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User Topic: t/j on jfo's She's deleting texts
Guinness23
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Default  Posted: 3:53 PM, May 14th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I've done some spystick stuff and the deleted texts aren't too incriminating.

OMG! I am sorry, but in THIS day and age, even if I was deluded into having an affair, there are WAY TOO MANY WAYS to get caught!! Sure there are WAY TOO MANY WAYS out there to hide it...BUT still. THERE ARE FAR TOO MANY secretive ways I don't even know about to get caught! Why do these people risk it??

I am sorry he is having to deal with his wife deleting texts and having to go to the extremes to catch her.

WHY do we have to be a walking lie detector on legs??


Me 47
ExH 43
Divorced 2010

47 is the new year of treating myself better than I have in 6 years.

What ever doesn't kill me makes me stronger so long as I remember that

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Posts: 685 | Registered: Mar 2014 | From: Indiana
SisterMilkshake
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Default  Posted: 3:56 PM, May 14th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Well, I for one wouldn't. Fuck that shit. Deleting texts? Buh-bye!


BW (me) 50ish FWH 50ish
Married 34 years, 3 children
d-day 3/10 LTA (4 yrs./fucking & flirting)

"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak!" ~ Homer Simpson


Posts: 9952 | Registered: Nov 2010 | From: The Great White North USA
Schadenfreude
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Default  Posted: 4:09 PM, May 14th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Reading the posts here, I thought about the paradox of affairs and communication in the electronic era. Cell phones, burner phones, email, text ing, ims , and the like make clandestine communication much easier than it was in the days of mail and land line only communication.. The velocity of communication has exponentially increased. You can set up a quickie in seconds.

Yet, most of these are traceable as Guiness23 says. If, and only if, the betrayed spouse thinks to check. Not to mention the universally-present cameras and video recorders on cell phones. Eyes are everywhere.

In balance, you'd have to be nuts to think you'd be undiscovered forever. Cheating may be easier these days, but you better be looking everywhere at all times when with OP.


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