I don't really smile much/If you were there you'd know why.

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Default  Posted: 7:23 PM, May 12th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I think the whole thing is totally staged. They both just had successful tours and yet they are going to tour together this summer? The tour kicks off on June 13. Yep - totally staged to drum up interest.
Possibly, though I don't know- It looked like Solange stuck him good a few times and tried to kick him in the nuts...if I were a guy staging a fight, that wouldn't be part of the choreography.

Also, Jay and Beyonce are like THE power couple in music right now....they don't need extra publicity; their shows are going to sell out regardless.


I keep my mind on my future/and my eyes on the sky/I don't really smile much/If you were there you'd know why.

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Chicky
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Default  Posted: 7:23 PM, May 12th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

^^True. I just looked a the the entire video again and while she didn't get fully involved, you can see that she is trying to be the level head. Her sister was out of control for sure. I just seems like this is not the first time that either of them have dealt with her erratic behavior. I did find it interesting that B left with her sis rather than her husband and I wondered if that was in an attemtp to calm her down.


Half of the truth is a WHOLE lie.

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MissMovingOn
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Default  Posted: 7:31 PM, May 12th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

There was a shooting in a workplace in a city near mine last week. My very first thought was that somebody got caught cheating. The shooter has since been identified as a "former" employee, which doesn't rule out infidelity, but also doesn't confirm it either.

It's my first thought in a lot of situations. It's both rampant and always at the forefront of my brain.


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Want2help
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Default  Posted: 9:02 PM, May 12th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I thought the same thing.

My little brother wanted to kick FWH's ass when he found out he had cheated on me. It is the ONLY time in life I would have stood there while my husband got his ass kicked by my little sibling, and not tried to intervene.

But, there are other explanations… I just didn't think of them first.


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4everfaithful83
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Default  Posted: 9:12 PM, May 12th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Just my two cents...

Jay Z and Beyonce are two of the most famous people in the world, and you NEVER see them in the headlines for anything. They keep their lives totally private. Seriously...I've never read a negative thing about them.

Assuming that they are just trying to get drum up interest for their joint tour is absurd. And you know what they say about assuming...

Now that they have a family, I can see why they'd want to tour together. So they can still bring home the bacon, and stay together as a family.

Who knows why Solange was upset. It could literally be anything. My family members argue over the dumbest stuff sometimes...add alcohol to that and it can be entertaining to say the least.


Always know if the juice is worth the squeeze...

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purplejacket4
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Default  Posted: 9:17 PM, May 12th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

No way this is for publicity. Jay Z and Beyoncé are super private. I heard theyre seething that this video is out. I figured the sister was just drunk and pissed.


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Her: fWS 48 (same sex partner)
Together: 18 years now (both MDs)
OW: meh so what 40s PhD
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Chicky
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Default  Posted: 9:56 PM, May 12th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Assuming that they are just trying to get drum up interest for their joint tour is absurd.

It wasn't an assumption - it was MY opinion and only MY opinion.


Half of the truth is a WHOLE lie.

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itainteasy
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Default  Posted: 6:51 AM, May 13th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

There are A LOT of rumors that Jay Z is extremely UNFAITHFUL to Bey.

There is no proof, but there is much talk.

The altercation with Solange could be anything. She could have been drunk/high and stupid, she could be angry on her sister's behalf if Jay is cheating, she could be angry on her own behalf if she slept with Jay and Jay won't set Beyonce aside.

She could be like the jealous sister in "The Bodyguard"---never able to get out from Bey's shadow...

It could have been about anything.

The public will never, ever know, because that video has no audio....so they can say anything they want to make this go away.

It's going to get pooh poohed as soon as The Carters decide what story Solange is going to go with.


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ButterflyGirl
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Default  Posted: 11:39 AM, May 13th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Just saw the video on Chelsea Lately (all my gossip has to come in the form of humor ).

They also showed Bey leaving and getting in the car with Solange, and Jay Z getting in a different car.

Whatever it was, seems like Bey was taking her side at the moment. Maybe just trying to calm her down, but I don't think so given it didn't look like she got in Solange's face about it at all trying to defend him.

It is the ONLY time in life I would have stood there while my husband got his ass kicked

Ditto for me. I STILL wouldn't mind if the OW's BH (they are now divorced) would take a shot at my ex's face. At least give the guy a few scars...


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LearningToRun
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Default  Posted: 1:01 PM, May 13th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I thought Solange being all kind of crazy was just common knowledge.

I mean, have you seen her outfits????


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