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User Topic: He signed!
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Happy  Posted: 4:04 PM, May 14th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

He finally signed the divorce papers. No idea what he's said in his response, but he texted saying he'd signed and sent them back. Hopefully I'll get a copy early next week.

Thought I'd be all sad and contemplative. I'm not!

Now we just have to agree the children's arrangements and the finances...


Me: BW
Him: STBXWH 'The Arse' - likes strong but broken OW
OW - EA - my friend 'Holy Chick'
COW - Suspected EA/PA 'The Ambassador'
COW - EA/PA - 'Fat Bottomed Girl'


Posts: 721 | Registered: May 2013 | From: UK
nekorb
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Default  Posted: 4:07 PM, May 14th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yay!

I guess I don't understand the process yet. You sign and then there are still things to decide?


Me: BS 44
Him: WH 47 aka CAT- colossal asshat
Married 22 years
D-day: July 17, 2013, with TT to follow
Heading for Divorce
3 kids: 15,17,19

Psalms 27:14
Wait for The Lord; be strong and take heart, wait for The Lord.


Posts: 1658 | Registered: Aug 2013
Nature_Girl
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Happy  Posted: 4:34 PM, May 14th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I will take this portion of the challenge & declare it a victory for the day!


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - I DIVORCED HIM, I'M FREE!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RBOJpIwF47Y

Posts: 9234 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
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Default  Posted: 4:34 PM, May 14th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

UK system:

Petitioner files for divorce
Respondent responds (either signing, fighting it or filing a countersuit)

Then parties have to negotiate children's arrangements if they're not in agreement (the courts will not grant Nisi if children are not provided for)

The divorce Decree Nisi is granted (says legally you can divorce, but you are not yet divorced)

Then you can apply for Decree Absolute (legally you are divorced)

Parties can sign documents agreeing finances etc only after the decree Nisi is granted. Most are advised not to apply for the Absolute until everything is settled because it can affect your entitlement to share certain assets. You can block the other party for getting the Absolute if you can show you've not reached financial agreement etc or being divorced would deprive you of benefits not yet negotiated on (ie. health insurance).


So, just beginning things, but on the way there!


Me: BW
Him: STBXWH 'The Arse' - likes strong but broken OW
OW - EA - my friend 'Holy Chick'
COW - Suspected EA/PA 'The Ambassador'
COW - EA/PA - 'Fat Bottomed Girl'


Posts: 721 | Registered: May 2013 | From: UK
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Default  Posted: 4:35 PM, May 14th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I will take this portion of the challenge & declare it a victory for the day!


Me: BW
Him: STBXWH 'The Arse' - likes strong but broken OW
OW - EA - my friend 'Holy Chick'
COW - Suspected EA/PA 'The Ambassador'
COW - EA/PA - 'Fat Bottomed Girl'


Posts: 721 | Registered: May 2013 | From: UK
Linus1968
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Default  Posted: 4:38 PM, May 14th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You're an interesting species, an interesting mix. You're capable of such beautiful dreams and such horrible nightmares. You feel so lost, so cut off, so alone, only you're not. See, in all our searching, the only thing we've found that makes the emptiness bearable is each other. - Contact


Me: Me
Her: Multiple men, multiple times, OC with the latest one
S: 15, D:14
May 27, 2014 DIVORCED!!!
In the words of Dory "Whew, I'm glad I got that off my chest."

Posts: 236 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: Hell, and my X is the mayor (FL)
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 6:02 PM, May 14th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yay!


You can call me NIK

Wise men talk because they have something to say; fools, because they have to say something.
- Plato


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